Let me propose to you this scenario..?

Question

So:
If a fourteen-year old boy e-mail and told a girl his real feeling towards her and she said she just wanted to be friends, does it 100% mean that she doesn't like him? Or can there be other reasons? Considering that they are STILL 14, I think that the boy has done a huge mistake because it involved a lot of feeling. What do you think?

Answer 1

Of course the girl will still like the boy...........If I was him I would stay around as a friend...

If she starts dating someone else, the boy will then know she isnt interested in him....

But if she doesn't start dating for a while, the boy will know that she is probably just a litle hesitiate of getting into a relationship at that age../.

Answer 2

They are still 14, haven't seen each other correct? You can't kiss a computer.you have tolearn to meet people. How can you display feelings to someone you haven;'t met. You have already set yourself up for disaster. Get real! No offense intended!

Answer 3

I did the same thing when i was 13! (but back then it was with paper and pencils) First, don't worry, its not the end of the world! Your probably not her type and as much as you think she is the one for you, she probably isn't and if she is, she will come to her senses later. Just keep it friendly, and don't bug her!

Answer 4

I think that if she says she just wants to be friends then you should move on and not waste your time. There are plenty of other women for you to plow anyway. 10 years from now you wont even remember her name.

Answer 5

If he spilled his guts to her and she didn't turn into a pile of mush and totally want to date him... YEAH she totally doesn't want to date him.

Sorry, pal... Been there... the "just friends" thing REALLY means it. She had nothing to lose if she told you her feelings... and she didn't have them for you.