Family & Relationships - 5 December 2006

I hadn't been with a man for along time. I am talking years, my hubby passed away in 1999. I don't want to be rolling in someones bed. But I am lonely. How does an older person get back into the dating scene. It's been along time for me. I am soo rusty. I don't even know what to do anymore. I want to find a real good man not a one night stand. A relationship if possible. Where and how do I start.

2006-12-05 18:53:04 · 15 answers · asked by cnacyn 1 in Singles & Dating

This guy is 15 and he knew I had to choose between 2 guys. But we were impossibe so i told I love him so much but had to go with the other guy..he just started to ignore me before he would let me know he cared but this time he is gone like the wind I am trying to still be friends with me but he is so stubborn.

2006-12-05 18:52:16 · 10 answers · asked by for_ever_kobe 1 in Singles & Dating

I am 16 years old and there is this one girl named meagan that I know for 4 months and we are friends and she just broke up with somebody named brian and I want to tell her that I like her but I dont now what to say can you please help me.

2006-12-05 18:51:49 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

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2006-12-05 18:51:31 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

There is this guy who says that he really likes me and he wants to sleep with me but I always turn him down. He thinks that I don't like him enough but the problem is that I don't like myself enough and I hate my body and I think he is going to hate it too. I don't know what to do.

2006-12-05 18:51:16 · 25 answers · asked by jlangeforever 1 in Singles & Dating

I have this friend and i must say i consider him one of my closest friend since childhood.. we've been sharing memories for nine years.. But the problem is this, It is only me who is able to stand his attitude.. He likes to talk and he doesn't know that the people he talks to(except me) seems so irritated.. They say, he's full of air, he has no manners, he always provoke people, and he feels even better after he hurts your emotions... But he is soft-hearted, he pretends to be tough.. Only i know that attitude he possess...

2006-12-05 18:50:16 · 9 answers · asked by poochie 1 in Friends

There are times when a couple cannot agree, or they simply feel differenty, which is understandable and basically inevitable IMHO. My problem is that my spouse wants me to feel differently, tells me that my feelings are stupid and wrong and tht is why he doesnt consider them, care about them, or change his course of action in order to protect them.
I can't even imagine ignoring his feelings for ANY reason and it amazes me and hurts a great deal that he would be so dismisive as to say that my (or ANYONES) feelings are wrong and therefore irrelevant.
If it is natural and normal to behave this way, how can I accept it? If i am not alone in my view that this is hugely uhealthy for our marriage and my sanity then how can I get him tosee that?

2006-12-05 18:49:36 · 6 answers · asked by robet_vegas 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I just met a person who is honest and good to me. But there are a lot of people who call him a liar. His stories sound genuine to me but cannot hold true for some people that I have talked to. It is hard for me to lie, and if I did, I would stutter a lot. How can I tell if he is lying or telling the truth?

2006-12-05 18:49:19 · 7 answers · asked by kwest 4 in Friends

2006-12-05 18:49:02 · 12 answers · asked by Betty B 2 in Singles & Dating

My step-sister is 29 and living at home with parents. I am 20 and we were sitting at the table and she pissed me off big time. I could have smashed her face into the back of her skull and wanted to badly. What should I do to get this anger out?

2006-12-05 18:47:55 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

say u see this girl about everyday or atleast once a week pass by u as your having a conversation with a friend in the hallway... now wut (back 2 my question)

2006-12-05 18:47:34 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

If i hear a song i really like i end up playing it over and over,and when i'm not listening to it i think about it in my head. My mom said i'm driving her crazy because it's always the same song i play,she thinks i'm crazy for playing it all the time. How do i stop because i listen to it at least 20 times a day?

2006-12-05 18:45:45 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have a really hard time letting go of relationships even when the other person disappears on me (usually then popping up again down the road...actually, this is what happens in every relationship...they act confused and pop in and out of my life, really torturing me in the process). I always think that I just need to be patient with people. And in the meantime I obsess about why I think the other person is acting the way they are. How do I just let go of someone that I love and move on with my life? I am a really successful person with life in general, but I feel pathetic when it comes to men and with each relationship it just seems to hurt more and more...

2006-12-05 18:44:40 · 13 answers · asked by ? 2 in Singles & Dating

i posted a question earlier about my feelings for a friend who is getting over her ex but now i think i have fallen in love with her as when i see her i cant breath and my heart races so much...her job is her life and she has no time to call or see me and i accept that but i just want to be with her...what do i do cos its killing me that i cant be with her...i dont want to become a stalker ha ha ha will some women give me their opinion please

2006-12-05 18:43:37 · 15 answers · asked by kiwitboi 1 in Singles & Dating

We've been together for 6 years. Within 2 wk period my partner has taken on a new girlfriend from work and dumped me without any consideration - BUT he wants to live under same roof as me, come 'home' a few nights a week when he's not staying with the new girlfriend. I can't believe that he can stop loving me 'over night' and begin treating me like I don't exist. She gets all the attention now. Is this normal behaviour? How can someone do this? Surely you can't just ignore six years and just move on without any grieving process. There was no signs of this happening, we were talking of a life journey together. Please any ideas, I'm devastated!

2006-12-05 18:43:15 · 25 answers · asked by Joanne 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I have a girlfriend but lately she hasnt been wanting to talk to me. She thinks I cheated on her with my friend heather but i only called her over the phone to see how she was doin because she is sick. What should i do?

2006-12-05 18:40:54 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2006-12-05 18:39:37 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2006-12-05 18:39:02 · 8 answers · asked by Bambi 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

Well I really need advice.I am 17 years old and there is this girl I really like but I dont now what to say can you please give me advice.

2006-12-05 18:38:36 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I watched this episode of Law and Order tonight. It was the one where the dermatologist put a tube of some guys blood in his arm. i need help. i couldnt watch the whole thing could someone help me out? what was the meaning of putting it in his arm? what was he trying to hide? and who shot him in the head? was it him that raped the girls or was it the other guy?? so confused.

2006-12-05 18:36:01 · 4 answers · asked by Molly 2 in Friends

do u plan to get married

if u do

will u be faithful
i mean could u be with the same women for the rest of ur life??

2006-12-05 18:35:43 · 20 answers · asked by MoNiCa 2 in Singles & Dating

I AM GETTING MARRIED IN A FEW WEEKS I AM HAVING A HARD DECSION WEATHER OR NOT TO LET MY DAD WALK ME DOWN. LONG STORY SHORT HE HAS REALLY NEVER BEEN THERE FOR ME SINCE I WAS A CHILD AND HE ACTS AS IF HE CARE BUT HE NEVER CALLS OR EVEN CHECKS TO SEE IF I AM STILL BREATHING I COULD BE DEAD FOR ALL HE KNOWS. I THINK THAT I WANT HIM TO WALK BECAUSE I KNOW HOW PRIDE IN MEN CAN GET THE BEST OF THEM SO I REALLY DON'T WANT TO MAKE THE DAY BAD. please only comment if it is civilized I am so tired of these crazy totally random responses filled with stupidity

2006-12-05 18:35:10 · 17 answers · asked by 12good2get 1 in Weddings

, I dont have any job skills, dont work,and totally depend on a money controlling monster.
He wont help me with my student loans, like he said would when I was pregnant, hates the idea of working, wont pay for daycare, I have no friends anymore,he wont get me a car so I can get out, and he always forgets what I say.
Whenever I say I want to leave he threatens me with ur child by saying get out of his house (he owns it) and sign our son over.
I feel trapped, how am I suppose to get a job if I cant get daycare to look after him? My common law husband works mostly out of town as well.
I am depressed, I know why and I cant do nything about it.
I cant believe this is my life, this is not what i ever thought it would be.
I am such a loser.

2006-12-05 18:35:02 · 11 answers · asked by stayathomemomnightmare 1 in Marriage & Divorce

when 2 lovers do that - will they always depart after that or they will come closer than b fore?it seems once its done usually the guy looses interest first to continue the same relationship? if so then y guys r doing this and there r very few cases only where the girls r loosing interest. so guys pls answer what makes u loose the interest in ur girl after this and y ? this is a very biggest mystery i ever wanted to know about the human psychology...

2006-12-05 18:34:56 · 16 answers · asked by ROCK 1 in Singles & Dating

somebody tell me. it's almost as if sometimes he gives me alot of attention and does nice things for me.he teases me and any oppurtunity he can get he comes and talks to me about weekends,etc. then he avoids me.then he starts talking again. wtf help me please.lots of eye contact in conversation too.

2006-12-05 18:33:07 · 5 answers · asked by debra 2 in Singles & Dating

I'm going to see my fiance in 4 weeks with our daughter who is only 14 days old as of today...The problem is that I DO NOT get along with anyone in his family AT ALL!!! They don't like me and I don't like them, and I've tried to make amends with them several times and it has only backfired evry single time I've tried. Now my Fiance wants to go out on a date or two with me when I go up to see him with our daughter, but he doesnt want to take her along because he said that he is going to take me to places where we could possibly get kicked out because of a screaming baby, and he wants me to leave my daughter with his family while we go out!! I feel like since they don't like or respect me, they're going to do the same to my daughter and I feel really unsafe about leaving her with them yet my Fiance told me that its okay...I just want to know how I should deal woth this situation and how I can reasonablly comprimise with my Fiance about this issue. Anyone with suggestions, write back.

2006-12-05 18:29:51 · 15 answers · asked by Winni 1 in Family

There is this guy in my class who's really really cute and i have a mahor crush on him but i dont know how to let him that i like him, he is a little weird and has also asked me out once but then i forund out that it was a joke he played with me and i'm scared that if he asks me out then what should i say, it could be a joke or the truth, and if he doesn't ask me out then how do i let him know that i like him?

2006-12-05 18:29:47 · 6 answers · asked by Don't_Blame_Me_For_Society 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-05 18:29:03 · 30 answers · asked by mahmadi500 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Can someone give some information about head injures, if someone could come out of it if they have a traumatic head injury? Yesterday on his way home from work my dad was in a car accident. He's in critical condition with head and internal injuries. A truck slid into his car on the ice head on.The doctors said that hes not brain dead but he still will not wake up. I've been crying all day. Im so scared, I made myself sick from crying and being scared. I can't go see my dad. My mom and even the doctors told me I have to go see him but I can't make myself do it. To make it worse there are things I need to tell him. I can't remember the last time I said I loved him or hugged him. He tells me he loves me every day and tries to make me hug him but I always push him away. I was talking to one of his nurses and she told me that touch is very important. But I can't make myself do it. Maybe Im scared he'll hear me or feel me. I dont know it just freaks me out!!! Could someone PLEASE reply!Thx!

2006-12-05 18:27:58 · 21 answers · asked by kate 1 in Friends

2006-12-05 18:27:32 · 6 answers · asked by hana 2 in Singles & Dating