ok one party has broken the trust that was very good at one time. is there a quick fix? i know the passage of time can make it happen, in a long healing process. but what are the things that will speed the process? which side is responsible? or what can each side do to rebuild?
2006-12-05 19:23:19 · 7 answers · asked by edward x 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
The first thing is to know that the one that broke the trust is in the wrong, but that re-hashing that knowledge is not necessarily the best way to heal.
Counselling is your first step. Apart from that, the side that was in the wrong needs to make every effort to account for each and every moment away, so as to re-build trust. Yes, it's tough, but it's necessary.
Both need to build on what's there - the friendship, the history, etc. Talk, go away together, and truly get to what led the trust breaker to do so in the first place - I believe no-one ever WANTS to... yet they do..
2006-12-05 20:22:57 · answer #1 · answered by Sugar 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-05-08 07:33:45 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The person who was in the wrong and broke the trust needs to be an open book for the healing process to begin. I mean, be open about where they are going, what they're doing and who they're with. They should expect to be asked these questions and should have no problem answering them if they want to rebuild the trust. There is no quick fix. Only time will tell if the trust can and will come back.
2006-12-05 23:58:17 · answer #3 · answered by vanhammer 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am sorry about you having issues in trusting your mate,i know it can be hard,and yes,you are right time and patience will help.As far as rushing the matter more quickly,that really depends on you and your mate.Are you really letting go of what ever broke your trust to begin with?Is your mate truly sorry and has been trying to redeem forgiveness towards you?If so,then yes things can go in a more quicker fashion for you both.One thing though,never try to put blame when working threw situations,it will throw you both further back,not closer.The issue happened,if you love someone that much,like i believe you do as well as your mate does,then start fresh each and everyday,don't look back on the ugly part that brought in doubt.Hang in there and Cherish one another as if it was your last.No one is granted for tomorrow.Best of wishes and happy Holidays to you both!
2006-12-05 19:39:22 · answer #4 · answered by twjp1962 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It takes time to get Some trust back..
unfortunately, onece trust has been broken its very hard to get it back 100%, there will always be doubt!
2006-12-06 02:13:00 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The one who broke the trust should make a damn effort to regain the trust. He/she should show how sincere he/she.
2006-12-05 19:32:26 · answer #6 · answered by shyn 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i say, when trust is broken, it is broken..cant mend the broken pieces..
2006-12-05 21:36:29 · answer #7 · answered by pretty ads 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋