3 months ago I told my girlfriend I wanted some time apart because things were moving fast, and we were getting pretty serious. My girlfriend was very upset, but I insisted and we didnt see each other for a month. When I realized how much I loved her I asked her to take me back. At first she was still angry at me, but after a few weeks she finaly took me back.We are happy for the past two months, but last week I asked if she had dated anyone while we were apart - I did not.I found out she not only did date but she even slept with someone she knows from her gym and someone from her work, she says for about 3 weeks she had regular sex .The past few days I have been trying to hold in my jealousy.I know it is my fault and I gave her the freedom, but how do I get rid of my rage without showing it to my girlfriend?I have been asking her details of what happened and we have talked, and i feel i need to know altho its hard. i let her know it is ok to talk about enjoying the sex. am i ok?
2006-12-04 21:09:04 · 7 answers · asked by downtokissit 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sounds like you're lying to yourself. Why would you tell her it's okay if you're all pissed off about it? Sounds like it's time for some serious self-exploration. Why are you trying to get involved in something serious when you're not ready for what might happen as a result? Take a look at yourself and start asking some questions, dude: Why are you jealous? Why do you care so much what your partner did (and may do again in the future)? Why are you in a relationship? If you are feeling this way, why don't you just separate from her? Ask yourself until you realize what your flaws are and start working on those. This relationship isn't what your life is about; this relationship is just practice for your future, so get working.
2006-12-04 21:17:41 · answer #1 · answered by JudasHero 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to move on ..and you don't need to blame anyone ..it's not as if shes been cheating on you ..
you wear both unattached then when it happened ..
..and by the way dude ..if the other guy was better then you ..she wouldn't have come back to you ..it's you she wants..so don't dig to deep man ..it's you she wants
2006-12-04 21:20:27 · answer #2 · answered by JJ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
naw bro you was wrong if you called t break you never want to know what happened between the breaker just bite the bullet and out do the dude you got to think about it hey just had sex what you to had was time ... but on the real you should of got it out your sysytem also between the break now you got a jealous streak on you but i say bite the bullet and make your relationship stronger ....knowledge is power
2006-12-04 21:13:42 · answer #3 · answered by KANEBRO2DANITE 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
ita not just hurt you feel you feel betrayed and that wont go away for as long as your still with her,you feel you lover her more because you might loose her or have that fear i think you need to move on and be with someone all over again
2006-12-04 21:17:14 · answer #4 · answered by treatau 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First and formost she doesnt love u .
2006-12-04 21:13:18 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
wow, your human mate, if you love her...forgive her..if not...bounce her,,,your call !!
2006-12-04 21:11:41 · answer #6 · answered by admiralawesome2006 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
SORRY I GIVING YOU ANSWER IN HINDI
2006-12-04 21:17:05 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 3⤋