Family & Relationships - 5 December 2006

he kept telling me that he was to shy when i would ask him..and then last night he called and told me that he was tired of lying to me about that and he would tell my why at the pool.whats his problem??

2006-12-05 19:17:31 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Especially at best friends, family members or boy/girl friends.

2006-12-05 19:16:58 · 8 answers · asked by hana 2 in Singles & Dating

We broke up 3 weeks ago, well today we started talking and we realized we had been doing evreything to hurt the other. Apologized, and then we started talking again. I mean she has called me like 5 times today. when before she wouldnt even answer my call.The last time she called cause I fish I bought her for our one year anniversary died. When I gave it to her I said it was a symbol of our love, that as long as that fish was alive then our love would not die. So she was sad and said she was going to get another one tomorrow cause she was so sad. And then she said that I could go get her one so that what it has the same meaning because she doesnt want our love to die. the catch.she has been being friends with this guy from work for the last 2 weeks. Now she has said time and time again that he is just a friend. That there is nothing going on between them. She did admit that he wants more she told him that she needs time to get over us, but I think I saw them huggin how do I ask about it

2006-12-05 19:15:05 · 5 answers · asked by lost_93710 1 in Singles & Dating

And if you do, how can you tell?
What do you think?

2006-12-05 19:14:24 · 36 answers · asked by xmalalaura 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-05 19:13:33 · 5 answers · asked by fm_aqua 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I've been with my girl for a year. I love her. I swear i do. BUT I flirt with other girls, get them to like me, and then I "leave em" cuz i dont wanna cheat on her. I think I do it cuz I like the feeling of getting girls to like me. Most of the time i feel bad for both of them, cuz i have a feeling what im doing is wrong. AND if it is wrong how do i stop if i live in south beach, work in a hotel, and see hundreds of beautiful women a day??

2006-12-05 19:10:16 · 30 answers · asked by BRN305 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-05 19:10:15 · 8 answers · asked by fm_aqua 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Do y'all..especially guys...like the fragrances from Victoria's Secret?

I have Forbidden Fantasy, Love Spell, and Romantic Wish. I love them all!

2006-12-05 19:09:57 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-05 19:08:45 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-05 19:07:08 · 25 answers · asked by joe 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-05 19:06:41 · 8 answers · asked by Dan G 1 in Friends

so i met this girl, and we hit it off so amazingly well.. but she has a bf who goes to another college. shes been pulling off long distance for eight months but she said shes only seen him for about a month. i feel horrible, but i like her so much and i feel that she likes me too.. what do i do?

2006-12-05 19:06:15 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-05 19:06:13 · 8 answers · asked by ish 1 in Singles & Dating

have been unhapily married for the last 4 years. have a daughter aged 3. Everyday in those 4 yrs i knew my marriage was wrong and i wanted out. I didnt do it coz of lack of guts. wondering what to tell hubby and also thinking abt what other people wud say.

but now i have said 'nough is 'nough and i have looked for an apartment and paid for and furninshing it now.

my problem is how do i now end this? how do i tell hubby am moving out. i have come this far i cant back off in my plans.

please help

2006-12-05 19:06:02 · 7 answers · asked by Essie 2 in Marriage & Divorce

So this girl Is taking me for a slow ride and I know I can wait cause I love everything about her but what signs do I look for to make sure she really wants to be with me? She only seems to get really close to me during the weekends but always calls me to chill with me ALL the time during the weekdays with the other 15 people that always comes over to.... I got alot of friends and my parents are never home so my house is the place to be at. She thinks I'm really cute but is taking it slow to get to know me I think cause she said she barly knew me when I ask her out. So I'm just being myself and always having a smile when she in the room. I guess my question is how can I tell if she really does like me for more than my looks? I already ask if she like me and I told her how I felt and she kinda didnt really saying anything but that she didnt really know me. What do you girls think?? also at parties she always sits on my lap and wants me to dance with her and holds my hand when cuddling.

2006-12-05 19:05:11 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have tried internet dating for 2 years. I am 35 and have been told I am a great friend and I know men find me attractive but I will not date men who are married or in a relationship. have been careful to meet guys for coffee first after e-mailing, chatting on the phone etc. I have met four guys that I like but the last 3 have been cheating on me with their ex wives or other women. It has usually come to light after a couple of months. I always hold back, get to know the guy over a few weeks etc. Maybe it's just bad luck but I met a guy a few weeks ago and we have met up 3 times over the last 3 weeks and got as far as kissing and cuddling, going to the cinema, out for drinks, meals etc. I was shocked when a good friend of mine confided that this guy had been e mailed her via the same site this week. I confronted him and he was very apologetic and said he wanted to get to know me and did a stupid thing. I feel hurt and confused. I really thought we had something. Any advice?

2006-12-05 19:04:34 · 9 answers · asked by Sarah 3 in Singles & Dating

its been a year now and i dont see an end in sight. i see her 2 or 3 times a week but its hard to sent her home to a abusive husband every night. their child is his control over her. he signed his guardianship away after he had her arrested, so his parents have the child. she's a great mother and will not give up on her only chance to get her daughter back.i know this is selfish but i'm tired of being alone and of worrying about her safety every minute.its really starting to seem as if there is no end. i'm 100% in-love with this woman and i found quitting the relationship impossible so far. she claims to feel just as strong. when do i draw the line? a year is along time to be alone and completely faithful when she cant be doing the same. am i an idiot? thats how i feel sometimes

2006-12-05 19:03:45 · 10 answers · asked by Kevin C 1 in Marriage & Divorce

y do i still miss my x girlfriend of 3 years she left me 4 what i thought was a friend and i hate her but i love her it will be 3 months on the 10th i see her drive by every tuesday and thursday between my classes an collage she gets out at the same time but its across campus and theres only one way out because of construction and i wish it was the same as it was i niss her and i hate her but i still love her

2006-12-05 19:03:34 · 9 answers · asked by dieseldick3408 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-12-05 19:01:03 · 10 answers · asked by * 1 in Singles & Dating

Ok im in love with my best guy friend of two years. 1) i told him i liked him 3 times, the first time he said K... the second i see you as a sister but no more than a friend and no less than a friend.. the thrid time he said idk who i like but no matter what we will always be friends...2) well the other day he kisses me unexpectedly and we made out for a while and i stopped and said whats happening and he said idk so we held hands and he had his arm around me.. then he kisses me again unexpectedly and we make out and so on he fingers me like a bunch.. i told him we couldnt have sex bc it was all too much at once for me and im not a virgin and he is.. but anyways it was weird i guess. but he was cool with that we just held each other actually he held me..3) the next day he says sorry i wasnt myself and it shouldnt of happened. Ok i was then confused. 4) during the makeout and holding part he said we couldnt date and i was cool with that bc I didnt want to sound like I was hurting

2006-12-05 19:00:51 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My daughter is only 2 yrs old but Im so surprised at her vocabulary. My other daughters are 5 and 7 and always mumbled until they were about 3 is when you could really understand them. I think its cause she is around the older girls so she has learned big girl words. Well anyways she saw my sister in law breast feading her newborn and said " ooh that Nasty. Take that out her mouth and put it back in your shirt." There was nothing exposed but she was sitting close enough to see and give her opinion

2006-12-05 19:00:44 · 12 answers · asked by amihavasu6 1 in Family

2006-12-05 18:59:51 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-12-05 18:58:31 · 29 answers · asked by soma 1 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Is it cause ive gained weight and its all me or what I love him with all my heart but ,I have alot of stress and feel unappreciated sometimes and then he whines about never getting any,that includes oral nothing against him I just dont wanna,help!!!!!!

2006-12-05 18:57:51 · 11 answers · asked by turnpage692002 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-12-05 18:57:32 · 9 answers · asked by dzwatt 1 in Marriage & Divorce

if some one beloved cant express her feeling and he would marry to other what she has to do.......the one is loving her she is also loving him but due to family probs she never told him that she is in love with him. So he got married with other to whome he did'nt love Now what she has to do...................

2006-12-05 18:56:14 · 9 answers · asked by Lovie 1 in Singles & Dating

just like doll, boy, toy, travelling, sex etc.

2006-12-05 18:55:18 · 29 answers · asked by pinku 1 in Singles & Dating

How can I stop being insecure? It's kind of causing me to be jealous and paranoid. There is a girl I like and can't find the guts to ask her out let alone talk to her. Whenever I see her with another guy even though she isn't dating anyone, I get jealous and don't want her next to or talking to other guys. I also think that something is going on. I wanna change but don't know how.

2006-12-05 18:54:14 · 6 answers · asked by kirr45 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I love a guy very much.Now it is about 2months running he split up with me without any reason.I know he loves me a lot.He is saying our family wont except our relation.coz i m 2yr seniour to him.Our relation lasted for 1year .I cant forget him.We both are suffering.I can see he is suffering .Although he had taken this decision to break up.I want him back.He is avoiding me a lot .it hurts u know.He is not replying my sms ,he is not coming infront of me.he is avoiding me totally.But i want him back .I didn't fell in love when i saw him.He convinced me.It took him 4 months.Now all of a sudden he left me. I told him if i love him truely then he is bound to come back.One month i had tried heart and soul to bring him back.I failed.i even backmailed him emotionally.But nothing seem to work.He is very stubborn.Now i need ur help.Help me to get him back.plz.

2006-12-05 18:54:03 · 11 answers · asked by Blue flower 3 in Singles & Dating

Any hotline for family advice. I do not know who to talk to. I am confused.. I want to divorce withmy hubby but no courage to do so as I had 2 kids .worry about financial stability. My hubby had a woman n a son outside .He hopes that I,he and she can live in harmony. What is this world. I had tried to accept but in the end i can't face the fact at all.I really depressed.He had said both of us are good he do not know how to choose between us...Please advise!!!

2006-12-05 18:53:23 · 10 answers · asked by sun 1 in Marriage & Divorce