what if she is shy and doesn't have a lot of friends?
what if she is not a straight A student and not so smart?
what if she is a type of a girl who often gets picked on by others
what if she is not slender or good looking
you won't even look at her twice even if she is a very nice girl?
you feel a peer pressure that you have to have a good looking cool girlfriend?
does she have to be a popularity whom you can brag about?
2006-12-04 21:03:21 · 16 answers · asked by ♥ caramel_bonbon ♥ 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
As long as she puts smile on my face the rest of it is just trivial well accept the good looking
2006-12-04 21:09:11 · answer #1 · answered by Normefoo 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Interesting question.
Yeah, I would like very much to have someone who I could feel "proud" to introduce or show around. But if she does it for me THAT much, then I wouldn't give a hoot what others thought of her. She'd have to make a significant impact on me to feel that way, though. But I would totally prefer to have a girl who made a super impression on me than a trophy.
I don't date shy and/or unsociable girls, so forget that.
There are all kinds of smarts. I don't particularly care about academic smarts, even though the smarter she is all-around the more attractive she would be to me. As long as she had common sense and some social smarts, I'd be satisfied.
Attractiveness is very important to me. That being said, what I consider attractive is not necessarily what most guys consider attractive. I believe most men basically focus on one or two points about a woman, the rest they can forgive. Most guys I know like eyes and curves. So, if a girl puts on a bit of make up and watches her figure, most guys are satisfied. I personally like smiles and boobs, so I can forgive just about any other defect.
I think a lot of younger guys, or guys who don't know EXACTLY what they want, would feel pressure to be with a woman other men approve of. Which may make them picky. But as men get more experience with women, they get to know what makes them happy and begin to care less what others think.
2006-12-04 21:10:48 · answer #2 · answered by JudasHero 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Hmmm you have just described about 70% of all women in the World!!!
Not everyone can be a beauty queen, and almost every girl loses her looks as she gets older, (isnt that what "war paint" is for? Covering up all the imperfections so that every woman can be a beauty? Or, so they trowel it on for nothing LOL!!)...
A mature person will look for a woman or girlfriend for themselves, and nothing more.
Anyone who is attracted to "beauty" is a very shallow person, and cant be relied upon when the beauty starts to fade, because they will start to wander as they wonder where the beauty they married went to...
A mature person wants some one who will stick by them... But, if your talking about boys, well, every boy wants a beauty by thier side, as they can "brag" to the other fellas that they have the "best"...But, you will find some boys who will still love some one for whom they are, and develope deep relationships because of the ability of the female to relate to him and bond together...
A person looks for some one to "compliment" themselves. They see something in some one that they are missing in themselves and thats what makes a perfect relationship.
Be that person who will compliment some one and you will be the perfect girl for them...
I wish you well..
Jesse
2006-12-04 21:10:56 · answer #3 · answered by x 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
1. Her friends dont matter, cause I dont want to hook up my friends anyway.
2. Grades dont mean anything, seeing our educational system in this country is greatly flawed.
3. Doesnt matter what other people think about you, its what the guy thinks about you.
4. There is someone for everyone, you just have to be patient, and open.
5-7. Popularity etc etc, only applies to work, and high school. If you strive to be popular at work or high school...you are probably a very petty person. So dont try to be petty to impress people.
2006-12-04 21:07:54 · answer #4 · answered by SadPoet 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I am single, not bad looking, an adult, not bad looking, and I am looking for someone to date. All of the things you mentioned are not important to me. Yes, of course it helps if she is good looking, but not the right thing to pick a g.f. for, I know that from experience... I say kind of cute and really nice is the most important thing.
BUT I only look for girls IN PERSON, not online, and NOT at bars. I talk to people in the park, the grocercy store, coffee shops, book stores, join a club for jogging, kite flying, whatever. You should not be looking for a guy online. I like to chat and meet ppl online but I do NOT look for dates online.
2006-12-05 11:37:07 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
1. Doesn't matter
2. Who cares
3. Now that she's with him he will have her back when others pick on her
4. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder
Depends on the maturity level. Some can't/won't think for themselves and only follow. Others get it and do what is right for them regardless of what others think.
2006-12-04 21:12:01 · answer #6 · answered by DialM4Speed 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
your still in HS arn't you? If a guy is hounded by his friends wow she's a dog or wow she's hot well done of course its going to make a difference.
2006-12-04 21:06:40 · answer #7 · answered by massure4hire 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i dont care what other people think--i would like to have a girl like that ,but i am older and im more openminded and do what i want and am with who i want to be with, i dont get into a relationship with a girl that other people like
2006-12-04 21:13:26 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
unless if the guy is 14
2006-12-04 21:14:45 · answer #9 · answered by mommy2be 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if im in love it wont matter what she is or what she does i'll introduce her no matter what and if they dont like her well then it shows that they we're never my friends.
2006-12-04 21:06:19 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋