the reason i asked is because my ex-girlfriend's sister has gotten herself in that position, and noone likes the situation at all because she is only 19yrs and she is to young to be tied down.
2006-12-05 17:35:07 · 9 answers · asked by ish 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Potentially. It does sound to me as if she's making the decision too quickly. Ask her why she's marrying this guy; try to find out her true motivation.
2006-12-05 17:42:06 · answer #1 · answered by rockingharder 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is a little young to be getting married.
But despite your age, you shouldn't marry someone you just met PERIOD.
I think you need atleast a year to be with someone to get married. It gives you a chance to see their flaws and go through the ups and downs in a relationship. And if it survives after a year, then awesome.
Plus, you need to be financially stable, independent, and be done with college before finally settling down with someone. Because marriage is a very big step forward in a person's life. Marriage is serious.
2006-12-06 01:39:03 · answer #2 · answered by ( Kelly ) 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Marry in haste, repent at leisure. If this has not yet happened then you all must do whatever it takes ot stop her from making a real mistake in her life. If it is really true love time will not make any difference and if there is a scam or just infatuation that will be revealed as well
2006-12-06 01:40:18 · answer #3 · answered by CindyLu 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
YES, it is wrong. She needs to give the relationship time to develop.
She will be cheating herself out of being romanced.
A man needs to romance a woman first...
Send her flowers, walks, picnics, sports, eating out.
Long talks of what each other would like from a marriage relationship.
If she gets married, she will loose all the joy of falling in love for real.
2006-12-06 02:17:10 · answer #4 · answered by kanarain 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is a bit young to make a commitment quickly. If you are old enough to know what you want, things can move quite quickly. It took all of two days for me and my wife of 8 years to commit.
2006-12-06 01:39:33 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to convince her take a less extreme option, but it is her prerogative to choose marriage if she is over 18.
2006-12-06 01:38:54 · answer #6 · answered by Jill 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've done it before and it turned out great! Tell her to see a marriage counselor 1st!!
2006-12-06 01:41:07 · answer #7 · answered by rhonda_seiler 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, definately. You should get to know someone before yout take the plunge.
2006-12-06 01:49:16 · answer #8 · answered by :-) literary cappy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes u r right, she is too young.
2006-12-06 01:47:35 · answer #9 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋