I love a guy very much.Now it is about 2months running he split up with me without any reason.I know he loves me a lot.He is saying our family wont except our relation.coz i m 2yr seniour to him.Our relation lasted for 1year .I cant forget him.We both are suffering.I can see he is suffering .Although he had taken this decision to break up.I want him back.He is avoiding me a lot .it hurts u know.He is not replying my sms ,he is not coming infront of me.he is avoiding me totally.But i want him back .I didn't fell in love when i saw him.He convinced me.It took him 4 months.Now all of a sudden he left me. I told him if i love him truely then he is bound to come back.One month i had tried heart and soul to bring him back.I failed.i even backmailed him emotionally.But nothing seem to work.He is very stubborn.Now i need ur help.Help me to get him back.plz.
2006-12-05 18:54:03 · 11 answers · asked by Blue flower 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think you are from iran & i think i know you too or one of my friends is in you situation. but this a fact if the family doesnt accept you , then you wont be happy together. dont make him ignor his family.he needs them.be good freinds but dont look for any conclusion for your relation. good luck & i wish you the best .
2006-12-05 19:07:33 · answer #1 · answered by M*K*H 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you can never force someone to love you. dont try because you might be driving him further away. emotionally blackmailing him isn't really gonna win you any points. he has taken the decision to end the relationship so he must have had a reason. if he's avoiding you it probably means he's trying to move on. you should too. you have to understand that somethings were just never meant to work out. you should do your best to get over this before it takes over your life. you cant afford to obsess over this dude. life is way too short to wait for someone who is over you.
2006-12-05 19:07:12 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
The best way to get him back is to back away completely, let him see what he is missing, and wait. In the meantime, start going out with friends, get a hobby, anything to shift your focus from him.
And if he tries to come back and by then you have moved on (I know you think you won't - that's okay) then you will be fine in the end anyway.
2006-12-05 19:03:48 · answer #3 · answered by Sugar 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Guys who are splitting up with their girlfriend often don't tell the girl all of their reasons for wanting to split up.
Many guys often get tired of being friends with one girl only. They want freedom to butterfly from one good-looking girl to another. And this often is the biggest reason why they want to split up.
But to avoid looking like the male equivalent of a s l u t, guys often tell their girlfriend only socially acceptable reasons for wanting to split up. These socially acceptable reasons may be true too. But quite often they are not the main reasons for splitting up.
2006-12-05 19:07:07 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
really if the parrents dont agree with the relationship it is gonna be the hardest thing to ever cope with above it.. at least this way he still loves you and you love him and you wont have a family that you two fight over.. having your parents in a relationship yooh have is a great thing. dont ever do something behind your parrents back like date / sex / marry a person. because it will be hard on yourself him and any children you might have that way..
2006-12-05 19:02:10 · answer #5 · answered by AdrianAP 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
How did he convince you?
Try using that tactic with him, If he tried it with you he must have thought it would work for a reason right?
If that doesnt work, GET OVER IT
Move along
Give yourself some much needed ego boosting and then find someone who will always put you first
2006-12-05 19:02:15 · answer #6 · answered by robet_vegas 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't think he is worth crying for. I'll be honest with you. He might have replace you for someone else and just gave u a very shallow reason for you to feel guilty of. If and when he really loves you he will come back to you. since its been a month and you failed try to forget him and I am sure you can find someone that will truly and honestly love you. THIS TIME PLEASE BE WISE....MEN ALWAYS HAVE SWEET WORDS....DON'T BE FOOLED BY THEM.......
2006-12-05 19:07:12 · answer #7 · answered by ETan 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Do not need any connection to him take time, have patient, have patient, it is the better then a lot of waiting .
2006-12-05 19:09:54 · answer #8 · answered by ashekmurshed 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think it`s ok for a boy to marry a girl older to him.why did he think ur parents won`t accept him?i can`t understnd him
2006-12-05 19:00:43 · answer #9 · answered by lara 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Um... I think its time to meet new people
2006-12-05 19:01:32 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋