we married 2 years
2006-12-05 17:05:21 · 12 answers · asked by monika b 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Very sad, sex should be getting better and more comfortable for you at this point. Sex is extremely important in a marriage, but not everything. Maybe you guys have some other issues that need to be addressed first. I also think age has a lot to do with it, because sometimes when your young you just do it to be doing it and the older you get intimacy and fore play make up the best part of a sex life. I can tell you that if someone has been unfaithful to you it can be very difficult to be intimate with that person ever again, because your mental state controls your sexual state.
2006-12-05 17:28:42 · answer #1 · answered by cargirldawn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you two okay? Sex usually slows down a bit when you're married, but none at all after 2 years isn't right. You need to figure out why this is happening and fix it. Sex is a wonderful thing and it's important for married couples to enjoy each other.
2006-12-06 01:12:29 · answer #2 · answered by MsLongBeach 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I have been married for 2 yrs as well & we have not had sex in 17 months except for Oct 06 when went to see a lawyer but I think & feel that was pity sex becasue of seeing lawyer. I'm not waiting another 17 months that's for sure!! Try conseling that's what we are doing. Also talk to him try to communicate!! I wish u luck!!
2006-12-06 04:34:32 · answer #3 · answered by Missy 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think maybe you guys should just try to rekindle the spark again. Go out on a date, catch a movie, have dinner, make a nice candle lite dinner, etc. Talk more to each other like it was in the beginning and the spark will come back when it starts to shine brighter in your heart.Sometimes we get used to the same routine and take things for granted.Talk,laugh, love and things will come back.Good luck to you.
2006-12-06 01:27:59 · answer #4 · answered by Nikie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe you need to spice up your love life a little by suggesting playing out some fantasies ie. role playing romantic dinners etc. i was married for a long time and our sex life remained fantastic you should talk to your hubby and try to find out why you arent interested anymore before he looks somewhere else for it
2006-12-06 01:16:06 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
only married for.2. years and no sex are you both under stress if so see a doctor this isnt normal in my opion?
2006-12-06 01:23:55 · answer #6 · answered by the_silverfoxx 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Are you trying? Don't wait until you feel like you want it, go get it and your body will catch up. We get in ruts, try something new. Don't wait. I have several girlfriends who lost their husbands over this.
Good luck
2006-12-06 01:23:49 · answer #7 · answered by micheletmoore 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a little to soon not to be into sex... are you under stress? do you see each other alot, different things could be making this happen.
2006-12-06 01:17:50 · answer #8 · answered by Kathy 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You or your husband is not inters ted in advance sex. int erst first & see reasults.
2006-12-06 01:12:01 · answer #9 · answered by renovne 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Marriage slows it down, after i had my daughter it slowed down a lot. i hate it. hes boring.
2006-12-06 01:16:06 · answer #10 · answered by ~*Jenny*~ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋