During this year,I have been living in the pains from my bf who I met online.He loved and spolied me very much.But now he has changed,every day I connect with him,he is cold to me.I think he has found another,but I asked him,he says no.If he can tell me his thoughts directly,I will give my best wishes to him.But what a pity,he refuses to tell me his real thoughts.we are in different countries,I cannot go to see him.what I can do is to wait for him here.It seemed that he will not plan for our meeting any more.I am so painful,every night I will cry,I miss him so much.Too much pressure and depression in my heart.I hate myself I love him so much,I am so scard,if he really breaks up with me.I don't know how to move on my life.Because I know I will not trust or love any men.It is so hard for me.I really want to kill myself.so I can get away from the pains.But I am worried about my parents.
what should I do now?I am so scard to face the world,please help me!Thanks
2006-12-04 20:56:22 · 9 answers · asked by honeylinda 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
we have met each other three times last year,he asked me to marry.we planned for wedding.when he has changed now.I don't know what is wrong.the feeling is like from the heaven to the hell.he is not sweet any more
2006-12-04 21:26:26 · update #1
Dear you can't kill yourself for someone you haven't met. It's very easy to fall in love online but only when you met in person you will know if the love is true or not. TRy to get over him. Know it must be hard but remember that person is nt part of ur life. Your life will still be the same except you won't be chatting with him. Except that nothing will change. Why shud u be scare to face the world. Just get off the computer and return in reality. If you mean something to him, let him come to you. You have try watever you can to get him back the way he was with you. So, stop lamenting on urself. Take it as an experience coz let me tell you being in a relationship with someone online and living a real relationship is world apart. Online relationship is just like living in a dream but it's a person at ur side u need nt an illusion of happiness.
let me tell you one thing, watever u are going now actually i am living it myself. Till yesterday i was just like you; depressed and thinking that there can't be anyone but him in my life. But replying to you i realised that am a fool if i continue let someone lead me like this. I have lost enough because of him but not anymore.
If u want u can email me at vedix_11@yahoo.co.uk.
Cheer up. It's nt the end of the world.
2006-12-04 21:22:52 · answer #1 · answered by Saphire 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi -
1. Don't kill yourself.
2. Be honest too yourself, what did you expect from a guy you met on-line.
3. Don't kill yourself.
4. Get a life (try throwing away your computer).
5. Don't kill yourself.
6. Talk to your parents, you really need help!!!!
7. Don't kill yourself.
8. How can you really be in-love with someone you really don't know properly?
9. Stop kidding yourself.
10. Don't kill yourself!!!
2006-12-05 05:10:45 · answer #2 · answered by kellz_car 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dear little innocent girl , why don't you try to be independent without needing approval , you are smart , intelligent and beautiful with a strong balanced mind , you must regain your natural original self respect and self confidence to ensure that you are not running & begging people for your happiness , let people beg for your company / your smile / your friendship . Please do stand and take your own charge & tell the world that you are the real strong human and nobody can beat you ( go to play ground and shout for 9 times ) I am sure you will be relaxed and happy .
2006-12-05 05:08:40 · answer #3 · answered by your noon 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you need a friend to talk to and online long distance relationships do not work for very long, you have got to move on if that is what he wants , dont go against men just because of one, there will be others and the bad feelings will go away soon, one day at a time is the best way , if you want a friend or just someone to talk to then email me ,im a good listener, your parents would probably help if you asked them
2006-12-05 05:07:54 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
if you two never actually met how do you know that you love him?! you just used to his nice words, it's so hard these days to find some body to listen to us and he listened to you and as you said he was sweet talk.
All don't mean that you are in love, The first sign of love is when two people,s eyes meet.
A friendly advice to you, please try to look for a real relationship, a person to look into your eyes and tell you that he love you.
you can make friends on the net but no lovers, please
2006-12-05 05:17:42 · answer #5 · answered by Princess 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get off the damn computer and go get a life.
Enough already.
Seriously, this is pathetic.... there is life out there.
2006-12-05 04:58:19 · answer #6 · answered by Its me 4 · 4⤊ 0⤋
You haven't met him, your in different countires.
enter the real world!!
2006-12-05 05:19:27 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
for one dont kill yourself. i know how you feel. really. you just need to actually get him to talk to you and figure things out or give him an ultimatium...
2006-12-05 05:01:04 · answer #8 · answered by TheGuru 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Please don't kill your self you will hurt your family with guilt.
There is plenty of fishes in the sea too catch.
2006-12-05 05:03:58 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋