Shes getting on my nerves so badly. She is the most hated girl in our grade (10th). Girls and boys call her unflattering things such as big nose and ***. She thinks shes the prettiest thing on the earth when not to mean she is very plain and ugly. She thinks she is good at everything like vollyball. She makes fun of me because I'm not good at it. I tell her to stop and shes like " don't give me an attitude I can make your life living hell" Shes such a byotch and thinks all the boys want to get it her pants. The only reason is because she is easy. She is mean too everyone. Everyone is sick of her attitude. She says things about my looks saying that I'm ugly. Im so tired of her. What do I do?
2006-12-03 11:11:20 · 8 answers · asked by shiningstars 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
She is definately insecure, and that is too bad, because it is hard to be young and insecure... but she's is also definately dealing with it in a really negative way. The best thing you can do is just ignore her, or perhaps talk to a trusted teacher about her if it gets any worse. The teacher might be able to set up some counciling sessions for her, maybe help her work on her insecurities. But that isn't your job. You just know that she's doing it because she's insecure and sees you as a threat - she could be jealous of you or something. Ignore her and be the better person.
2006-12-03 11:20:56 · answer #1 · answered by starlet_8 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This girl has some serious issues. If she continues to make fun of you then you really need to report this. I know it seems a sign of weakness to tell the assistant principal about his girl. Do not join in with the others when they call her names. I know she is going to make you soooooooo angry you can't stand it and you are soooooo going to want to hurt her so bad but don't show her you don't like what she is saying. Blow her off. She may think you're not good at volleyball but what does she know. If she thinks she's all that maybe she is wrong. She apparently cannot see the truth about some things than why should you believe her about this. My mom tells me that many girls who are like that are very insecure so if you want to be friends with her do not make her feel like you are only being friendly because you fell sorry for her. If she is so bad don't be afraid to tell an adult about this and don't ever join in with those who call her names. IF you feel you aren't going to be losing friends for it stick up for this girl. Trust me when she finds out she will be very angry with you and may even get in your face about it but inside she is probably very happy with you for doing so and it might make her quit bothering you. She is probably acting that way as a defense so she won't be upset about the way she is being treated. I feel very sorry for this girl since she doesn't even have enough self esteem to recognize people who want to be friends with her. Don't be outwardly friendly to her but stick up for her. This girl really needs your help. She needs support even though she won't admit. Take this chance to make a new friend. If I hadn't had the friend I had in my middle school years that girl could easily have been me. She needs friends and she needs someone who will stick up for her. I know I am asking you to do something completely opposite of what you are feeling you want to do right now but understand her actions are most likely a mask to hide her true feelings. Help her in unobtrusive ways so she can keep some pride but do not back down if she really starts to become angry with you for helping her. Don't snub her. She is really needing you to help her.
2006-12-03 11:32:36 · answer #2 · answered by JEB 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best thing you can do is ignore and avoid her. She just picks on you to get a reaction. Just give her a blank stare and walk away when she starts in. When she sees she can't get to you she'll move on.
2006-12-03 11:29:08 · answer #3 · answered by honey 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Obviously she has issues if she is looking for guys' attention. She is a bully and has low self-esteem. Talk to her and see what is maybe bothering her in her life. Once you are out of high school life will be totally different. No one will care about what happened in high school anymore. So do your best in high school go to college and show her up.
2006-12-03 11:20:35 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
walk away!!! purely walk away and save walkin away and ignoring them. stay far flung from a lot of those boys and women. doesn't sound like a huge 'pal' crew to me! are you able to carry the topic up in crew? that's SO immature! i experience for ya!
2016-11-30 02:39:07 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Slap er across the face and say you have the ugliest face i have ever seen if you think you can make my life a living hell think again i can make your heaven HELL!!!!!!!!!!! don't you ever bother me again, if you do i will make your face so worse than ever your parents won't know its you. If you tell your parents or counciler or friends this i will KILL you. thank you and goodbye, oh and you suck at volleyball not me..
2006-12-03 11:22:26 · answer #6 · answered by Arnold 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she is mean because she is jealous! you said yourself shes plain and ugly and has a big nose, so shes just insecure. tell her that, i bet it will shut her up quick
2006-12-03 11:15:04 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try talking to her again. or have a friend talk to her. or if that doesnt work- just ignore her, eventually she'll stop because she doesnt get attention from anyone anymore.
2006-12-03 11:14:51 · answer #8 · answered by viva!theadicts 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋