I live with my uncle. He supports me financially. He put me through college, and still paying for my grad school. Recently he's become an as-s. He insults me all the time, and calls me names. I guess it could it could amount to verbal abuse. On one hand i feel like i should respect him and lay low because he is helping me out. On the other, i feel like **** all the time and i cant take this anymore. He has been physically abusive at times. Im 22, and cant really afford a place of my own yet. You know he is only nice when he is drunk. other than that its like living with satan. I wish that one, day,i can move out at night and not even tell him. He is an ********
2006-12-07 01:01:30 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
you say you are 22 years old? then why are you acting like a 2 year old...you say you are in grad school? that means you have a college degree so you CAN afford to move and get a place of your own...unless of course you secretly like his abuse! there is no excuse for you to live this way and if you are a man you will stand up and be a man and not take this s*hit...sorry but i dont have any sympathy for a grown a*ss man acting like a child!
2006-12-07 01:04:51 · answer #1 · answered by kimbersweet 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like it would be best if you can move out, even if that means dropping out of grad school and living with roommates and standing on your own two feet.To stay in an emotionally abusive situation will only continue to deteriortate your self-esteem to the point where you will feel like you can't make it on you own.
2006-12-07 09:07:25 · answer #2 · answered by bottleblondemama 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He doesn't deserve your respect. You need to leave there before he strips u of all self-worth and self-esteem. I am sure there must be another family member u could stay with, or if u can't afford a place of your own, maybe share one with a friend. There is always help out there, so don't continue to stay in an abusive situation please.
2006-12-07 09:09:25 · answer #3 · answered by Amber 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are old enough to get a job, move out, support yourself and take care of your finances. I dont care what he does for you..he has no right to abuse you in any way, shape or form.
2006-12-07 09:11:24 · answer #4 · answered by Mean Carleen 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋