so i met this girl, and we hit it off so amazingly well.. but she has a bf who goes to another college. shes been pulling off long distance for eight months but she said shes only seen him for about a month. i feel horrible, but i like her so much and i feel that she likes me too.. what do i do?
2006-12-05 19:06:15 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
wait it out
2006-12-05 19:12:09 · answer #1 · answered by Wyatt B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that you should let her make up her mind about what she wants to do. Dont go and tell her to break thing off with him just so that the two of you can be together. You never know what type of feeling the two of them have that she hasnt even told you about and you dont want to break up a good thing just so that she can get a quick fix because her b/f is out of town. He is out of town to better his education and she knew that it was gonna be long distance and that she was gonna miss him b4 he left. So you need to let her make up her own nmind b4 you just step in and have a relationship with her. Her b/f do have to come back in town sometimes and that will not be a pretty home comming to see his girl with another guy when she is suppose to be with him.
2006-12-06 03:15:56 · answer #2 · answered by Ask Ashlynn!!!! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are young just have fun and seize the carp or something like that. The fact that she all ready has a boyfriend is her own personal moral dilemma not yours just don't expect a lasting relationship to form.
2006-12-06 03:12:15 · answer #3 · answered by *ACDC* 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if she has a bf then try to find a nice girl thats single not seeing anyone, hey i kinda sounds like my crush when i was in the 6th grade her name is Loan Nguyen first we were hitting it off well, but then i kept starring and following her now she hates me and gives me dirty looks, then in the 8th grade year i saw her with a guy
2006-12-06 03:12:14 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont push things. Thats the last thing you want to do.Rushing is no good for either one of you. Just be there for her as a friend if more comes of it so be it, Dont intened on falling in love dont go looking for love just let love find you.
2006-12-06 03:11:29 · answer #5 · answered by Lilmisssassy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hm....think wisely.....Make sure that this girls really likes you....and not using you in replacement for her absent boy friend. If you think you like her and she likes you....ask her to inform her boyfriend that their relationship can't work because of long distance and she is falling for other. Tell her to be honest.....If she really did that for you.....I think she is really meant for you....but if she is placing her foot in two boats.,......hm.... I think she's cooking up something......she just want an assurance that if the other boat will sink , there 's still another boat that can save her.....(THAT'S YOU !!!!)
2006-12-06 03:19:45 · answer #6 · answered by ETan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask her what she feels towards the other guy and if she likes him more then you and would leave you if he came to see her.. as her if she still thinks of him all the time.. really its just that way. if she does dont date her and dont see her cuz it will only be a big mess
2006-12-06 03:09:01 · answer #7 · answered by AdrianAP 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
does she really like you? i mean are you sure about her feelings for you? maybe she is just being nice.. tell her how you feel and ask her what she feels about you..it may turn out good but it may also turn out bad..at least she knew how you feel and you knew how she feels..
2006-12-06 03:14:30 · answer #8 · answered by '-baby_koh'- 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay in the background and see if she splits from her boyfriend. If she does"go for it".
2006-12-06 03:12:03 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
quick!go and tell her say you like her so much.if you never say like that ,maybe have person already to respond love with your girl
2006-12-06 03:14:17 · answer #10 · answered by gigi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when it comes down to it, she is already in a relationship so any decision making should go to her.
2006-12-06 03:09:04 · answer #11 · answered by ryrysofly11 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋