Family & Relationships - 5 December 2006

because i have so many guy freindsand some of them tell me that they are falling inluv with me but i cannot answer them because i cannot tel dem wat i fil because i cannot differentiate wether i luv them as a freind or as a opposite sex????????

2006-12-05 17:40:46 · 4 answers · asked by aNnEkHaTe_23 1 in Friends

My boyfriend has been really distant with me lately. I'm always the one who txts him first but i've stopped that now because i'm fed up of me initiating it all the time. We both work in same building and i overheard him on the phone outside asking to meet for lunch. Ever since i havent hardly heard from him,he makes no effort to txt/call. I know he's a busy man but he wont even find five seconds to txt the woman he supposedly loves? Why is he being so distant and do you think he's cheating?

2006-12-05 17:40:43 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

she broke up with me over aim without actually saying she just wants to be friends. tacky.

2006-12-05 17:40:33 · 10 answers · asked by BDD 2 in Singles & Dating

but she's not mine. Is that wrong?

2006-12-05 17:40:21 · 7 answers · asked by Red Winged Bandit 4 in Marriage & Divorce

i dont want to break his family or something, just wanna be a lover to him

2006-12-05 17:39:02 · 51 answers · asked by Sara J 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-05 17:37:42 · 8 answers · asked by xmoua89 1 in Friends

2006-12-05 17:35:58 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Serious answers only please..Do some guys only look for blonds w/blue eyes? Please give me your preferance.

2006-12-05 17:35:10 · 12 answers · asked by fe2bsho 3 in Singles & Dating

the reason i asked is because my ex-girlfriend's sister has gotten herself in that position, and noone likes the situation at all because she is only 19yrs and she is to young to be tied down.

2006-12-05 17:35:07 · 9 answers · asked by ish 1 in Friends

My girlfriend and I have been together for seven months now. We are a great couple and get along well except for our views towards pot. She smokes it with a bunch of her stoner friends and lies to me about it although I made it clear to her that I didn't want to be involved with her if she did it. She loves me to death and I really don't want to break up with her but I definitely want her to quit as it really does keep her from performing at her best in everything she does from being in classes in college and at work. What argument s can I use? How can I make her quit?

2006-12-05 17:33:55 · 18 answers · asked by JeremyK684 2 in Singles & Dating

I have been sporting a beard and a good short haicut.

My Girlfriend is out of station for three days and before leaving she told me that when she is back she would love to see me with a clean face and head.

Does a clean face and head means no beard,moustache and a shaved head?

I would like to please her.What should I do?Her mobile is not reachable as she has gone to a remote place.

Please help me decide.

2006-12-05 17:33:28 · 17 answers · asked by kishan 1 in Friends

I proposed a gurl 2 months before. Since that day no response.Whenever I ask her shi is replying like I m thinking, Plz give me some time. So what should I do now?

2006-12-05 17:32:44 · 19 answers · asked by abhi 2 in Singles & Dating

She wants to come over tomarrow and drop off something important. I am pretty sure its a lare sum of money. The thing is , my husband and I appriciate the thought but dont want it ! it makes us feel very small and our pride shut down. They already help pay half our rent. Thats a different story. Anyway, I plan on saying it very nicely and appriciative to turn it down. We can manage like we have been by struggling by. We have a roof over our head, food in our stomachs, bills our late but do get paid, what else? We are fine and I really dont want the money. Can anyone out there relate to what we are going through? Times are hard now, but will get better in the future. we are 31 and have a 2 year old.

2006-12-05 17:32:18 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

We didn't encourage her kids to call me Dad. They just did it on their own. One was 1 year old when I met her and the other one was 2. We actually talked about marriage and all that, so it's not like we didn't see a real future. The details of why our relationship ended really don't make a difference as to my question. So, here it is: What's the best thing to do for the kids? They miss me and ask her constantly why I'm not coming home to see them. On one hand, I feel like I should at least be there for them. Unfortunately, they're not my biological kids, so is this right or wrong? Or, should I just cut ties completely. Or, should I see them less and less until they get used to the idea (while explaining to them) that I will not be around as much in the future. You know, phasing myself gradually out of their lives? Reconciliation with her is not an option. Please, only mature responses and real advice, as there are real lives involved and ultimately is not the kids fault.

2006-12-05 17:31:16 · 6 answers · asked by Private Account 5 in Other - Family & Relationships

In context to love....How it is important in one relationship?

and in terms of friendship... to what extent one can trust his/her best friend?

Suggest me dear...

Ashi

2006-12-05 17:31:11 · 10 answers · asked by AsHiSh from New Delhi 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-05 17:31:00 · 4 answers · asked by burlingtony 2 in Marriage & Divorce

either in your opinion or your man's.

2006-12-05 17:30:41 · 6 answers · asked by Q'S & A'S 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-05 17:30:23 · 16 answers · asked by monika b 1 in Singles & Dating

then me. I feel very offended by his behavior. I felt that he betrayed me. Am I wrong with this consense?

2006-12-05 17:30:02 · 11 answers · asked by myly n 1 in Singles & Dating

Guys answers pleaseeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee...
Let's say you and your gf for 3 years broke up 7 months ago and your ex gf just started ignoring you cuz you JUST confessed a couple of lies to her that involves another girl but nothing really bad happened (but of course the gf doesn't know if you're telling the truth about nothing really bad happened) and the fact that you only said "sorry" on the phone. So....every time you see your ex gf you would say "hi" but your ex wouldn't say "hi" back....she ignores you as if she didn't see/hear you. What would you think about your ex gf???????????????? Do you think she still has feelings for you?????? Would you care that she ignores you????? what would you do????????????? Would you just ignore her too??????????????????? what would you basically think of her???????????????????????????... is what i really want to know

Additional Details

...i'm the "ex-gf" who ignores my ex-bf..... i just wanna know what a guy would think

2006-12-05 17:29:54 · 6 answers · asked by alwaysmile 1 in Singles & Dating

My GF and I have been together for almost four months, and I can honestly say that these past four months have been fantastic. She has become my best friend and I love her dearly. She tells me that she loves me, and that I mean the world to her. The only problem is, is lately she has been so snappy with me. I try to do a lot for her, i.e. always going to the store for her, and always taking her to and from work. I sometimes feel that she may not recognize all I try and do for her, because she is so quick to be snappy about little meaningless things. Can anyone offer some advice?

2006-12-05 17:29:52 · 7 answers · asked by michaelsmyth2002 1 in Singles & Dating

Let me elaborate. I am a part-time single mother of two. Eventually, I would like to fall in love and get married. I am not in a hurry, but I would like to start doing things the "right" way. What are some simple rules for dating, sex and love, specifically as a single mother?

I tend to meet men who want to hop in the sack right away, and then either find myself dating a loser, or in a non-committed relationship that feels uncomfortable and lonely. I want to break this pattern and date more healthily. My views of sex and marriage are rather unconventional, but honestly, I am to the point where I can see the logic of more conservative approaches. Isn't there a happy medium? Should I just give up on the idea of love and marriage at this point? I am 31, intelligent, pretty, successful, kind, loving, creative, fit AND an excellent parent. How do I go about this wisely and genuinely while still enjoying myself mentally, physically and emotionally with a man. Where do I begin and how?

2006-12-05 17:29:10 · 8 answers · asked by anne 1 in Singles & Dating

one day i asked a friend of mine if they thought i was good looking and they turned around and said to me "you don't honestly expect me to answer that do you?"does this mean they thought i was ugly.

2006-12-05 17:29:04 · 14 answers · asked by debra 2 in Friends

Husband is 35, I'm 38, boyfriend is 27.

2006-12-05 17:28:32 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Did u ever give it a thought ??

What it might had been if ...there never ever had a planet earth been created... No U nO mE..... no problems... no Love
No tension.. No Boss.. No God.... No Parents... No kids... No Life... No Lifes... No deaths... No Goal.... No Success...

Why r v here ?? Was there some reason ..... we r here!!

2006-12-05 17:28:04 · 6 answers · asked by Crank that thing (-- 2 in Friends

Me and the guy I am dating have had some communication problems (it's a distance relationship). But I really care about him and we have been trying to make things work. Last time I visited him about two months ago he said something and I felt cornered so I got emotional and said we should break things off. I thought we had resolved it before my return, but he thought we were broken up for a month even though we were still calling each other.

On top of this, I recently said I love you for the first time - he said he was very happy and loved me too (he has already told me he loves me). But he said he needed to think because everything has changed recently with him thinking we broke up and then the I love you thing. The last convo we had was great, but he hasn't returned my calls in two weeks.

I am so confused...I don't know why he isn't calling me back. I said I was sorry so many times and he said he still loves me and wants to see me...so why isn't he calling?

2006-12-05 17:27:17 · 7 answers · asked by ? 2 in Singles & Dating

I broke up with a girl I was in love with because we were both too emotionally needy and the relationship was too inconsistent, either crazy about each other or driving each other crazy. We were together for 2 1/2 years and I was still in love with her when I broke up with her, though at the time I thought it was the best thing for both of us.

Almost ten years later I still think about her every day and nobody I've met since comes close to measuring up. I've had a bunch of other relationships but never anything with any emotional depth. It's at the point now where I don't even bother dating anymore.

What do I do? I can still get in contact with her if I choose to, and I know a little background on her life because my brother works with her dad. So, I know she's not married or otherwise permanently off the market.

Should I contact her and tell her the whole story? Should I contact her under the guise of just catching up? Suggestions on getting over her without contacting her?

2006-12-05 17:26:47 · 8 answers · asked by Wolfcastle 1 in Singles & Dating

No one truly "falls" in love without a whole lot of thoughts and little things here and there, etc. And people don't BLINK and suddenly find themselves naked and sweating, so why on earth do people say "it just happened"?????

2006-12-05 17:25:56 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I am a very friendly girl that can be somewhat shy at first. I try to be nice to everyone and I'm always smiling and laughing. Well I don't want my friendliness to be mis-construed as interest or flirting. I don't touch guys, unless they are my friends, but I always keep the proper distance and never say anything overtly flirtatious, however I tend to attract stalker-ish/psychotic-ish type guys (one guy threatened to stalk and kill me) and my friends and family say it is because I am "too friendly/nice." Do guys really take you being friendly or nice as flirting? Because I do not want to not be my real self-yet at the same time I do not want to send the wrong message. By the way I am very modest when I dress..so no sending the wrong message there! ;)

2006-12-05 17:25:50 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have been married for the last 10 years to my husband. We in the last 4 years have been having major problems and I recently ran into my x husband...How crazy...huh! anyways he says that he's always loved me....and he's turning on the charm hot and heavy. He was my first real love, we were just to young to settle down...so we seperated, divorced and went our seperate ways. I know that I still have strong feelings for him...But ??? some body help....With all the problems that are going on in my curent relationship what in the world should I do??

2006-12-05 17:24:51 · 13 answers · asked by HUM... ??? 1 in Marriage & Divorce