y do i still miss my x girlfriend of 3 years she left me 4 what i thought was a friend and i hate her but i love her it will be 3 months on the 10th i see her drive by every tuesday and thursday between my classes an collage she gets out at the same time but its across campus and theres only one way out because of construction and i wish it was the same as it was i niss her and i hate her but i still love her
2006-12-05 19:03:34 · 9 answers · asked by dieseldick3408 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
u miss her or hate her??which?
i think u still love her....but u afraid of getting hurt again by her?if she isn`t going with some other men,why not ask her what she feels about u ?
2006-12-05 19:06:43 · answer #1 · answered by lara 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I too had a situation like that happen to me. I had an ex girlfriend who turned me down when I asked her to marry me because she didn't want to get married again. So what does that b*tch do? After I moved away, she started dating and then married a mutual friend a year later. Now I hate them both, and I made voodoo dolls too, but deep down I still love her as well. The reason we still care about our respective ex-significant others is; we each gave them part of our heart...and we want it back, because without a heart--you can't live. Maybe it is because we shared a side of ourselves with them that we don't let others see? We don't do this with every girl, just a few. So when the f*cking b*tch does something like that, we still care.
2006-12-06 03:15:59 · answer #2 · answered by USAF, Retired 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes love is like a worn pair of shoes. You get use to having a person around and then bam the relationship ends, leaving you alone and missing that person. Keep your head high and remember the good times and pray that someone will make you feel that way again. Start a new search to feel that void.
2006-12-06 03:07:56 · answer #3 · answered by nasturtium41 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You still care because you are normal. The relationship was clearly important to you, more so than it was to her evidentally. You need to move on, which I'm sure you know, but give yourself time. You need to grieve, as you would for any other loss. Let yourself go through the process and hope it doesn't take to long. There's load of other young ladies out there, looking for caring men.
2006-12-06 03:08:36 · answer #4 · answered by gerrifriend 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U still love her deep down. U should talk to her and get some closure on the whole situation.
Listen to Prince's: Eye Hate You. See how you feel after listening to that song.
2006-12-06 03:11:23 · answer #5 · answered by mzagge06 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know how you feel. My soon-to-be Ex-wife is divorcing me soon, and I miss her already. I didn't want things to end, and I battled hard and fiercely to keep the love alive, but she turned to stone and won't even shead a tear at our seperation. We haven't had our final court date yet, and I don't know whether to keep trying to love her, or hate her for the cold ***** she's become.
2006-12-06 03:09:52 · answer #6 · answered by zelgadiss 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Memories, imprints on your soul.
2006-12-06 03:06:28 · answer #7 · answered by rhonda_seiler 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You love her....so much....but ur just to afraid to be hurt again...if i were you..win her back...
2006-12-06 03:47:07 · answer #8 · answered by Beth 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
call her.. talk to her.
2006-12-06 03:55:36 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋