There is this guy in my class who's really really cute and i have a mahor crush on him but i dont know how to let him that i like him, he is a little weird and has also asked me out once but then i forund out that it was a joke he played with me and i'm scared that if he asks me out then what should i say, it could be a joke or the truth, and if he doesn't ask me out then how do i let him know that i like him?
2006-12-05 18:29:47 · 6 answers · asked by Don't_Blame_Me_For_Society 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Hi hot_chick,
It wasn't a joke when he asked you out.
He asked you and then got embarassed by your reaction or he got cold feet and panicked and just said he was joking!
Remember, most of the time when people say they were joking...they're really serious!
Just go up to him...raise one eyebrow, cross your arms and tap your foot and say "So it was a joke huh? Yeah sure (laugh). I guess I'll take you up on your offer...(smile)"
Go get em! :)
2006-12-05 18:50:33 · answer #1 · answered by Edward 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, honestly, if he asked you out before and it turned out to be a joke, he's an asshole in my opinion. But if you want to let him know, just go straight up to him and tell him, the least he can do is say nothing.
2006-12-06 02:39:35 · answer #2 · answered by Desmo 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If I were you I wouldn't waste my time drulling over him. If you let him know that you like him he prob. would stay on his high horse, and not ever give you the time of day. So my opinion is, let him do the drulling over you, he's the guy, it seems like if he even liked you he would be the man and stand up and talk to you.
ps. question yourself whether you like this guy for his "brains",
or just because he is attractive.
2006-12-06 02:42:28 · answer #3 · answered by Betty B 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
hot chick, don't set yourself up for a downfall, because it'll only hurt more later, be as assertive as u can, just tell him how you feel, if he shoots you down then he's the loser, and u don't need anyone like that as a boyfriend anyways. he is probably a player anyways. do not set your standards so high, stay mediocre then later you can upgrade.
2006-12-06 02:42:00 · answer #4 · answered by ish 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i know EXACTLY what you mean.
Unfortunately, although this is occuring with me atm, I have no idea on what the solution could be. I'll keep my eye on the answers to your question!
2006-12-06 02:34:35 · answer #5 · answered by Blue Fairy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell em. be formal be like.. hey dude.. ya know. i tink your cool.. really nothin can be argued with that. lol really if he likes you he will ask you out if he don't he wont. maybe he thinks you dont like him? who knows. you wont find out unless SOMEBODY makes a bold move.. try it. nothin to lose
2006-12-06 02:33:36 · answer #6 · answered by AdrianAP 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋