I love a guy very much and he loves me very much. He wants to give me all rights of a wife. He want 2 live with me like hubby and wife. actully after one n half year we will be apart from each other. But I am indian girl and think taht marriege happens once in life. If I will marry him I will not be able to marry with another person because than I will be a wife and a wife cant be of another. Even he cant see me in anothers arms so what should i do.Please help me.He treats me like a husband. we love eachother very much.
2006-12-04 21:21:16 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
You marry, you marry for life!
Tell him that you are not going to "give him" the pleasure of having a Wife for the short term, and have him go where ever he is going and not take you along with him...
It just doesnt work that way...
Basically, he wants his "cake and eat it too" as you will be his "main squeeze" for now, and when he is done with you, he will toss you aside for some one else where he is going for awhile there too...(how many he has done this with, is something you may never know)...
I would say NO to this situation...
But, its your decision, and you seem like you already have the answer, and just need to verify it with others...
I wish you well..
Jesse
2006-12-04 21:26:03 · answer #1 · answered by x 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
You have yet to confront with the facts.
Stay out couple of days and think about what you are doing? If he is really that serious with you then he should be with you forever which I don't think he has in his mind.
If he is scared of taking responsibilities and commitments then better luck somewhere else.
Being a guy I can say many would like to give you all the rights of wife for one and a half year.
Right one will stick to you forever.
Feeling pity for you.
2006-12-05 05:35:22 · answer #2 · answered by Sanju_the_gr8 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sweetheart, if he loved you he would not want you for just a year. He is a guy who wants you to understand that he will marry/date
you for a year then dump you. You are not the one for him. he thinks this and is making it clear.
Sometimes guys who dont want a woman will make request so demeaning that they think surely the woman wont go along with it and unfortunatly if you do its because YOU apparently are a doormat and it does not matter. If he loved you, he would not ask this of you. if he really loved you, would he want to do something t that would ruin you for marraige which he has made clear he wont be around forever. He is trying to antagonize you to get mad and leave him. then he is not bad guy....you left him.
Dont get mad, just let him go. If he really loved you, he would not ask you to give up marrage with true love for him. that is what he is plainly asking you to do. he does not love you enough for that and instead of just telling you he thinks you will wise up on your own when he ask this. Like i said, if you agree to be a doormat guys will let you be. He has laid it all out. dont be a doormat.
2006-12-05 06:42:59 · answer #3 · answered by Miss Johny 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
A short term marriage isnt worth it if you two really love one another then you would have a long term marriage. Just because you guys have to separate does that mean that you cant remain married and reunite?
2006-12-05 05:23:55 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
That's not a marriage ... that's a farce. If he loves you, he should not want to leave after a year and a half. You don't say why he wants to do this ... but I'd say not to do it. Respect yourself and go on with your life....without him.
2006-12-05 05:31:06 · answer #5 · answered by schaianne 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why would you be apart form one another? If you dont mind me asking. Cant you find a way to stay together. You need to follow your heart. And if you lvoe him then do what you feel is right.
2006-12-05 05:23:36 · answer #6 · answered by Rebecca H 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
i would say , if he can not commit to live with u the rest of his life , then he is playing around
i am muslim and in or religion this is forbidden , because it is not a marriage
2006-12-05 05:28:24 · answer #7 · answered by stranger 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
When you are sure and know your future status , do not fool your self , yes , if you are enjoying his body & company , keep do enjoying , but pl do keep this secret in your heart for your happy & peaceful future .
2006-12-05 05:29:06 · answer #8 · answered by your noon 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Why is he leaving?
2006-12-05 07:00:05 · answer #9 · answered by dumpllin 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋