the one thing that i noticed is that i always feel bad when i'm breaking up with someone, No matter what... even if i didn't even like the guy i still feel bad. I dont know why, i just do.
Does anyone else feel this way?
2006-12-05 17:06:21 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
What you are describing seems to be a very good (and scarce these days) trait called compassion. Some women are so consumed by their compassion they will stay in a relationship with a less than deserving man out of concern for him, even though the relationship is unblanced, unhealthy, and abusive. Do *NOT* ever EVER stay with anyone out of that kind of self depreciating compassion, you will be far more hurt than he ever will.
2006-12-05 17:12:24 · answer #1 · answered by neenerneener 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It isn't weird. It's sympathy. You can imagine how he feels. Breaking up is never easy, even if the feeling is mutual. It's a perfectly normal emotion to feel.
I'm too emotional sometimes.
2006-12-05 17:13:18 · answer #2 · answered by Shiomi Ryuu 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's not weird at all. It just means you are a very sensitive person and care for others feelings.
2006-12-05 17:13:32 · answer #3 · answered by CrazyKaycin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No it's not weird. You don't hve to like the guy to not want to hurt his feelings. Your normal. Whew!! Load off my mind.
2006-12-05 17:08:50 · answer #4 · answered by uknowme 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah every fng time it's like aaah. I wish I could just be mean and not care but it makes me feel guilty and sad even if they diserved it.
2006-12-05 17:08:22 · answer #5 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no its not weird at all!! i feel bad too cuz i jsut hate breaking anybodys heart and because you dont know how it will really affect them!
2006-12-05 17:13:33 · answer #6 · answered by shelly s 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont, once im done, im done...
2006-12-05 17:25:52 · answer #7 · answered by ABBYsMom 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋