even though my parents are seperated my dad is still always calling my mom asking her where she is and who she's w/ even if she's at home he's done this his whoel life and i can't belive even though my mom's on her own he's still doing! ) and even if my mom doesn't like this she's not the type tp stand up for herself. and my other question is wut do i do about it cuz he even does this to ME. i feel like when i'm on my own he's gonna bother me liek crzy and not let me do wut i want and be free. and my dad isn't an easy person to stand up to. any normal person is afraid of him. he has such a bad temper and when he gets mad he gets mad! he scares the **** out of ppl older than him. he's only like this w/ me my mom and bro and faking mr. nice guy to every1 else so every1 likes him even though they know how he is so no1 wud support me 4 standing up to him so wut do i do AND he;s treated me like **** my whole life so i wanna break contact w/ him 4ever and i don't know how to do tht either
2006-12-03 10:54:24 · 6 answers · asked by mamama 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Let your Mom read this note so she can understand how much what your father is doing is hurting you. I get the feeling if it is too difficult for Mom to stick up for herself, she may if she realizes the affect he is having on her children. If you don't want contact when you are older, don't ever give him your phone number. Your Dad is committing a crime according to your letter - harrassment. If nothing else, please tell your Mom to get the police involved if this continues. Best of luck! You sound like a great son.
2006-12-03 11:11:12 · answer #1 · answered by Me, Thrice-Baked 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell ur mom(maybe ur mom stil likes ur dad?) but since theyre not 2gwther anymore, and possibly not gonna get together in the futre, she should begin to live her life as if shes not gonna live w/ him anymore.
u shouldnt be afraid to speak ur mind about things u really believe in, no matter how uncomfortable it may seem. each person has to live their own life and should be brave enough to stand up for the truth.
another possibility isthat ur dad is really a nice guy and hes being set off by ur unintentional comments and/or behavior. think about it.
2006-12-03 19:22:15 · answer #2 · answered by Laura Marie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the same thing happened to me when my dad walked out so in 7th grade (2 yrs ago) i stopped talking or having any type of contact with him got alot of **** for it but im happy i did and dont miss him at all
2006-12-03 18:57:54 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
He is only a nice guy to others because he is not that brave, trust me I know a lot of people who would not take it from him.
2006-12-03 18:56:57 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I sounds like your dad has some level of a narcissistic personality disorder. Check out this link it may help you
http://www.medicalnewstoday.com/medicalnews.php?newsid=13055
2006-12-03 18:59:36 · answer #5 · answered by RichDaddy 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
ur dad is ur dad...he phones u cause he loves and and doesnt want anything or anyone to hurt you....and use it to ur advantage....he always wants to know what ur up to wich shows he cares wich means he still wants to help you and buy u loads of stuff....ask him to get u something and he will.....try it ;)
2006-12-03 18:59:53 · answer #6 · answered by davyboy 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋