I have a girlfriend but lately she hasnt been wanting to talk to me. She thinks I cheated on her with my friend heather but i only called her over the phone to see how she was doin because she is sick. What should i do?
2006-12-05 18:40:54 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
tell her that, dude, and if she doesn't understand, there's nothin you can do about it, so forgive her and wait until she comes to her senses.
2006-12-05 18:44:15 · answer #1 · answered by Wyatt B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yo dude, tell her trust is the highest thing on your list when it comes to a relationship. If there is no trust, there isn't an relationship. If then she does not trust you after that, then you really DO have a problem. Tell her also that you love her and would never cheat on her. Just tell her what you've been through in y' alls relationship and how you want to make things even better. If that doesn't work, then its hopeless.
2006-12-06 02:45:26 · answer #2 · answered by gdzplaya903 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have no idea how old you are but this is an age old sceario---happens over and over---to just about everyone at one time or another. First of all, YOU know the truth---and if it so silly that a girlfriend is taken by your gesture to a friend, she needs to take the time to listen to what she is saying. She needs to regroup or you need to stop explaining and move on---not another word about it---grow up. This girl of yours is not going to disappear if you decide to move on--- just be the bigger person, be polite but not another word about it. If she never talks to you again---oh well, you don't need her.You can't live YOUR life dictated to by anyone else---that is just a stupid way to live. 5 years from now you won't even remember this girl---trust me. Move on and enjoy your day.
2006-12-06 03:03:08 · answer #3 · answered by fire_inur_eyes 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you should move on..obvioiusly shes not mature enough to handle a relationship right now...if your friend was sick, you should have the right to call her without being accused of cheating...you don't want a girl like that...GET OUT!!!
2006-12-06 02:43:53 · answer #4 · answered by DefLeppardxXx 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just explain tat to her, tell her that you just called ur friend bc she was sick and u wanted to how how she was doing...if she really cares about you, she will understand and trust you.
Good luck!!!
2006-12-06 02:52:41 · answer #5 · answered by Confused 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first off, she's accusing you of something she is probably doing herself, because iv'e been though this as well, it's a b#@*!, but tell her u can not be with her if she don't trust you, it may seem harsh but its life, better sooner than later.
2006-12-06 02:48:54 · answer #6 · answered by ish 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Relationships are built on trust. Without trust there is no relationship tell her that.
2006-12-06 02:46:23 · answer #7 · answered by *ACDC* 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her the truth and hope she understands, send her some cute love letter and beauitful flowers, i am sure she will forgive you and understand
2006-12-06 02:47:50 · answer #8 · answered by Don't_Blame_Me_For_Society 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Write her a nice long letter and good luck!!
2006-12-06 02:42:50 · answer #9 · answered by rhonda_seiler 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you know what give me her email address and i'll send this post to her, let her read this, it shows how muchh you are telling the truth, and how lost you are.
just send this post to her.
2006-12-06 02:44:55 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋