Divorce is getting nasty,$$$ r disappearing fast.asking me to sell the family home asap,spending $$ on russian ^%^&^%^%openly flaunting it but telling me to cut cost. He is only $$earner but both names on morgage.I am australian permanant Resident
2006-12-05 18:25:38 · 9 answers · asked by dzwatt 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Well you can get child protective services involved and advise them that you do not feel that your son is in a safe environment and is being exposed to pornography.They may have a meeting with your child talking to a therapist who will be able to determine the extent of what your child is seeing at his fathers home. In doing this your demands will supersede his in the respect that when you go to court you can demand sole physical custody with monitored visitation rights. Therefore he will really not be able to demand to much from you.You can take the info to the judge that you feel that your home is the best place for your son to be at this moment in his life, with all that is happening. Its worth a try. Ask the DA to help also they will give you advice.Just don't show your bitterness, show your vulnerability and desperation for the safety of your son and you will get the help you need. Be safe and good luck to you.
2006-12-05 18:37:25 · answer #1 · answered by Nikie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, do not sell the house....get some money from the account and ask your parents or someone you trust to keep it until divorce is final (you dont want to open an account coz you have to split that later)....make sure you keep a jornal about him looking at phorno online... you can use that against him later to get full costody of your child.
2006-12-05 18:34:03 · answer #2 · answered by Morena 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be a good mother and do what is in the best interests of your son.
Sounds to me you are way too focused on how to get even with your ex
2006-12-05 19:55:12 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you can dig dirt as far as you want but if you dont have proof its all hear say,trust me im going thru it now ,The court system is messed up everything is all about $.And your little one is to small to use in court.
2006-12-05 18:35:41 · answer #4 · answered by turnpage692002 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Maybe you both should stop thinking about $$$ and about how your boy will feel if it gets any uglier and try to act like adults.
2006-12-05 18:29:47 · answer #5 · answered by ivan 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
dirt for what? court? going for full custody? be more clear. also....what state do you live in...divorce laws are not the same in all states....beleive it or not
2006-12-05 18:31:16 · answer #6 · answered by sdbrian92108 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It's almost over, at this point in time it doesn't matter what he asks you to do, move on.
2006-12-05 18:35:28 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
are you desperate???
because we cant understand your question... what is your question again???
2006-12-05 18:33:22 · answer #8 · answered by bugi 6 · 1⤊ 2⤋
yes....your question is...??
exactly, what is your question???
2006-12-05 18:28:56 · answer #9 · answered by Blue Fairy 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋