iam 8 1/2 months pregnant
2006-12-07 01:58:58 · 24 answers · asked by amanda t 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
dang! drop him like a 2 ton bowling ball! in other words don't marry him.
2006-12-07 02:02:11 · answer #1 · answered by Calvin Roy 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Some men just have a hard time saying it but no trouble expressing. And some men can say I love You easier than showing it all men are different. If things are good with the two of you and he makes you fel like he loves you then try not to worry so much if you want him to say it to you say it to him and talk to him about this. Him saying it to his ex that quick probably wasnt real love it was probably one of those I love you now let me get in your pants. Maybe he is just wanting to make sure he really has those kind of feelings for you before breaking your heart. You are pregnant and Congratulations by the way regaurdless of how things work for the two of you there will be a little one needing both of you to love him/her unconditionally take it easy and try not to get upset you need to be healthy for your little one.
2006-12-07 10:05:58 · answer #2 · answered by 2wild4u 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is differnet for everyone you can not compare yourself to his ex's, your 8 1/2 months pregnant and have been together for 1 yr i mean it is an awaful lot to take in you didn't get that much time together as a couple and now you have a baby on the way.
Be careful and don't get hurt it sounds to me like he feels he has to be with you for the baby try and have a serious talk with him about how he feels and about the future do not make it about you and the babay make it about him!
2006-12-07 10:02:12 · answer #3 · answered by Missbutterfly:-) 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the way I look at it if he can tell his ex that he loved her after one month. doesn't matter in your relationship. He could be waiting just to make sure that he doesnt make the same mistake as he did on the first. give him time eventually he would say it from his heart. you wouldn't want him to say it and don't mean it. If you are thinking of marrying him because you have a beautiful child coming into the world. don't. to get married because of a child is only hurting that child. what ever happens be there for your child. Its the best reward any women can have. congradulations and good luck.
2006-12-07 10:09:01 · answer #4 · answered by misty blue 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry to hear that. You should talk to him and tell him how you feel. You can also go to marriage counseling and other things like that. If you choose not to, they think of your baby. Do you really want your child to live in a home where love isn't part of the foundation? There are many sources of help out there...good luck!
2006-12-07 10:12:01 · answer #5 · answered by KIMMY 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Perhaps he was burnt badly by hit ex and subconsciously doesn't want to chance the pain of stating his feelings to have them slapped down. Also, if you are following him around repeating, "I love you" ad infinitem, it pretty much has the same effect as reverse psychology.
For now worry about your impending birth. Perhaps that will open him up. If not, I suggest counseling of some sort.
2006-12-07 10:10:48 · answer #6 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Clearly he made a mistake with his ex or he would still be with her. If he won't say it to you by now then he is probably not sure if he loves you or not. You may have wanted to find this out before you got pregnant though. I suggest you find someone that truly loves you and is not afraid to say it.
2006-12-07 10:02:34 · answer #7 · answered by RayCATNG 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he feels things go bad after he tells someone he loves them. See he told her he loved her and hes no longer with her. He hasnt told u he loves u and hes still with u and even having a baby. Even tho he hasnt said it i'm sure he does love u or he wouldnt still be there with u this long. I know its nice to hear them words too, but he will tell u when hes ready, give him time i'm sure it will be soon.
2006-12-07 10:05:19 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
honey he dont love u if he cant say it in a way i respect that but i would fly like an eagle u dont need him cuz hes your baby's father i was w my ex for 13 years he left me 5 months prego best thing that ever happened to me although i didnt think that at the time focus on your health and your miracle remember your children come first b4 any ******* man good luck and b strong
2006-12-07 10:05:00 · answer #9 · answered by way2cooolmom 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Let him say it when he really feels it because if he says it now that you want to hear, he will just be saying it to get you off his back. He is still in the process of recovery from his last relationship, so just give him time to say those words to you when it will really have meaning and would last forever.
2006-12-07 10:15:02 · answer #10 · answered by asake 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe he fell too fast "in love" before and it didn't work out for him. so now he wants to take it slow. besides you want it to be for real when he does so don't try to force it. the most important thing at this point is that he love his child and help you care for it, the rest may take more time.
2006-12-07 10:02:12 · answer #11 · answered by cami 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋