because i have so many guy freindsand some of them tell me that they are falling inluv with me but i cannot answer them because i cannot tel dem wat i fil because i cannot differentiate wether i luv them as a freind or as a opposite sex????????
2006-12-05 17:40:46 · 4 answers · asked by aNnEkHaTe_23 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Falling in love means you miss that person terribly during most of your wake hours. Friends are basically to keep you company and have fun. If those guys said that they fall for you, it means they are exploring the possibility to bring the relationship a step further. Should you not feel comfortable with the person who said it, just let him know that you prefer to remain as friends.
2006-12-05 17:47:17 · answer #1 · answered by SingGirl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well this is pretty common for people when they become close. What I would say to that is.... You can ask yourself a couple of questions: How do you view this "friend"? Would you want to take things futher than just hanging out and eating ice cream? Do you have a physical or some other type of attraction to this "friend"? These are some things you can ask yourself to see how you feel about them. Try it out and good luck to you.
2006-12-05 17:47:12 · answer #2 · answered by DLB 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If the love includes lust then it's no different than love for a boyfriend. So you have to choose to date one or many, and decide whether you might be hurting someone by "loving" them, but refusing to follow through to treat them romantically. It might be best to drop those "friends," if you can't date them for some reason.
If you're not ready to settle down, there's nothing wrong with "just dating" many people and not forming committed relationships, but you have to be up front about your intentions.
2006-12-05 17:45:54 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell them to hold off and wait cuz ya don't know. Time will tell, I had the same prob.
2006-12-05 17:44:26 · answer #4 · answered by rhonda_seiler 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋