Is it rare these days to make an instant connection?

Question

with someone, feel comfortable and immediate attraction to them?

I would say so.

If you found something like this, what would you do with it?

Answer 1

it could be an infatuation, a crush that could pass over time. can you picture youself growing old with this person? or at least in a long term relationship? does he act well under pressure?

Answer 2

You say "these days" like instant connections used to be an every day occurence or something.
I think most people on this earth don't have a clue how to CREATE a connection, and they leave it to blind luck. As long as that's the case, yeah, it'll be pretty rare.
I'd cherish a connection, whether instant or not. I'm all about connecting to people.

Answer 3

I don't think it is as rare to make an instant connection as it is to make a lasting one.

Answer 4

Oh yeah, its rare. People today are just so diverse, and they know exactly what they want and few are willing to settle. Its tough.

I found him, and we've been together for almost 5 years. All I did was just love him for him. That's all anyone should really do.

Answer 5

I dont trust Instant. Instant would be good for some time only, until you have flavour.

I simply reject instant ones

Answer 6

Start by building a friendship. That is what my wife and I did. We are now married 14 years.

Answer 7

i agree with the last person build a friendship but it is possible just do your research on that person cause you night find something you cant avoid in the future

Answer 8

yes its rare thanks to the internet its made people second guess everyone they meet or talk to. Oooo ur a doctor with a porche but this is your rental because it needed a new timing belt huh??

Answer 9

I keep him all to myself. I lucked up and don't plan on letting him go.

Answer 10

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