Family & Relationships - 5 December 2006

Do you like for a woman to make the first move? Or would you rather you make the move?

2006-12-05 17:23:02 · 23 answers · asked by dawndmo 2 in Singles & Dating

yeah the person who used to be soo sweet once upon a time is behaving weird... he was here in the same town n we used to be like soo close sharing stuff u knw all tht sweet stuff.. n when he left after he ws lik comepletely diff--- doesnt seem lik he remembers ne stuff wich happ here.... i felt soo bad when he left... its been 3 months hes gone.... i used to mail him i never got a reply for the 1st 2 n half months ..i saw him on orkut ..i left him a msg there .. n he mailed me sayin tht hes sorry for not gettin in touch cuz hes really busy n all n tht he misses me etc to forgive him n all... how could he do somehting like this??? im getting depressed ... i dont wanna lose him... i mean we were sooo close---------then y???how do i make him realize wht hes done? i cried n he doesnt even knw a thing!

2006-12-05 17:21:17 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-05 17:18:39 · 15 answers · asked by rajni s 1 in Singles & Dating

im pretty tall and wear size 16 shoes....is that a turn off?

2006-12-05 17:18:30 · 25 answers · asked by Dunkin' on yo head 2 in Singles & Dating

There was this girl i used to date and makeout with a lot about a year ago... well she fell in love with me then got mad and moved trying to get me to make her stop. well i didn't she moved and we continued to talk... well whenever she came back for holidays and what not we would hook up... she was in love with me for a while but i only liked her... well she was gonna move home in december to be "close to her sister" i think it was really to try and have one more shot at me... but then this guy she was kinda seeing then broke it off with... well he kept on about it... so now she is getting married. well she is gonna move back now a month before he moves here and they get married... so, should i go to her wedding we have a lot of communal friends?

2006-12-05 17:18:13 · 25 answers · asked by Jesters Deadd 2 in Singles & Dating

Let's say you and your gf for 3 years broke up 7 months ago and your ex gf just started ignoring you cuz you JUST confessed a couple of lies to her that involves another girl but nothing really bad happened (but of course the gf doesn't know if you're telling the truth about nothing really bad happened) and the fact that you only said "sorry" on the phone. So....every time you see your ex gf you would say "hi" but your ex wouldn't say "hi" back....she ignores you as if she didn't see/hear you. What would you think about your ex gf???????????????? Do you think she still has feelings for you?????? Would you care that she ignores you????? what would you do????????????? Would you just ignore her too??????????????????? what would you basically think of her??????????????????????????????? is what i really want to know

2006-12-05 17:17:56 · 12 answers · asked by alwaysmile 1 in Singles & Dating

U know how there's a saying, guys think w/their "u know what?" n the girls thinks with their hearts?i really liked this guy (caucasian, 26) and I am asian (25). we spent some amazing time together,he went up to me at the restaurant that he is managing.We had an AMAZING two week together and he told me he really liked me, "but i need to have faith in him and just because one guy messed up, don't judge him because he is a guy" I don't trust men because of my past, my ex cheated and lied to me and i told him.The last few guys i dated before him,i scared off by being non-trusting and clingy,too.So now,apparently I scared off this one too. But I truly felt that we really connected and he even told me that he really liked me a lot, i just needed to chill.Now we haven't talked for a while My questions to u guys are: Is it easy for u (guys) to find a girl to be interested in?Do u look for certain qualities or when u see a girl u just think sex?And can i salvage what we had?How?Please help :(

2006-12-05 17:17:46 · 9 answers · asked by Gina C 1 in Singles & Dating

putting up with this liar for years. I let it slide for too long. Now she's involved my 7 year old. GAME ON! I'm looking for some ideas on how to make it count. I DON'T want any physical harm, but I want her to wish she had never heard my name let alone spoke it. She's not breaking any laws, but it's borderline. She is spreading lies about me, my husband, and now my daughter. She is litterally striking up coversations with my neighbors and telling blatent lies. So it's time to give her a taste of her own medicine!!! I'm not willing to break any laws or bring any phisical harm to anyone. But someone needs to shut this ***** up! Any suggestions?

2006-12-05 17:17:37 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I lost a lot of people I really cared about this year.

2006-12-05 17:17:19 · 4 answers · asked by shermynewstart 7 in Marriage & Divorce

How can I say this to a stupid girl whom I know from last 3 months....

any suggestions?

2006-12-05 17:17:03 · 38 answers · asked by AsHiSh from New Delhi 1 in Singles & Dating

I asked a friend out and she said she would tell me at the end of the year.
I am getting nervous.
I feel that by wanting the answer early I might end up pushing her towards a No.
Could sum1 help out how 2 show that I am EXTREMELY interested.
I know that her fave gem is Garnet and she loves horses.
any hints?

2006-12-05 17:16:59 · 8 answers · asked by gecko the brave 2 in Friends

i am 20 still dont have a gf .dont have a good personal life at all .all the girls ive luved have either had another bf or they go out of reach . i have never felt luv b4 .the only chance i get goes off b4 i notice it . this sux :(

2006-12-05 17:15:46 · 15 answers · asked by (omplExity _|_ 1 in Singles & Dating

It took me years to master the art of sex and become comfortable with my body. I enjoy teaching him and sharing myself with him, but he needs to see the person I am with clothes on too. What are some ways to get him to see who I really am?

2006-12-05 17:15:30 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

for something for you after you told him don't worry about it and you've done a favor for him and he insists on doing something for you is this just common courtesy?

2006-12-05 17:14:18 · 13 answers · asked by debra 2 in Singles & Dating

Why is it that guys always seem (well in my yes) to go for the skinny tanned blondes? or do they? Just seeing it from ya'lls point of view.

2006-12-05 17:14:12 · 10 answers · asked by Betty B 2 in Singles & Dating

Since a new teacher come at my school about last year, I fall in love with him... he's nice teacher, friendly, fun, and care with me.. Is it okay to love my teacher?

2006-12-05 17:13:22 · 22 answers · asked by Super-Starz 2 in Singles & Dating

is a girl who smokes an instant turn-off? i guess it depends on the guy....answers appreciated from both smokers and non-smokers!!

2006-12-05 17:12:29 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I was with my bf for 2 years and 8 months, and it's been 7 months since we broke up. He's still always in my mind. I try to fight it and fight my feelings, but it's just sooo hard to get over him? Why is that? I'm the one who cut the relationship but also tried to get back with him and he didn't want to. When another guy wanted to date me, he wanted to get back with me but we didn't cuz i told him "don't get with me cuz there's another guy, get back with me cuz you love me"...anyways...it's been couple of months since we ended keeping in touch....I don't wanna start dating again until i'm over him. How can I move on if I still think about him? HOw do I stop thinking about him?? Do you "guys" feel the same way except you don't show it to us girls (whether you love or just care about the person you were with)?

2006-12-05 17:12:28 · 5 answers · asked by alwaysmile 1 in Singles & Dating

i just hate it my girlfriend never stops whining about things she shouldn't whine about. can anyone tell me the logic why girls keep doin that

2006-12-05 17:10:08 · 25 answers · asked by frozenthunder 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Obviousl more is better, I am assuming, but what is a decent thread count?

2006-12-05 17:09:59 · 11 answers · asked by Montana Man 2 in Singles & Dating

it is a new relationship, i like the guy but dont want to hurt him, i decided before i met him i wasnt havin more babies, and i just found out im pregnant, have already made a decision without telling him about the pregnancy I think it might hurt him to know about something that he can never hold, on the other hand i dont want to lie to him or be dishonest

2006-12-05 17:08:59 · 24 answers · asked by nevergonnabeasuperstar 1 in Singles & Dating

in which year i will be married

2006-12-05 17:08:20 · 20 answers · asked by shraddha n 1 in Weddings

2006-12-05 17:08:13 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I know the obvious answers to this one but please understand.....the last time that happened, I ended up in a long term relationship with an abusive man. (which was also my first relationship, so my sense of perception is a tad warped.) I don't know what "typical" means anymore. Worse yet, I wouldn't know what to do in a situation if a man that I liked was nice, loving and respectful....what would I do or say? I worry that I would start to cry, or Id say the wrong thing or that Id get attached too fast.... Any SERIOUS advice would be sooooo appreciated. For what its worth, I have been doing therapy for 10 months so please dont think that I see these anxieties as normal or healthy. I just need guidance. Thanks in advance.

2006-12-05 17:07:57 · 5 answers · asked by neenerneener 2 in Singles & Dating

I was with Bev for 17 yrs, had Justin early in relationship. Cheated with Colleen. Bev left. I dated Colleen for about 2 yrs now but Bev had Gabrielle for me six months ago and I am guilty again. Colleen loves me, Bev loves me, and I love my children and both girls. Both girls cant get along.I am really confused in what to do. Both are beautiful girls and really nice. Originally I wanted to get back with Bev, but I don't want her to get hurt anymore. I'm afraid that I will cheat again. To make matters worse I am living in a nice house while Bev, Justin and Gabrielle are living in a slum and I can't financially help to get them out of there. I feel really guilty especially coming up for christmas

2006-12-05 17:07:18 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Why or why not?

2006-12-05 17:06:55 · 16 answers · asked by fslcaptain737 4 in Singles & Dating

the one thing that i noticed is that i always feel bad when i'm breaking up with someone, No matter what... even if i didn't even like the guy i still feel bad. I dont know why, i just do.

Does anyone else feel this way?

2006-12-05 17:06:21 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Okay, I'm married to a really awsome guy. I'm absolutely in love with him and would never ever do anything to hurt him. The problem is: I think I am attracted to one of his friends. I flirt with this guy, shamelessly. My husband thinks it's funny and it started out as a joke, but now it kind of scares me. My husband even jokingly calls this guy my boyfriend. Now, I can't control the flirtation. It just happens. It's like a sickness or something. The other part of the problem is: I think this guy is starting to form an attraction too.
What should I do? They are really good friends and they like to hang out together a lot. I have taken to just not hanging out when they ask me because I don't want to give any wrong impression to either one of them. I am not going to cheat on my husband with this guy or any other guy. But, I always have that pit in my stomach around them. Do you think this will go away? Has anyone else had a problem like this? I feel like a bad person.

2006-12-05 17:05:39 · 9 answers · asked by MsLongBeach 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

we married 2 years

2006-12-05 17:05:21 · 12 answers · asked by monika b 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I had her for a math class, on the last day we looked and smiled at each other, The next tri-mester we are in the same math class again, I sat in the front row, and she comes in and sits next to me out of an entire sort of empty room. She has a gorgeous spanish accent, she's petite and very cute. This whole week she has been wearing her sunglasses, I wrote her a note (I didn't want to talk during class) saying that "I hope she's not hiding nothing but her gorgeous eye's (like a black eye), and I like her accent, you think she's like that compliment??

2006-12-05 17:05:13 · 11 answers · asked by TinyLOKSTER 2 in Singles & Dating