the few days before i went to meet a gal that i met online for the first time... i flirted with my ex and exchanged a few lovey dovey emails...
when i met this new gal... OMG... things was fantastic.... we were what we were looking for all our lives... it was a fantastic weekend... however things went south after that... she happened upon my gmail i left open on her laptop... she then read the emails i sent to my ex... hell hath no fury for a woman scorned...
i love her and i treasure her... how do i regain her trust?
what happened was BEFORE we made any form of commitment to each other... i want to heal her hurt... how do i do it...
2006-12-05 19:27:08 · 5 answers · asked by sperio 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i did not do a proper logout...tis was my fault... BUT does it give her the right to read my emails?
2006-12-05 19:34:38 · update #1
i would never have betrayed her trust after we had met... i am all for commitment... i just dun like it that she is dissing me for something i did BEFORE we gave each other our commitment... on the other had i feel for her too as her last 2 ex all left her to marry their ex... so it was quite traumatic for her...
i want to be there for her and help her heal her pain... but i dun know what to do...
2006-12-05 19:45:20 · update #2
i did tell her all these things... BUT she says that my words are too sweet and she does not trust them anymore... and that she has changed her mind about us... she does not want me anymore... she's a scorpio... i am a leo... when things are good... it is fantastic... when **** happens... it really explodes...
i am planning a package for her with a quiz detailing what i want from out relationship... and also asking her to take the quiz too... kinda like a game for her to play... then there is a ultra secret package inside... detailing how i plan to ask her to be engaged to me... our plans for marriage and getting our own place etc...
2006-12-05 20:33:19 · update #3
Been there done that, I was your girlfriend, with a few differences, however, I stayed with the guy, hoping that one "thing" was just that....a one time thing...However dumb *** has been caught in several lies and some more computer related stupidity...That being said, you can win her back, but be damn sure she never has another reason to question your honesty and faithfulness
2006-12-05 19:38:52 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honesty and sincerity are the only way. Of course, she has to be willing to give you another chance. And if you you are so well matched, then she should eventually come around to giving you that chance. However, try not to force the issue too soon before she is ready to move ahead or you might end up pushing her further away -just let her know how much she means to you, that you really want another chance and be somewhat patient. But remember that you cannot make her do anything she doesn't want to do, or before she is ready to do it.
2006-12-05 19:34:35 · answer #2 · answered by Michael C. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to tell her exactly what you told us here!
It sounds like you really regret it,
You need to tell her:
1. You DONT love youre ex anymore
2. You LOVE her and want to be with her
3. If you didnt care about her then you wouldn't even bother to ask for her forgiveness, but you are so that must mean something.
4. You are very sorry that this has happened
5. And this would never ever happen again, cause she means the world to you and you cant think of coming this close to losing her ever again.
So what are you waiting 4 go call her NOW!!!!!!!!!!
2006-12-05 20:05:05 · answer #3 · answered by Candy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go to your library and get books on the subject, there is ALOT!!!
2006-12-05 19:30:04 · answer #4 · answered by rhonda_seiler 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she was snooping on your laptop..
Or did you just do a stupid thing & leave it for all to see...?
you're on your own ...
2006-12-05 19:30:10 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋