I can't forget my girlfriend. She got married to someone else because she is from a very traditional family and their didn't get along with my parents. She did it because of family pressure. I can't seem to forget her. It's effecting my career and life. Please advise.
2006-12-07 01:53:24 · 10 answers · asked by SMM 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
There really is no way to just forget somebody you loved. I'm afraid the only answer is time. The pain will go away or be dulled near enough to where you can look back and think, "Whew, I'm glad I didn't have to deal with evil in-laws and a meek woman who still allows her parents to tell her what to do."
I would suggest NOT going on a prowl to find a nice girl to distract you from your heartbreak. Rebound relationships seldom work. Just chill and deal for awhile, hang out with your buds, focus on activities you like. When the pain becomes a distant enough memory, look up and you might very well find the person you were truly meant to be with and that will end up being the final nail in the coffin of your past.
2006-12-07 02:02:20 · answer #1 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok so i had this boyfriend for 4 years and number one i hated his parents ok his mom and things werent working out between us and i started dating and married another guy very quickly it wasnt because i wanted to hurt my ex it was because i was in love with this other man and my ex also says he cant get over me that it affects his life everyday. Well it does mine to. I still love him very much and i think about him everyday every time a song comes on i think about him it reminds me of him. I know i am happy right now with my husband i love him very much but i will never forget my ex cause he was the first love. You will never forget its in your heart. You will move on and find someone to love that will be the love of your life but you will not forget the first love. its apart of your life. If it was meant to be she wouldnt have listend to family pressure she would have told them she loved you and wanted to marry you but she didnt. so obviously the love wasnt really there. she is telling you family pressure because it was an easy excuse. it will will be very hard your heart is broken but you need to move on.
2006-12-07 02:03:52 · answer #2 · answered by tcameron_2004 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you should see someone else. Go out. Try dating and getting to know other people. Go out and do things that you enjoy. Don't shut out the world. Think of it as a new beginning. It wasn't meant to be and there will be another girl for you.
2006-12-07 02:02:09 · answer #3 · answered by MIA 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Time will heal your wounds. Hang in there, it will get easier each day going forward. Try dating and meeting new girls. Ive never met anyone who has died from a broken heart. Good luck
2006-12-07 01:59:26 · answer #4 · answered by hank 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
there must be SOME things about her you didn't like? concentrate on them, enlarge them in your mind, play them in sequence in vivid technicolour fast through your mind. Imagine all the things you are free to do now without compromise. Get out there and get yourself some happiness.
2006-12-07 01:57:37 · answer #5 · answered by Des M 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ok... you're relatively an fool. attempt examining certainly one of her assignments... her call might desire to be on the right. How interior the hell are you able to ask somebody out and ignore her call? human beings like this might desire to in no way be allowed to reproduce.
2016-10-14 05:06:52 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she is not happy there, ask her to leave with you. Marriage is about own happiness, not about what parents want, or what others thinks.
2006-12-07 01:57:34 · answer #7 · answered by dories 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
To love is not to possess. Move on and wish her all the best. Take care!
2006-12-07 01:56:23 · answer #8 · answered by Eddy W 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
**** it man, i understand move on get marrid urslf, i kw its hard, i cnt 4gt my ex everyday it kills me,everthing i do reminds of wot we did!but u hav to move on!
2006-12-07 01:58:47 · answer #9 · answered by imran k 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I feel your pain.
You should move.
2006-12-07 01:56:23 · answer #10 · answered by msjuliet2005 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋