This rebound relationship (she just got out of a 3 year) chick is hitten me up pretty hardcore and is clearly down to get down the only problem is two dates in, i realized she had hair on the top of her lip, none of my friends noticed and i didnt at first but now its a problem i came up with an excuse for why i cant come over to her place tonight because i dont think i would be able to...maintain a good reputation. what do i do?
2006-12-05 19:28:07 · 17 answers · asked by DRNOPE 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
do u like her or is that the hair lip just bugs you?> if u like her just ignore it tonight with time maybe point out a person on TV or magaaz. and say that "girl is cute i just dont like the hair on her upper lip" trust me girls realize and compare ourselves to what u guys like even famous people or strangers..she will get the clue on her own without u embarassing her by telling her..good luck
2006-12-05 19:36:32 · answer #1 · answered by c c 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
At first reading you come across as shallow but on reflection, I think what you are saying is that you are turned off by her, physically. I think if you really liked her, that small flaw in her appearance would not be such a big deal, but there does not appear to be enough in this for you.
In any case, you should have taken a little more time to get to know her before 'getting down' with her, despite her eagerness to be getting on with it. Think about it - you are just being used. Do you really want that?
2006-12-06 03:36:01 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like it is a primarily physical relationship. The problem with having a primarily physical fling with someone who has a physically unattractive feature is that you are defeating the purpose of the physical nature of the relationship. I think your only option is to take it slow so that you either can get to know her enough to get over the mustache, or so that you can get to the point where you can communicate to her that it bothers you. Otherwise, I would pass her by.
2006-12-06 03:35:31 · answer #3 · answered by - 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
All that means is that she has a slightly higher testosterone level then the norm, which could be a good thing, as testosterone controls sex drive. she's not a guy. Have a girl friend of hers tell her to wax it.
2006-12-06 03:32:33 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
wow... that is SHALLOW. tell her to shave it off, you retard. or do it for her while she's sleeping. i can't believe you blew her off just because she has hair on her lip. thats gayyyyyyyy. unless she's like the werewolf up on her upper lip, then that'd be kinda weird. but seriously, if your friends didn't notice, and you didn't notice at first, BIG DEAL.
2006-12-06 03:31:54 · answer #5 · answered by indecisive 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Check for an Adam's Apple, then ask her to wax.
2006-12-06 03:30:24 · answer #6 · answered by mzagge06 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
turn off the light, and drink a few beer, you'll be fine
or when she is sleepin, take care of those hairs
2006-12-06 03:30:48 · answer #7 · answered by bondbond1603 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Grow a mustache yourself and see what she says
2006-12-06 04:03:32 · answer #8 · answered by LOFT1009 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's pretty funny man. Ummm maybe you should tell her to wax then do her. It's only right to you.
2006-12-06 03:33:15 · answer #9 · answered by DLB 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Bring some tweezers with you.
2006-12-06 03:32:32 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋