come on people i need more ideas here, hot girl at gym, how do i approach her and get her number??

Answer 1

You dont....

You make yourself the best u can.. look and smell good.

Make sure she sees you full of confidence and chatting with other females. You want her to see that you are comfortable with the females but still respectful.

If you have a nice car make sure she sees you getting in it.
That kind of thing.

You are building social value... Then you place yourself around her and let her say hi first, make eye contact and say hello....then move on.
Then take it from there the next time and ask a few q's and move on.

Then ask if she wants to "join you" to go get something to drink bc you are soooo thirsty. You are asking on the way out the door if she wants YOUR company....if she says no she isnt thirsty but you are and you keep going out the door. Do this again later after you chat her up about fitness...etc. She may even ask you later...

Get it?

You are getting a date and she spoke first, you didnt chase her or seem desperate....

Answer 2

DON'T approach while she's working out... usually fitness women HATE that. Get her when she first comes into the gym or in or out of the bathroom or at a drink fountain. Usually after a good sweat a woman only wants to run to the shower and get going so avoid that as well or she'll rush ya off.
FYI get a date & her number at the same time. If u just get a number she'll later have the ability to think about it and say eehhhh no thanks. If u have a date already set she will be more obligated to follow through giving u a chance to woe her lol.

Answer 3

First see if she makes any eye contact with you (the good kind, not the go away you freak type). Then just go up to her and start a conversation.

I hate when all these guys at the gym are clearly checking me out, keep happening to be at the treadmill or whatever equipment immediately next to you and then stop there... you have to take it that tiny bit further....

Answer 4

That easy, next time you pass her say hi then after you have done that a couple of times it will be easy just to say hallo and continue talking. If you are unsure on the subject matter that is easy to, just ask her how she rates the gym and if she goes to any others etc, etc, etc. Go on you can do it. Sheila.

Answer 5

The extremely attractive women in this world are used to male attention. Period.

And should it surprise you?

Of course not. Well in this article, I am going to tell you the #1 way of attracting one of these high-calliber women.

First, I want to tell you what it is like to be one of these women. It's important to be able to see the world through an attractive woman's eyes.

Imagine just for a second...

You are walking from the subway to the store to return a pair of shoes you bought last week.

Not one minute off the subway, a man looks at you and smiles. He holds eye contact past the point of being comfortable, but says nothing, and keeps walking.

Now on the street, another guy looks at you and exclaims "Wow, you're hot." And continues to watch you as you walk past him.

What was he expecting? Did he thing you would turn around and chase him down simply because he expressed his interst? Jeez. This is getting old. You just want to return your shoes!

Once in the store, you are on your way to the counter when a very sophisticated older gentleman approaches you.

He seems very nice and holds up a conversation pretty well. He tells you your eyes are pretty, and he was intrigued by your smile.

This is somewhat refreshing, since he seems to pay attention to you.

But his compliments don't stop there. Now he is looking at your breasts. And he is telling you your shirt is also very pretty. Ok Ok... enough old man, I get it.

And now he is telling you he would like to buy you a diamond necklace to go with your shirt.

What? What did you do to win this man's attention? He must be very desperate. Does he do this to every girl?? Can you see how frustrating life can be for one of these women?

Every man is either too scared to make a real approach or so nice that it is sickening.

BE DIFFERENT.

That's right. The way to get the attention and build attraction with these women isn't through money, fame or good looks. You must be different and distinguish yourself from every other guy who has given her attention in the past 24 hours.

In a nutshell, the two most effective ways to distinguish yourself from the monotony and endless barrage of boring men lies in the following two behaviors.

1. Have the confidence to approach, hold eye contact and have a normal conversation with her.

Most men are intimidated by beautiful women. Don't be one of them.

2. Be more impressed by her personality than her physical beauty.

Take the time to learn what makes her special from every other woman around you. Learn about her intersts, passions and dreams. Then use those as starting points to demonstrate your interest in her.

Mastering those two things will put you light years ahead of most men out there, and put you in a position to find a really beautiful woman who appreciates being with you as well.

Answer 6

Im a instructor....I see it everyday and the girl will come to reception and sat who's that to**er.....the best thing to do is dont do the crap chat up lines just give a smile and a quick Hi....get talking but just start with the basics build it up! Good luck :o)

Answer 7

Just pass by her and say "Hi!" next time you go in. Follow up with something nice and yet, totally unconfrontational (girls get creeped when guys act predatory) like, "You look like you're having a good day! I'm so-and-so." Strike up a natural conversation. If she genuinely likes you for your personality, things will move forward on their own. Relax, be funny, cool, confident, and remember...she's a person, just like you.

Answer 8

Listen to what iamfiroz said trust me!!!!!!!!!!....... don't bother her while shes working out try and catch her on her way in or out of the gym and start off with a simple hello at first .....don't be too aggressive...and don't compliment her on her looks she's there for her health not to attract MEN....try not to make it so painfully obvious that you're hitting on her.....

Answer 9

please dont approach girls at the gym and hit o themm...its annoying and makes the guy seem desperate
u can cassually chat or say hi if she is on the treadmill next to her but otherwise forget it....i hate when guys hit on me at the gym they give me the impression they are just haning out at the gym to check out the chics..its slimey

Answer 10

They got a pool?

My Wife told me to "not talk" to women when I went to the gym... (yea, she heard about those wild places)...

So, I took advice, and didnt. But, I found that once I was in the pool, women would want to talk to me! So, I left the gym soon after that, as I didnt want to start a relationship up with other women, as I was happily married to my wife...

(Also, the other woman left, because I wouldnt start a relationship up either :)...

I wish you well..

Jesse