then me. I feel very offended by his behavior. I felt that he betrayed me. Am I wrong with this consense?
2006-12-05 17:30:02 · 11 answers · asked by myly n 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
it's natural. Guys like to look at women. Women like to look at guys. If you don't have confidence in your self and learn to not let it bother you, then your relationship will be miserable.
However, he could be nice and have a little respect and not check out girls when you are with him. Maybe you guys can come up with a compromise.
2006-12-05 17:33:41 · answer #1 · answered by snippy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You feel betrayed because he looks at pretty women? Honey, ALL men look. Hell, all women look, most just don't admit it. Looking is perfectly innocent, and healthy for that matter. Is he with them? No. He's with you. You need to brush up on your self esteem a little. Don't condemn the guy for doing what comes naturally.
There's an old line that comes to mind. There's nothing wrong with looking at the menu, just no ordering desert. ;)
Edit: For that matter, you should feel flattered. He looks at pretty women, yet he still wants to marry YOU. This isn't a reason for jealousy, it's a reason to feel proud.
2006-12-06 01:34:09 · answer #2 · answered by Jaded 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Your man lacks caring and discipline and is exhibiting behaviours that are not consistent with a truly devoted husband and yet he is a bi-product of his upbringing.
This is a difficult measure for anyone in marriage. It will take time, patience, the ability to communicate and perhaps others that have had good success in this area to guide you privately.
In Christian teaching, it is adultery in the heart, simply to look at another with lust in one's heart, yet the answer is not divorce but teaching and compassion.
2006-12-06 02:01:17 · answer #3 · answered by mikesalloverthat 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
well i know what you are saying in some aspecks becuase my husband tells me he loves me but like looking at smaller size women. i am now a full figured women and he stays with me and tells me he loves me no matter what size i am.. but i still try and loose the weight and try and look good and what i mean by that is i have 2 kids and three dogs and stay home and clean and take care of everything so i try to do what i can but he still looks and i am fine with it now because i look now to so .....dont worry your self over it
2006-12-06 01:39:53 · answer #4 · answered by missy 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
What man doesn't like looking at a pretty woman...get over yourself and quite being so jealous. If he didn't love you he wouldn't be with you...simple as that!
2006-12-06 01:32:58 · answer #5 · answered by He_Knows_Me 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Like it or not that's something all men are going to do. Men are visual creatures and looking doesn't mean that he is going to leave you. Change to a different bloke and he is going to look. That's all it is.. looking. At least this guy wants to marry you.
2006-12-06 01:45:32 · answer #6 · answered by punkvixen 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
it might hurt that hes looking at other women but b glad that he is only look and think yer she ok but ur the one with him not her. All guys look at other women i think its a male thing its ok as long as hes only looking and not touching
2006-12-06 01:34:20 · answer #7 · answered by rk 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
try talking to him and tell him how you feel, it will make u feel better! Boys will always be boys and you always have to tell then what to do!
2006-12-06 01:33:57 · answer #8 · answered by BeeJay 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
he is a ladies man, a womanizer if you will
2006-12-06 02:00:32 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
he loves you enought to marry you . so what is the problum???? its only human to look . trust the man . geeeeeeZZZZZZZZZZ!!!!!!!
2006-12-06 01:32:46 · answer #10 · answered by single-rose@sbcglobal.net 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋