Me and the guy I am dating have had some communication problems (it's a distance relationship). But I really care about him and we have been trying to make things work. Last time I visited him about two months ago he said something and I felt cornered so I got emotional and said we should break things off. I thought we had resolved it before my return, but he thought we were broken up for a month even though we were still calling each other.
On top of this, I recently said I love you for the first time - he said he was very happy and loved me too (he has already told me he loves me). But he said he needed to think because everything has changed recently with him thinking we broke up and then the I love you thing. The last convo we had was great, but he hasn't returned my calls in two weeks.
I am so confused...I don't know why he isn't calling me back. I said I was sorry so many times and he said he still loves me and wants to see me...so why isn't he calling?
2006-12-05 17:27:17 · 7 answers · asked by ? 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Dam girl maybe hes busy...you know with Christmas coming up life gets hard...but then again you do sound like your desprate and honestly i think your scareing him off....so call him once and ask him to call you back when he can and if he dont call than you know its over and he moved on...and if he does its cuz he loves you or somthing like that....
2006-12-05 17:32:29 · answer #1 · answered by Kikkis 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dating, especially over distances, is finicky. The real anwer is probably that none of us really know, or could figure out his behaviors. The only thing you do know is how you feel and what you can do about it. Some advise a friend of mine gave me once was this: "When the phone doesn't ring, it just didn't ring. Don't assume you know why."
My suggestion would be to ask him what he wants from this relationship, tell him what you want and/or expect, and act accordingly. Having clear and common goals makes everything in dating much easier to digest. And if he can't give you clear answers, then move on. Seriously. If you have a question and communicate it clearly and simply, you deserve a clear and simple answer. Good luck to you!
2006-12-06 01:35:54 · answer #2 · answered by anne 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I suggest you ask him what the problem is up front. He may be seeing someone and doesn't know how to tell you.
Men who become evasive are generally hiding something.
He may have been happy at the time and yourself also, but time has a way of changing ones perspective in life.
"Ask and you shall receive". It may not be the answer you are looking for but at least its an answer.
2006-12-06 01:33:52 · answer #3 · answered by aotea s 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have a realy messed up relationship with this guy, hope for you it gets better, but personaly I'd move on
2006-12-06 02:20:47 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
leave him alone let him think u are going to freak him out with the way u r thinking ....calm dowwwwwwwnnnnnnnn. good luck
2006-12-06 01:35:19 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he realizes that you don't want to perform oral on him. Be careful or he may turn to black women for that.
2006-12-07 02:45:35 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
honestly maybe he has someone else and doesnt want to tell you. best thing to do is ask him. only he knows
2006-12-06 01:30:30 · answer #7 · answered by kd baby 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋