Help!! I'm falling in love with my teacher!!?

Question

Since a new teacher come at my school about last year, I fall in love with him... he's nice teacher, friendly, fun, and care with me.. Is it okay to love my teacher?

Answer 1

Haha!! I have to say, I laughed when I saw your question. Not in a bad way though, in a "haha, been there" type of way. It's okay to love ANYONE, but do you really love your professor? Ask yourself that question. It could well be an infatuation. Also, this probably won't be the last time you like a professor of yours. There's many where that one came from!

Professors can be so mmm... what's the word? SEXY! I wonder what it is. I guess because they're in control.

Good luck!

Answer 2

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Answer 3

Yes it's normal, but it also hinders your learning. Teachers strongly advise against having feelings of friendship between staff and pupils. In a school a teacher is not your friend. On the other hand, among human beings feeling the love of friendship is important for us to be kind to each other. Just keep caring about the teacher but don't single it out, show your love to everyone! It's not called "falling in love" too, falling in love is a strong compassion for a relationship, loving someone is different, you love the teacher you're no in love with them. I have cared for teachers in a school and we would talk between lessons and say hello when passing in the corridor. It only got dodgy last year when a teacher wouldn't leave me alone in class and then said I reminded her of her brother and I was so glad to get moved to a higher english set after that.

Answer 4

First of all he is your teacher he's their to help you not to be with you or something is wrong with him . A part of their jobs are to be nice fun and friendly (just not to cross the line ) a lot of people have crushes on their teachers but get over it.. most likely he is friendly with other students as well as you. Also you don't know how he really is.. you just know how he acts at work... most of us act different at work then we do at home. just let it pass and find a boy your age

Answer 5

Depends on how you define love. When I was in school I remember hearing kids tell the teacher they love him/her. It wasn't bad, but they didn't mean that they loved them in a sexual way or an "I want a relationship with you" kind of way. It was more so, respect and admiration. I think its okay to have certain feelings about a teacher, but try not to confuse feelings of like or "my teacher's pretty cool" with feelings of "I'm soooo in love with my teacher" :-)

Answer 6

Its OK to love a teacher,he is human after all isn't he. But you must know your limits the student teacher relationship must be respected to avoid any disturbance in your studies. Therefore try avoiding him. Date someone your age instead. Or tell him get of your chest it scary but you will find that once its in the open you can deal with it.

Answer 7

Sorry dear, you're not the first and you won't be the last young girl to get a big crush on her teacher. Don't embarrass yourself by doing anything about it. He won't risk his job or reputation for a student- it's unethical, and possibly illegal.
(My husband used to be a teacher. It happened every semester)

Answer 8

Your feelings are alright but whatever you do do NOT take it to the next level, the guys career is on the line, not to mention your self respect. The guy has already gone through college and loads of life experience, dont ever let him take advantage of your emotions or vulnerabilities. Not only would that be messed up but also illegal.

Answer 9

hun...its couldnt be love...do u even know the guy personally?! and its wrong!!! he could be arrested if anything sexually happend between u 2. im sure a lot of guys out there, well i know there are, are caring and nice and sweet but hes ur teacher!


and i second what melody said

Answer 10

No it is soo not ok to love your teacher. You can have puppy dog crushes on teachers, but thats as far as it should go. Do not try to pursue something.....trouble will follow!!