what are the main reasons why men or women cheat on thier wives/husbands?
2006-12-04 21:11:09 · 12 answers · asked by yukmouth 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
For a woman it's mainly to get love and affection that she's not getting from her husband.
For a man there are lots of reasons like the need to have sex more frequently than is happening at home, or because he needs a new woman who loves him and flirts with him and make him feel like a king while his wife just needs him to fix stuff in the house, or that he's had too much to drink and he's horny...
2006-12-04 21:57:39 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wont condone people having affairs But I am of the impression that it is generally to fill a void , a relationship isn't new for long and both parties settle into a deep and less erotic friendship after a few years, so it is my impression that it is at this time that usually a partner will start looking for that stomach turning sweaty palm weak at the knee's type of new love ,that drove them to distraction in their younger days .
So I think it can be for many reasons but generally it is a need that to be in love not just to be in a relationship.
2006-12-05 05:28:54 · answer #2 · answered by slick 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't really know !! My husband said he cheated because we weren't getting on real well, he didn't know how l felt about him, he was confused and hurt and the sl*t was available and very willing ( I added the last bit cause that's what l think !! ) For women l don't really know. It is certainly not something l could ever do to someone l loved !! Maybe some women cheat because they crave attention that they don't get from their husbands or maybe boredom or they are just plain slu*ts that can't help themselves. Who really knows why people cheat, they just do unfortunately for the partners who get hurt !!!!
2006-12-05 05:36:02 · answer #3 · answered by kazzadanni 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Something is missing in the marriage. It could be any number of things. A lover in an affair can temporarily meet some emotional or sexual needs that are not met in the marriage. There are also affairs based on pure lust, and others in which one spouse "pays back" an unfaithful spouse by having an affair.
2006-12-05 10:46:52 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
becoming bored in the bedroom so seeking excitement else where. T-bone steak ... sure is good ... but lets try chicken tomorrow. Keep the bedroom spicey try new things. Talk to each other about different attractions or what turns them on and do it. Surprise him one night with ________. Sex cannot become routine or else it almost becomes a chore.
2006-12-05 05:16:24 · answer #5 · answered by massure4hire 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not being 100% happy and not having any self control and maybe being a bit of a slapper
2006-12-05 05:20:40 · answer #6 · answered by carrienicholson23 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We are all animals and have the instinct breed, we have the need to breed, The male wonders as any other of breeds.
2006-12-05 05:23:02 · answer #7 · answered by bj 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
for women i think its lonliness / neglect...for men its the successful hunt and (kill) of the intended prey...we are all primal creatures and unfortunatley thats how it will always be.
2006-12-05 05:17:03 · answer #8 · answered by admiralawesome2006 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
sometimes they regret ever staying with them. sometimes their not giving each other what the person their cheating with can.
2006-12-05 05:15:26 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
getting bored of the same routine
2006-12-05 10:54:52 · answer #10 · answered by misael t 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋