Family & Relationships - 5 December 2006

and save our relationship, and should I even try? The guy is a chronic liar. Like about everything. Big important things as well as small insiginficant things. I have talked to him about it over and over again. The scary thing is maybe he doesnt even realize he is lying. Is this possible? I can catch him red handed and provide proof, and he still maintains that he is telling the truth. Is this a losing battle or is there a way to stop this? Help, because I am ready to call it quits.

2006-12-05 19:34:12 · 17 answers · asked by meeahcat 1 in Singles & Dating

I have average looks and average intelligence. Often, people like me on first impression because I can push myself to be outgoing, confident and charming and occassionally say something bright. The result is that I usually attract people who are both good looking and intelligent (in short, people who are better than me)

But once they really get to know me they find that I'm not as bright or charming as they once thought. It's too stressful to keep up facades. I want to be me, but the real me is uncreative and boring. I don't say this because I'm fishing for pity, I really mean this.

What can I do to stand out and attract those I want, but not set such high expectations for myself?

2006-12-05 19:32:43 · 7 answers · asked by crazygalbruno 1 in Singles & Dating

i was just cursed out by my "bf". It was all because i got sick and tired of being ignored...and he never tells me what's up with him. I have to keep guessing. Its driving me crazy. i tell him im tired of it and he curses at me......tells me he shouldnt be around me and whatnot.....i truly didnt know what was up.....he assumed i knew...and that his parable away message explained it. I felt bad....for caring so much........and i want to forget about him but i know thats stupid......but it hurt what he called me.....and i dont think i can forgive him.........for not being sensitive to my feelings.

2006-12-05 19:31:20 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-05 19:31:03 · 6 answers · asked by Avril Kate Elane 18 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

ok i want to tell a former freind to leave me alone becase he is a jackass but he is connected with the girls so he will say that i slept with a girl he will chose at random (i am a virgin) if i tell him to bug off (im am NOT a bi. he use to be one of my freinds from Camas when we were 11) and I am in HS so that makes it difficult please help me he is a jackass

i forgot to add that if i attacked him he has a hand gun in his backpack put 2 and 2 together

2006-12-05 19:30:58 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2006-12-05 19:30:34 · 19 answers · asked by Junaid F 1 in Weddings

i wont tell

2006-12-05 19:30:26 · 7 answers · asked by ginger 6 in Friends

With her ex-husband being very difficult and unreasonable when it comes to their child. He can not compromise and wants everything his own way even if it is not in the best interests of the child. He disregards what the child actually wants to do!
Is this Hostile Aggressive Parenting??
Does he have the signs?
How do you prove that it is happening??Apart from keeping a log of events?
How to deal with it best?
Has anybody else encountered this??

2006-12-05 19:29:21 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

This rebound relationship (she just got out of a 3 year) chick is hitten me up pretty hardcore and is clearly down to get down the only problem is two dates in, i realized she had hair on the top of her lip, none of my friends noticed and i didnt at first but now its a problem i came up with an excuse for why i cant come over to her place tonight because i dont think i would be able to...maintain a good reputation. what do i do?

2006-12-05 19:28:07 · 17 answers · asked by DRNOPE 2 in Singles & Dating

the few days before i went to meet a gal that i met online for the first time... i flirted with my ex and exchanged a few lovey dovey emails...

when i met this new gal... OMG... things was fantastic.... we were what we were looking for all our lives... it was a fantastic weekend... however things went south after that... she happened upon my gmail i left open on her laptop... she then read the emails i sent to my ex... hell hath no fury for a woman scorned...

i love her and i treasure her... how do i regain her trust?
what happened was BEFORE we made any form of commitment to each other... i want to heal her hurt... how do i do it...

2006-12-05 19:27:08 · 5 answers · asked by sperio 2 in Singles & Dating

this guy..that i was involvedd with..me and him did stuff together.we even had sex..and he still contacts me and talks sweetly and romantically with me...and even said he was thinking to go long term with me..so i guess he likes me..but i found out he is trying to look for other chicks...in his CASTE..(as we r indian)..for MARRIAGE..he is also trying to get to know others.from his own religion..and flirting around w. them..and possibly marry them..why is he doing that if he likes me..How can he do that.>PLS TELL ME WHAT SHUD I THINK N WHAT SHUD I DO? SHUD I CONFRONT HIM? n be like why da hell r u wasting my time if ur gona look for other chiks?? M i over reacting? or IS HE WRONG?..ths all I want to know..JUST ANSWER THAT N ADVISE ON WHT TO DO PLS!!! isnt he soo wrong?!! n how i know is cuz i like him so much that i made a fake id and tested him to c how he was..n he was really flirty and stuff....:(((( what shud i doo pls advice me..!

2006-12-05 19:26:34 · 17 answers · asked by sneha 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-05 19:26:32 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

how to get rid of pimples on the face quickly and permanantly???please help!!

2006-12-05 19:26:09 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i did not do well in my 1st exam bout 2mnths back & i get angry at him cause he won't let me be out after 8pm and have 2 back by 8pm and if i go in the morning have to be back in the afternoon and if any time after that have 2 be back at 8pm and i don't me and my friend get insulted even after living in a city am 17yrs (not allowed to use bikes even after owning 1 and have a legal age t ride it) the thing that hurts me the most is my dad never understands me and my girlfriend gets more time to be outside than me....what should i do

2006-12-05 19:25:35 · 7 answers · asked by kill a rat 1 in Family

So:
If a fourteen-year old boy e-mail and told a girl his real feeling towards her and she said she just wanted to be friends, does it 100% mean that she doesn't like him? Or can there be other reasons? Considering that they are STILL 14, I think that the boy has done a huge mistake because it involved a lot of feeling. What do you think?

2006-12-05 19:25:26 · 5 answers · asked by Life is Like A Box of Chocolate 1 in Singles & Dating

The problem is that she is still married with 4 kids, i don't care about the kid's I love those kids, but the marriage, it's not much of a marriage. The relationship is more like being best friends. I don't know if I should stick with it or get out now b/c I do know that she does love me.

2006-12-05 19:25:07 · 9 answers · asked by ? 1 in Singles & Dating

Dated a man with narcissism...Emotionally abusive, self centered..I had to go, but in hind sight, was wondering, IS there any way to endure, or survive this kind of one way relationship?(That's healthy..)

2006-12-05 19:24:33 · 7 answers · asked by lil_grrrl69 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I am 20 and there is this girl at Chik-fil-A that is like 22 or so. For those of you that don' know what Chik-fil-A is it is a restaurant that is only in the Southeastern US. I used to go through the drive through everyday for a month to pick up food for me and the guys at work. In this time I used to talk to her a lot. I moved away for about a year and then came back. I went back to the Chik-fil-A and she was still there and she remembered me and we started talking again. Now I took my cousin with me one time and he said by the way he saw things that she did like me but I don't know I'm not that good at reading signs. Will it work out between us if she does like me and my second question is does she like me or is she just flirtatious?

2006-12-05 19:23:21 · 4 answers · asked by kirr45 1 in Singles & Dating

I have been in love with someone I can't have for years, I really thought i'd get over him, but it never happens. Am I to live with this agony forever? Maybe it's true that if you really fall for someone, they never leave your heart.

2006-12-05 19:23:20 · 14 answers · asked by charmed one 2 in Singles & Dating

ok one party has broken the trust that was very good at one time. is there a quick fix? i know the passage of time can make it happen, in a long healing process. but what are the things that will speed the process? which side is responsible? or what can each side do to rebuild?

2006-12-05 19:23:19 · 7 answers · asked by edward x 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I've been with my girl for a year, and the sex is great. So good i usually wanna do it an an avereage of 3 or 4 times a day, but she doesn't. I dont want to cheat on her but i have ex's waiting in line. What do i do. N IM NOT gonna do it my self if u know what i mean.

2006-12-05 19:22:21 · 10 answers · asked by BRN305 1 in Singles & Dating

Rib you about things sometimes?Isn't part of being friends ragging on each other?

2006-12-05 19:22:15 · 7 answers · asked by rolly c 1 in Friends

A girl who I work with, different deparments though, gave me a couple of balloons, a rose, & a hug for my birthday on Dec 4th. Does that mean she really likes me?

2006-12-05 19:21:29 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i need to prepare a wedding speach

2006-12-05 19:21:21 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

I asked everyone there point of view last week on this subject. Although I got alot of good answers, Im still having a really hard time dealing with this whole situation!And hes not just Bi-curious, Hes Bi-Practicing.

2006-12-05 19:21:13 · 2 answers · asked by justjellybeans 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Hello Girls,
I am 25 years old, used to live in a small village of Rajasthan. I got verious quality, like singin, playing musical instruments, writing stories & poems, shayary, painting. Also I am very good in computer operating. I learnt 3 programing langualges, I am creative, I am very funny, many jocs etc. I have learnt by heart. But now I am working far from my village in orissa. I donot have any one to talk with. I am so lonly & I was never so lonly. Will you please be my pen-friend.

2006-12-05 19:20:35 · 9 answers · asked by jogi 2 in Singles & Dating

me(17) and dad(41) were sitting in the comp room just after i came from gym, he told me 2 come and withdraw cash and buy some ice cream. i told him dad my body's hurting cause i went 2 gym after a week, he got angry and closed my allowance and shouted at me. he has citika(shooting pain in d back of your thighs) i came 2 know dis after he came back after buying the ice cream and i knew he has back ache cause he's overweight. further he's more angry cause we are a rich Zoroastrian family and i don't wear my religious clothing or follow the customs, but believe in god and i don't study cause my next IB(international baccalaureate) exams are in may 2007. my next question is coming in 2 minutes please read and answer in the next question. the question is "more pain". cause both did fit in 1 question

2006-12-05 19:20:04 · 2 answers · asked by kill a rat 1 in Family

2006-12-05 19:19:54 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

what name/names would you give him/her?...
& why?.....

:)

2006-12-05 19:18:56 · 10 answers · asked by lucky me 3 in Family

I mean he/she does not verbally say that I was wrong, but you notice by conversation that he/she is very ashamed of his fault, then do you press on him/her to actually come out with words

2006-12-05 19:18:50 · 5 answers · asked by fm_aqua 1 in Singles & Dating