Family & Relationships - 4 December 2006

just say "a" or "b"
a = yes
b = no
is love imprtant?

2006-12-04 21:23:02 · 23 answers · asked by lover 1 in Singles & Dating

i like this guy but a few problems i gota kid and dunno if he wants to have kids also he doesn't have a job really or a place of his own hes 26 and i really liek him and hes really sweet what shall i do

2006-12-04 21:22:39 · 10 answers · asked by leanne b 1 in Singles & Dating

I love a guy very much and he loves me very much. He wants to give me all rights of a wife. He want 2 live with me like hubby and wife. actully after one n half year we will be apart from each other. But I am indian girl and think taht marriege happens once in life. If I will marry him I will not be able to marry with another person because than I will be a wife and a wife cant be of another. Even he cant see me in anothers arms so what should i do.Please help me.He treats me like a husband. we love eachother very much.

2006-12-04 21:21:16 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

I have girlfriends that live at home and they get dates easily, why is this a turnoff for some women?

2006-12-04 21:19:26 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

She got selected in Medical Entrance Test (Assam) last year in 2005 and she is doing her course in any one of the three Medical College in Assam (GMC, AMC or SMC) in Ghy, Dibrugarh or in Silchar. She is staying in Ghy in Chanmari area. Her sister is doing B.A. 1st yr in Cotton College in Assam.

2006-12-04 21:16:44 · 12 answers · asked by nabadip rajkhowa 1 in Friends

i have recently found out that i am pregnant with twins and have split up with my partner, some of my friends are getting involved. me and my ex partner are still friends but are no longer together how can i tell people to stay out of my business and causing trouble? please help i dont want to lose my mates over this!!

2006-12-04 21:15:25 · 9 answers · asked by Bipolar-Bird88 3 in Friends

2006-12-04 21:15:16 · 5 answers · asked by Deepak K 1 in Singles & Dating

I have got married for one year but my husband still doesn't want to make love with me. He takes care me very careful and loves me very much. He is 59 years old but he still looks healthy. I ask him many times he said he will give me soon and explained that he doesn't feel comfortable staying in with my mother in law. I find out he is searching sex image on the net. What should I do?

2006-12-04 21:14:56 · 11 answers · asked by Rabbit 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I am 23 years old and I just moved across the country to go to school. I took a part time job at a clothing store about a month ago. My boss is 25 and I have been attracted to her ever since I started.The atmosphere we work in allows for alot of contact between us. We are always joking around and touching each other in playful manners.I think we have great chemistry and I really enjoy my time with her. I know it is typically a bad idea to get involved with a co-worker but I am willing to leave the job if we have a chance at a relationship. I have decided to tell her how I feel. Should I just tell her I have a crush on her and wait for a reply. Whould it be better not to confess a crush and just see if she wants to hang out?

2006-12-04 21:14:53 · 6 answers · asked by Rusty 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-04 21:11:09 · 10 answers · asked by Osemwengie f 1 in Singles & Dating

what are the main reasons why men or women cheat on thier wives/husbands?

2006-12-04 21:11:09 · 12 answers · asked by yukmouth 6 in Marriage & Divorce

My wife always seems to put the needs of our kids ahead of mine. Do you think it's ok and I'm just over reacting or is she totally in the wrong?

2006-12-04 21:11:03 · 22 answers · asked by . .magic 1 in Marriage & Divorce

this guy..that i was involvedd with..me and him did stuff together.we even had sex..and he still contacts me and talks sweetly and romantically with me...and even said he was thinking to go long term with me..so i guess he likes me..but i found out he is trying to look for other chicks...in his CASTE..(as we r indian)..for MARRIAGE..he is also trying to get to know others.from his own religion..and flirting around w. them..and possibly marry them..why is he doing that if he likes me..How can he do that.>PLS TELL ME WHAT SHUD I THINK N WHAT SHUD I DO? SHUD I CONFRONT HIM? n be like why da hell r u wasting my time if ur gona look for other chiks?? M i over reacting? or IS HE WRONG?..ths all I want to know..JUST ANSWER THAT N ADVISE ON WHT TO DO PLS!!! isnt he soo wrong?!! n how i know is cuz i like him so much that i made a fake id and tested him to c how he was..n he was really flirty and stuff....:((((

2006-12-04 21:09:47 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

3 months ago I told my girlfriend I wanted some time apart because things were moving fast, and we were getting pretty serious. My girlfriend was very upset, but I insisted and we didnt see each other for a month. When I realized how much I loved her I asked her to take me back. At first she was still angry at me, but after a few weeks she finaly took me back.We are happy for the past two months, but last week I asked if she had dated anyone while we were apart - I did not.I found out she not only did date but she even slept with someone she knows from her gym and someone from her work, she says for about 3 weeks she had regular sex .The past few days I have been trying to hold in my jealousy.I know it is my fault and I gave her the freedom, but how do I get rid of my rage without showing it to my girlfriend?I have been asking her details of what happened and we have talked, and i feel i need to know altho its hard. i let her know it is ok to talk about enjoying the sex. am i ok?

2006-12-04 21:09:29 · 3 answers · asked by downtokissit 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

3 months ago I told my girlfriend I wanted some time apart because things were moving fast, and we were getting pretty serious. My girlfriend was very upset, but I insisted and we didnt see each other for a month. When I realized how much I loved her I asked her to take me back. At first she was still angry at me, but after a few weeks she finaly took me back.We are happy for the past two months, but last week I asked if she had dated anyone while we were apart - I did not.I found out she not only did date but she even slept with someone she knows from her gym and someone from her work, she says for about 3 weeks she had regular sex .The past few days I have been trying to hold in my jealousy.I know it is my fault and I gave her the freedom, but how do I get rid of my rage without showing it to my girlfriend?I have been asking her details of what happened and we have talked, and i feel i need to know altho its hard. i let her know it is ok to talk about enjoying the sex. am i ok?

2006-12-04 21:09:04 · 7 answers · asked by downtokissit 1 in Singles & Dating

I was in a relationship was serious but both knew was going to end due to circumstances but pledged friendship. The last few times together I sensed I was being told stories about a week coming up what was going on. I questioned and said I knew it was a story orstories and why did he not just tell me. He became agressive and defensive and said there was no one else in his life. I now know he spend that week with anohter woman visiting from America. (as a friend ??) He still will say nothing of it and the whole relationship is different between us no closeness not the man I knew. Thing is he is now telling any new possible partners he has been very badly hurt recently.......I am bits at the loss of a man I thought I knew and loved and he it sems feels like because I said I felt he was lying is going around saying I hurt him. He will not communicate properly in spite of my best efforts to talk as two adults...says I go on. How can he take the moral tone with me?

2006-12-04 21:05:04 · 11 answers · asked by evergreen 3 in Singles & Dating

i am sorry i was not clear. i am a 21, 6 foot 3 year old Cuban. i go to the gym at least 3 times a week and i am 210lb and i good looking. i get along very well with woman. i make then laugh, i make then feel comfortable around me. the question meant, that given all of that why am i still a virgin.

2006-12-04 21:04:42 · 5 answers · asked by Dennis B 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

in bible God said "He hate divorce"but how if husband commit adultery.if husband cheat is it a sin to divorce him?

2006-12-04 21:04:31 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

what if she is shy and doesn't have a lot of friends?
what if she is not a straight A student and not so smart?
what if she is a type of a girl who often gets picked on by others
what if she is not slender or good looking

you won't even look at her twice even if she is a very nice girl?
you feel a peer pressure that you have to have a good looking cool girlfriend?

does she have to be a popularity whom you can brag about?

2006-12-04 21:03:21 · 16 answers · asked by ♥ caramel_bonbon ♥ 4 in Singles & Dating

with someone, feel comfortable and immediate attraction to them?

I would say so.

If you found something like this, what would you do with it?

2006-12-04 21:03:06 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

does she like me like a boyfriend or friend?

2006-12-04 21:01:16 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

and offered to take you on a cheap night out........what would we do?

2006-12-04 20:59:58 · 26 answers · asked by Nellynoo 4 in Friends

Our break was clean but I don't really want to see him, it will be too awkward.

2006-12-04 20:59:39 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

How do I do it without seeming desparate

2006-12-04 20:59:31 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

We have all the little things we like.....what do you dislike about your Sweetie?

2006-12-04 20:59:00 · 6 answers · asked by ? 5 in Singles & Dating

I have a friend who is 35, divorced with 3 kids and has bipolar. She is currently seeing a guy who is living with his girlfriend. She also works for me although she can be lazy at times. She keeps telling me that she has made a mess of her life but I think she has potential if she only tried

2006-12-04 20:58:36 · 4 answers · asked by sdfsd f 1 in Friends

2006-12-04 20:58:05 · 17 answers · asked by trojan 1 in Singles & Dating

When after loving them even with their flaws and forgiving many times hoping that things will get better.Only for them to leave you and the kids for another who just had kids from an affair during your marriage.Some people say just move on but it is always easier to say this when your have never experienced it

2006-12-04 20:57:03 · 17 answers · asked by JUSEve 2 in Marriage & Divorce

During this year,I have been living in the pains from my bf who I met online.He loved and spolied me very much.But now he has changed,every day I connect with him,he is cold to me.I think he has found another,but I asked him,he says no.If he can tell me his thoughts directly,I will give my best wishes to him.But what a pity,he refuses to tell me his real thoughts.we are in different countries,I cannot go to see him.what I can do is to wait for him here.It seemed that he will not plan for our meeting any more.I am so painful,every night I will cry,I miss him so much.Too much pressure and depression in my heart.I hate myself I love him so much,I am so scard,if he really breaks up with me.I don't know how to move on my life.Because I know I will not trust or love any men.It is so hard for me.I really want to kill myself.so I can get away from the pains.But I am worried about my parents.
what should I do now?I am so scard to face the world,please help me!Thanks

2006-12-04 20:56:22 · 9 answers · asked by honeylinda 1 in Singles & Dating

I MET A GIRL IN 1987 WITH WHOM I FEEL IN LOVE AND ATTRACTED BUT COULD NOT EVEN TALK TO HER AND REMEMBER HER FOR 7 YEARS LOST MY SLEEP I WAS ONLY 17 YEARS.
NEXT INCIDENCE OCCURED IN 1993 WHEN I CAME ACROSS A GIRL WHO USE TO TAKE BREAKFAST DAILY WITH ME AND SOMEHOW ICONFESSED HER MY LOVE THROUGH GREETINGS .ON ASKING SHE SAID HEIGHT OF MISUNDERSTANDING I DO NOT KNOW WHEN YOU WILL BECOME MATURE.I SAID OK AFTER AMONTH SHE LEFT BUT ICOULD NOT FORGET HER SO I WROTE TO HER ALSO TRIED APHONE CALL BUT COULD NOT SPEAK TO HER AND DO NOT MEET HER BUT SHE MET ME BEFORE LEAVING INFORMING ME THAT SHE IS LEAVING. I SAID TO HER ALL THE BEST.I COULD NOT FORGET HER PAST 13 YEARS STARTED SMOKING DRINKING WHICH LASTED FOR 10 YEARS HAVING LEFT NOW IMPROVED MY HEALTH AND MAKING A COMEBACK.RECENTLY I GOT A PROPOSE FROM A GIRL ON PHONE WHO IS TAKING LUNCH WITH ME FOR 1YR 6MONTHS AND ALSO TRY TO SPEAK TO ME SEVERAL TIMES ALSO WATCHES ME AND LOOKS AWAY WHEN ISSEE TO HER. PLEASE SUGGEST WHAT SHALL I DO NOW

2006-12-04 20:54:39 · 8 answers · asked by RAJ 1 in Singles & Dating