i have a friend who i am more than fond of, i could be totally in love with him... but...
he is nursing his sick mother, who could die next month or live for 15yrs! of course he wants to be there for her!
i have 3 children one already grown and moved out one pre-teen and one a toddler.
recently as things progressed a little he admitted to me he cant stand kids and would always be there for me but not the kids!
so his solution was for me to go off travel have a life bring up my kids and then come back!???
am i missing something here?
i would have quite happily have helped him with his mum, shes lovely! but no, he couldnt share me and the kids in that way!
so after this relevation he still phones me almost every day, and is adament he can wait for me to be clear of the kids! and his mum to have our relationship!
he says hes been alone for years and can continue!
eh? adivice???
2006-12-03
11:05:10
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desprate mum
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