i was just cursed out by my "bf". It was all because i got sick and tired of being ignored...and he never tells me what's up with him. I have to keep guessing. Its driving me crazy. i tell him im tired of it and he curses at me......tells me he shouldnt be around me and whatnot.....i truly didnt know what was up.....he assumed i knew...and that his parable away message explained it. I felt bad....for caring so much........and i want to forget about him but i know thats stupid......but it hurt what he called me.....and i dont think i can forgive him.........for not being sensitive to my feelings.
2006-12-05 19:31:20 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you find this funny? yes, i find that weird
2006-12-05 19:34:00 · answer #1 · answered by Wyatt B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't think too much about it...thing is, if he isn't sensitive to your feelings now he never will be. I don't know how old you are or how old he is but when it comes to emotions people don't change. We are who we are and eventually we find someone to compliment us in life or just settle and that never works out with being happy. If you aren't happy, you aren't happy and there is no reason to make it work if you will be miserable. Break-ups are hard but part of figuring out what you want in a mate. Good luck and take care. You might find it funny because you already know this or because you know he will beg to have you back.
2006-12-05 19:41:28 · answer #2 · answered by chrissy757 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no you are not weird guys do this to us all the time. i argue with my boyfriend about this at times too (Being ignored) . but you should not take the nasty things he said to you... curse his a** out so he knows not to talk to you like that again. A lot of guys treat girls so bad because they don't stand up to them.. that's why they use them and treat them like sh*t and go to a stronger women . Also maybe he doesn't know how to tell you what's going on with him or with anyone. But make sure he's not cheating because a lot of times they do that when their guilty of something or make sure he still has feelings for you.. i don't want you to get hurt . and all girls care about their man but guys need to care about us as well . also sit him down and tell him about disrespecting you and if he doesn't understand or care it is time to get a break from him and see if he can mature and if he doesn't leave him alone he might continue to do this to you and you know what comes after the nasty words .. usually the hitting
2006-12-05 19:47:12 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave him alone, it's annoying for someone to keep asking "what's wrong" or whatever it is you ask. Maybe try being his friend, and don't worry when he isn't speaking at the moment. Guys do that. Me and my friends can have a complete conversation about everything that went on in a day in under thirty seconds. Because we're guys, we filter out the details, and what we think about it, lol. If you want to have a long drawn out conversation, call a girlfriend.
2006-12-05 19:48:05 · answer #4 · answered by eric J 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you love him. He may be over reacting but there must have been some thing that was offending by your part. You should talk about every thing openly. You can't do this alone but be open to him so that he will act the same. Love is the key.
Just talk to him openly and try to be as nice as possible. If every thing is too late then just give him some space and try to talk to him again. If not get moving.
Good Luck!
2006-12-05 21:31:10 · answer #5 · answered by Sam 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe that there's a very important aspect of this story that you've NOT revealed. Logically speaking, the whole senario becomes a mystery to unravel if you don't reveal that aspect. For instance, what happened before you told him you're tired - you see, that's the genesis of the story. If you really want my candid opinion, then contact me through my profile now, otherwise, I wish you well.
2006-12-05 19:42:38 · answer #6 · answered by mykemejeje 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
same right here i love animals. If a cat kills a mouse i gag and cry same with the different animal. o and that i love ferrets. i have needed one for a lengthy time period and some one only informed me i am going to't have one. i replaced into going to get it in 2 weeks. if usa in an residence do not get a huge dogs. i ought to get a sugar glider, rbbit, turtle, guinea pig, hamster or a chinchila. save it kinda small. perhaps get a cat or fowl if those do not in nice condition u
2016-11-30 05:06:22 · answer #7 · answered by santella 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I happened to experience the same thing, what I did is to let go of him, it hurt a lot but as other's say no pain no gain...I hate my feeling to be ignore. When I did it, it took for him ahile then he realized how important I am to him. He courted back ask sorry for it...I forgive him but I just let him be, a little pain in courting me back wont hurt his ego. So just try this, maybe it will work for you.
2006-12-05 19:37:21 · answer #8 · answered by shyn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Run like the devil was chasing you. If you is this abusive to you know what would it be if you were to go on and marry this guy. after you are married some men look on you like you are property, then he might start hitting on you. Who knows what a abusive person might do?
2006-12-05 19:39:48 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ignore him for a few days make him decipher your parable you know whats good for the goose is good for the gander.
2006-12-05 19:36:29 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
since u make ur own decision, just dont get any regret...
he doesnt know how to love a person or even appreciate u..
just give urself a vacation or a break...
it's hurt at the 1st... we would missing him or even regret...
but time would take it away... juz u have to be strong & strong...
dont give up & make up some fren... they would help u...
god loves u... & bless u..
2006-12-05 19:38:21 · answer #11 · answered by Rosia R 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋