Family & Relationships - 5 December 2006

Can someone give some information about head injures, if someone could come out of it if they have a traumatic head injury? Yesterday on his way home from work my dad was in a car accident. He's in critical condition with head and internal injuries. A truck slid into his car on the ice head on.The doctors said that hes not brain dead but he still will not wake up. I've been crying all day. Im so scared, I made myself sick from crying and being scared. I can't go see my dad. My mom and even the doctors told me I have to go see him but I can't make myself do it. To make it worse there are things I need to tell him. I can't remember the last time I said I loved him or hugged him. He tells me he loves me every day and tries to make me hug him but I always push him away. I was talking to one of his nurses and she told me that touch is very important. But I can't make myself do it. Maybe Im scared he'll hear me or feel me. I dont know it just freaks me out!!! Could someone PLEASE reply!Thx!

2006-12-05 18:27:00 · 15 answers · asked by kate 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

than a friend? I tried to shake hands so I didn't seem pushy. He took my right hand and pulled me into his arms...NOW is that more than friends????

I really DIG him. We've been friends for two years and work together. I just don't want to expect a hug. I love it, but I don't want to expect anything. I do want more, but I don't want to get my hopes up or seem like I am pushing him ...in a corner.

I am definately interested in him.

2006-12-05 18:26:45 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Girls... if u met the hottest guy in the world and he had the best personality but was only about 3 feet tall.. would u date him??

2006-12-05 18:26:24 · 5 answers · asked by mavericksfan1980 1 in Singles & Dating

Divorce is getting nasty,$$$ r disappearing fast.asking me to sell the family home asap,spending $$ on russian ^%^&^%^%openly flaunting it but telling me to cut cost. He is only $$earner but both names on morgage.I am australian permanant Resident

2006-12-05 18:25:38 · 9 answers · asked by dzwatt 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-12-05 18:25:14 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Love, Lust, Like

2006-12-05 18:23:43 · 13 answers · asked by DannyC 2 in Singles & Dating

I think so. I'm a 36dd and alot of guys seem to approach me.

What about you other girls who have big boobs? Do guys flirt with you alot?

Guys, do you tend to notice and approach a girl with big boobs first?

2006-12-05 18:22:34 · 52 answers · asked by jessinica1 1 in Singles & Dating

A guy I know was teasing me jokingly and I got a sad look on my face and he goes "ohh don't do that to me, that look with those eyes..uuhh.." and smiled and laughed. He said that when I am sad he feels bad. What do you think he meant?

2006-12-05 18:21:46 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I'm writing this because what if tomorrow never comes?
What if you never get to say good-bye or give a BIG hug to the people you care about?
What if you never get to say I'm sorry or I love you?If you live to be a hundred, I want to live to be a hundred minus one day, so I never have to live without you." Everyone hears what you say. Friends listen to what you say. Best friends listen to what you don't say."

"A friend is someone who knows the song in your heart and can sing it back to you when you have forgotten the words."
ARE ABOVE THE GUD QUALIFICATIONS ARE ENOUGH TO BECOME GUD FRIEND?TELL ME MORE IMPORTANT QUALUI... OF BEING GUD FRIEND.

2006-12-05 18:20:59 · 8 answers · asked by oxygen4u4survive 1 in Singles & Dating

there are alot of girls at my church and i dont know if any of them like me more then a friend or not, there this one girl i have known all my life and sometimes i think she likes me or if im like a little brother to her

2006-12-05 18:19:21 · 5 answers · asked by centennial baseball 1 in Friends

I don't know if they hate me due to my race, socioeconomic background, that I live 2000 miles away or that I'm older. If I confront them it would make me feel better but if I don't Ill go CRAZY!

2006-12-05 18:18:54 · 13 answers · asked by Leslie G 2 in Marriage & Divorce

my husband is a resturant manager, and our marriage rocky. He hired a female whom he used to work with at a diff. resturant 6 mnths
ago. He didn't tell me about it, I had to notice for myself. Do you think he should have told me?

2006-12-05 18:17:35 · 18 answers · asked by sky 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My uncle has been living with his girlfriend/commonlaw partner for 5 years now, and I was wondering if I should be calling her "Auntie" or not. So far I haven't been calling her auntie and the reason is because they aren't married yet........

2006-12-05 18:15:44 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

For instince, he says and acts as if he isn,t one to sleep around, before I began going with him and now, of course. But some of the people we no tell a different story. He sounds covincing but i feel I cant judge the situation myself. I am very independent and he seems to have issues with it, because of this we argue and he leaves for a week at a time or I may ask him to leave. I have alot of feelings for him but what should I be looking at and what should I do about this situation?

2006-12-05 18:11:42 · 6 answers · asked by bj 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-05 18:11:37 · 37 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

cunnilingus...is this a hint for the two of you to do that. Or is it just something guys talk about? If a guy mentions it to someone he is not dating, but she's a close friend...is it an invitation or not?

2006-12-05 18:10:07 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Guys come here please!?
Guys please.. would you constantly look at a girl if you don't like her?
What are the reasons why a guy might contantly look at a girl, like being able to pick her out of a crowd, and make eye contact with her...then when the girl looks at him, he doesn't look away?

2006-12-05 18:09:54 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Okay here is the deal. I have lost 65lbs and my hubby has gained 65lbs. I find it gross to make love to him. I have offered to pay for his gym membership but he keeps declining. I have fixed healthy meals for him to eat but he throws it away. He has become more jealous over me the more I lose weight. I have tried to tell him I am doing this for my health and i wanna look sexy for him. He is still really jealous. He comes by the gym to see if i am there. He monitors my phone calls even when i am talking to my mother! This has to stop. I have told him if he does not stop it i am leaving! WHat can i do? WHat am i doing wrong???

2006-12-05 18:09:18 · 15 answers · asked by jessica h 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I want to make it special.

2006-12-05 18:06:15 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I am kind of shock.. out of blue i got a marriage proposal ...and i just donno how to say NO... can anyone tell me some polite way .. by not hurting that guy's ego... we are friends but i never expect anything like that and he never flirted with me...!! so there was no way i could have guess that he is interested in me...

2006-12-05 18:05:40 · 18 answers · asked by hi 3 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-05 18:05:38 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

So my boyfriend and I were talking about engagements. He asked me why should I get a real diamond, why could I not get a cubic zirconia one from Walmart? Why should the size of the ring or if it is real matter if you want to marry the person? If you loved them what they got to propose to you shouldn't matter?

I don't know what to say... but I surely don't want an eight dollar ring... but what gives me the right to get a real one?!

Someone help me figure out a way to have a reason why a real one is what people give... not fake

HELP!

2006-12-05 18:04:51 · 16 answers · asked by Steffanie P 2 in Weddings

I think this girl may have a a child by me.

I didn't hear about her till she was about 3 years old.
My old girlfriends husband even told me he thought the girl was mine but she told him if he said anything she would take his sons away from him.
I called her up and she screamed at me the girl wasn't mine (this was a few months after talking to he husband)
A couple years passed and my curiosity was getting to me and I went to a lawyer. he said all the laws were on her side and there was little I could do because she listed the other guy as the father.
I was going to have the lawyer try some paperwork but she moved (another state) and messed that all up.

I let it go for a while (lawyers advice to wait till she is 18)

a couple years ago I started to shearch to web trying to find out where she is but after 2-3 years no luck. The other day I hired an investigator to do a "locate"

If I do find out she is mine I only hope to prove that I did try something. She is 16 now.

2006-12-05 18:04:47 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Do ya (as a yahoo! friend)?I seem to always tell people I love them.but not in that way.Just as a friend.

Love,
The wwe diva of 2010

2006-12-05 18:04:04 · 10 answers · asked by The wwe diva of 2010 3 in Friends

My GF just told me that everytime she kisses me she gets butterflies in her stomach. She says her tummy tingles. Can anyone tell me what this means?

2006-12-05 18:02:57 · 9 answers · asked by michaelsmyth2002 1 in Singles & Dating

his girlfriend is really awesome and is such agood person, but this is a weird situation, ok, she has a daughter from a former relationship and we all grew up together in california so know each other very well. Well, he became very abusive so somtimes she would come stay w/ us and we all been there for her. Well my brother was there for her obviously a little more than I was and they became more then friends she became pregnant and I moved to Arizona and moth later they followed , well they have been her for the whole part of her pregnancy and I KNOW she has been loyal to him and they treat each other well. I know this because I am her best friend and Im always or on the phone w/ her. Well Im draggin this out , but this is my question. There new baby has a dimple on her cheek and one near her mouth just like her older sister and her x- boyfriend. I dont think its my brothers baby and Im not the only one that has noticed this. I know she didnt cheat but they did become involved too so

2006-12-05 18:02:57 · 8 answers · asked by amihavasu6 1 in Family

I'm 22 and he's 27. We haven't been together for long though, yet his parents are eager to see me. How should I look and act?

I'M SOOOOOOO NERVOUS!!!

2006-12-05 18:02:17 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-05 18:01:57 · 5 answers · asked by Mel 2 in Singles & Dating

what can be described as marital happiness? what makes two people so happy in marriage and makes thsi world a beautiful place.

am amrried but in a very boring realtionship. nothing is exciting, we dont go out, we dont laught together, we just share a bed which the sex is as predicatbel as it is boring and am relaly unhappy at the verge of quiting.

can someone married tell me how happy they r and what brings along that kind of happiness?

2006-12-05 18:01:57 · 4 answers · asked by Essie 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I watch their baby (my niece) a few days a week and she is almost 1 year old. Today a friend of mine brought her little dog over for a visit and my niece heard us talking about the dog. Then she pointed right at the dog and said, "Da Da...dog." My friend and I were both awestruck. It was intense at the time. Later this evening when my sister in law came to pick up my neice and I told her that she said "dog," she didn't believe me. She said "Right, there is no way I'm believing that, she can't say dog - she doesn't even understand what a dog is." "I don't believe you for one minute."
Well for starters I don't lie, especially about my baby niece who is learning to talk. This attitute is typical of my sister in law though. She is a very disbelieving person and if she didn't see it with her own eyes, it didn't happen and you must be lying. What do you call people like that...is there a word for it? It's frustrating.

2006-12-05 18:00:48 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family