I have got married for one year but my husband still doesn't want to make love with me. He takes care me very careful and loves me very much. He is 59 years old but he still looks healthy. I ask him many times he said he will give me soon and explained that he doesn't feel comfortable staying in with my mother in law. I find out he is searching sex image on the net. What should I do?
2006-12-04 21:14:56 · 11 answers · asked by Rabbit 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
No. This is not indicative of a happy marriage. If one partner is "unsatisfied" then both must work together to fix the problem. A happy relationship cannot be based on what just one partner wants (or doesn't want) to do. He also needs to stop looking a filth on the internet. This is extremely disrespectful to you. Especially in light of the lack of intimacy between you. I think that you should tell him openly and honestly how you feel. And if he is not willing to try to fulfill you and make you happy, than he is selfish and is not marriage material.
2006-12-04 21:29:36 · answer #1 · answered by SchrodingersTigress 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
At least insist him to take you out on weekends to some Motels , if he is really interested and love you , will do what you are expecting in the house . Go & ask him to plan outing now .
2006-12-05 05:23:01 · answer #2 · answered by your noon 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
assuming he lives with his mum and so do you,,,,get your own home,,the both of you,,,this isnt good and he shouldnt expect you to wait,,do bear in mind she has had a sex life and it may now be done with but im sure she wouldnt want him missing out because of her being there,,,talk to him,,let him know you cant go on like this, in a sexless marriage,,you could go to a romantic hotel to get the ball rolling and see what happens,,,,,,you may be onto a looser here.
2006-12-05 07:12:54 · answer #3 · answered by lex 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah I agree with David. I can understand why he's not wanting to! Go out and live together and then hopefully things will blossom!
2006-12-05 05:18:51 · answer #4 · answered by Nicky 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He is probably suffering from erectile dysfunction and is searching for some medication from the internet.
Go and find it out yourself.
2006-12-05 05:27:56 · answer #5 · answered by Always Can 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he only married you for conveniance he is not interested in you for a relationship rather he just wants you to be his house wife cook for him ect,when it comes to stimulation thats why he goes ont he net because he dioesnt want to sleep with you
2006-12-05 05:23:44 · answer #6 · answered by treatau 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
y'all need to move out, then see what happens. if it persists its not the mother in law, its him.
2006-12-05 05:17:32 · answer #7 · answered by David B 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Can you pray?
You must pray for him, he needs your prayers!
May God give you the wisdom you need!
2006-12-05 05:33:55 · answer #8 · answered by tatal_nostru2006 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he loves you but doesn't find you sexually attractive...it can be quite common...try to lure him...dress up...make it fun like it's designed to be..if that fails...move on...
2006-12-05 05:19:09 · answer #9 · answered by admiralawesome2006 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
let me ask wats ur age.
he may not be interested in doing sex
instead he find pleasure in seeing such images.
you ask whether wat he likes.
otherwise go for a counselling that woud be better
2006-12-05 05:23:30 · answer #10 · answered by dracu 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋