yeah the person who used to be soo sweet once upon a time is behaving weird... he was here in the same town n we used to be like soo close sharing stuff u knw all tht sweet stuff.. n when he left after he ws lik comepletely diff--- doesnt seem lik he remembers ne stuff wich happ here.... i felt soo bad when he left... its been 3 months hes gone.... i used to mail him i never got a reply for the 1st 2 n half months ..i saw him on orkut ..i left him a msg there .. n he mailed me sayin tht hes sorry for not gettin in touch cuz hes really busy n all n tht he misses me etc to forgive him n all... how could he do somehting like this??? im getting depressed ... i dont wanna lose him... i mean we were sooo close---------then y???how do i make him realize wht hes done? i cried n he doesnt even knw a thing!
2006-12-05 17:21:17 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I feel for you, I've been in the same position too. Unfortunately, he doesnt care that he is loosing you. If he did, then he would have made more of an effort to keep in touch. You just have to let him go. Realize that he has changed and that you cant bring him back to the person he was. Time to move on.
2006-12-05 17:26:25 · answer #1 · answered by Christina 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋
I can give you advice about this boy but you know just as well as I do that we all end up taking our on advice & learning the hard way. You care about him so their is no easy way to deal with this situation. Keep an open mind & then decide when you are ready to talk to him. Tell him that the way that he is behaving has disappointed you & you dont know exactly how to comprehend his behavior but that this is really hurting you because you thought the friendship that you both had was deeper than the way he is making you feel right now. Be prepared for anything that he may say & make sure that he is honest with you from the beginning of this conversation with him. You will know if he is being honest or not & then you will have to decide what is best for you. Just remember...This too shall pass & good luck.
2006-12-05 17:34:35 · answer #2 · answered by BG 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Life's reality is far different than what some folks think. They learn in do time with much pain! He well may care but things change when you move very often! Believe it or not this seems to be a natural thing! He may well have, cried as well and you don't even know! Life goes on, and changes are made! Some time you win and some time you don't. It seems like you should go on with you life and don't try to contact him and see how long it takes him to contact you. This should answer your question!
2006-12-05 17:30:48 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
female ignore him and locate you some different guy or woman by way of fact the way i seem at it those months here he wasn't retaining in touch, there's a super threat he grow to be dating somebody else and while they did no longer paintings out, he began up with you back. And in case you do no longer p.c. to completely burn bridges with him, ask him the place y'all stand, and if he would not supply you a quickly answer, then enable him understand which you will confirm different persons til he realizes what he needs. adult males like a chase so do no longer make your self so obtainable anymore plus long-distance relationships have a annoying time working besides even while the two events are on the comparable internet site. you're a females meaning you're so lots extra useful than the run-around. concentration extra on your self than on him.
2016-10-14 03:08:36 · answer #4 · answered by cutburth 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he should know about this u knwo its always best to let him know. You guys were close and if u dont want to lose that then u should really tell him how u feel and what he have done to u. But also one day ur realize that there is more ppl out there u can be close to too. Not only him theres more than him. But i know what u mean u dont want to lose him. Best is just talk to him and tell him everything.
2006-12-05 17:26:08 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
He has a different life not that consumes most of his time. It sounds genuine when he says that he misses you. But the absecnce of each other's presence will normally just dwindle whatever you guys have.
2006-12-05 17:25:58 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You just have to let yourself get the REAL msg...He is not into you as much as you are into him.... Let it go and move on.You ain't gonna get him interested in you if it is not there and by worrying and making yourself crazy with what if's and Why's. etc.
You are too blinded with emotions for him that you can not see the real truth right now or do not want to accept it.
Things and people in life change and you have to change with them.
2006-12-05 17:30:45 · answer #7 · answered by Mark n 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I have to agree with the last response. Sometimes it is all fun and games when you are there with each other, then you drift apart. Just coz he has other things to do, doesnt mean that he doesnt like you, it is just that 'he has other things to do'. I would get over it and do something too!
2006-12-05 17:26:57 · answer #8 · answered by storm 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You are young...Life is a series of changes , when it is time to move on then move on...Young people never never stand still anyhow...Besides If you move you might find out you have been missing....Life goes on Appreciate the good moments as they are ......
2006-12-05 17:27:39 · answer #9 · answered by Kongfucius 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Forget and forgive!!
Think that he is unlucky, who is avoiding u!
And think that U will get more good person,friend than him in future!
2006-12-05 17:34:35 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋