i posted a question earlier about my feelings for a friend who is getting over her ex but now i think i have fallen in love with her as when i see her i cant breath and my heart races so much...her job is her life and she has no time to call or see me and i accept that but i just want to be with her...what do i do cos its killing me that i cant be with her...i dont want to become a stalker ha ha ha will some women give me their opinion please
2006-12-05 18:43:37 · 15 answers · asked by kiwitboi 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
she needs time...leave her be for a while...her job is her escape for now...just be her friend until she gets herself together.
2006-12-05 18:45:44 · answer #1 · answered by FavoredbyU 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Does she call you at all? Is her job very demanding right now or during the holiday season or year round? How long has it been since she ended it with her ex? After you address these three questions sit down and tell her how you feel and that you really want to spend more time with her. There is not too many women who wouldn't want to know that a man really cares about her and wants nothing more than to be with her.
2006-12-05 18:58:47 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it's a bit early to say you're in love with this woman. Infatuation certainly... She's still getting over her last relationship, so starting a new one is probably the furthest thing from her mind.
You need to give her some space. And dating other women won't hurt either.
2006-12-05 19:27:41 · answer #3 · answered by Quagmire 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should let her get completely over ex before you make a move on her. ask her to have dinner with you or go to a movie with you but do it on a friendly level, you don't want to rush into anything to fast.
2006-12-05 19:01:07 · answer #4 · answered by meatmeat2004 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
let it go, dude. you can't have what you want. maybe one day if/when she's ready, but now would be a terrible time since she's getting over her ex, is vulnerable, and will be very self-protective. you'll only end up getting hurt.
she doesn't need to be saved, she needs to make heads or tails of it on her own.
2006-12-05 18:46:54 · answer #5 · answered by Wyatt B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you dont want to get her on the rebound!!!! just let her know you are there. dont be too obvious! that is a turnoff. also do you really see your self with a busy women like her? if her ex is still in the picture 4get bout it.
2006-12-05 18:46:41 · answer #6 · answered by dodger805 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ahhhh...your a sweetheart it sounds like. How long has she been separated or divorced? Maybe she isnt interested and doesnt know how to tell you without hurting you. I really hate to say that but I know that I have been a similar situation....too nice to really say "no thank you".....hmmmm....well whatever goodluck.....BTW, it is a tuff situation....
2006-12-05 19:00:32 · answer #7 · answered by Pepper 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ditch her and get a newy! SOunds like too much bagage to me
2006-12-05 21:22:17 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give her space by not contacting her. Allow her to miss you and contact you. If she does not contact you, you should move on.
2006-12-05 18:51:12 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Theres nothing you can do but to tell her what you feel.
Good luck
2006-12-05 19:28:05 · answer #10 · answered by anne 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋