Do you like for a woman to make the first move? Or would you rather you make the move?
2006-12-05 17:23:02 · 23 answers · asked by dawndmo 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I like women to make the first move. Almost all guys would appreciate it too. Good luck!
OK, maybe I should clarify. I don't think making the first move is aggressive. Sometimes it's very helpful and relieves a burden from guys' minds. Also, maybe some of these guys would not otherwise know that you were interested in them. I'm not saying you should wear the pants in the relationship. But think about it this way whenever you have to make a decision like this: If I were him, would I appreciate this girl doing this? By taking the first move, you're kinda helping him out and saving him a lot of risk of embarrassment. Guys have to face that all the time, and (in this case, at least) we appreciate it when girls are willing to help us out. Have a nice day!
2006-12-05 17:26:21 · answer #1 · answered by anonymous 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No most men prefer to do the chasing.It makes them feel needed.
Also its not the done thing for a woman to do the asking or to make the first move. Only shallow woman would do the asking.
2006-12-05 17:28:42 · answer #2 · answered by aotea s 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It depends on what sort of 'move'. I prefer to be the one asking the girl out and that sort of thing, but if you're talking about the sexy kind, then it's a huge turn-on to have the woman make a first move.
2006-12-05 17:31:19 · answer #3 · answered by rockingharder 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is only one place that men like women to be agressive and I will let you guess at that one.
2006-12-05 17:31:18 · answer #4 · answered by Freedom 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It doesn't bother me when I'm in a relationship. It lets me know that she's in the mood, and, well, it doesn't take much to get me there ;-) If i'm not in a committed relationship, and am just going out with someone, and she makes the first move, well, like the other person said, I'll take it when I can get it, but I doubt I'll keep her around long term.
2006-12-05 17:29:49 · answer #5 · answered by Vince 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it all depends on the guy. I mean thats like asking "Do men like redheads?". I do but that doenst mean "Joe" down the street likes them. So if you are agressive that means you just have to go out there and find those guys. I like them, but I also like the shy ones too.
2006-12-05 17:29:52 · answer #6 · answered by kalebs_daddy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think some aggressive guys like aggressive women, but not women who are aggressive 24/7. Guys like to feel like they're stronger, bolder, etc. I know all people are different but most men don't want sheman women and most women don't want pansies either. But making the first move? I wouldn't really say that's aggressive, not these days anymore. I think most guys would love that.
2006-12-05 17:27:22 · answer #7 · answered by snowbird 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Ok. I'm female, but what I know of men is that if you do make the first move they probably wont see you as a long term thing if you know what I mean. Some men may not know that themselves but it's generally the case.
2006-12-05 17:26:09 · answer #8 · answered by kittyandcj 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Except it is a paid sex, I think most of the male partners would love to be touched and helped :) This means men naturally expect to feel that his body makes the female partner to play with him. If it is your own special case I advice you try to start and see the feedback :)
Good Luck.
2006-12-05 17:32:57 · answer #9 · answered by Asad 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends... but Most of the men like submissive women than agressive types..
2006-12-05 17:26:36 · answer #10 · answered by Infoseeker 2 · 0⤊ 3⤋