is OK at 15 to want sex ?

Question

I love my bf and he loves me too i KNOW HE DOES he will never presure me to do something I don't want to do that is for sure if i say no is no and if I say stop I don't fell good he will stop when I'm with him I fell like doing anything I fell so good like I never felt before I feel like there is nothing better then being with him
my bf is not a virgin and I am but when I am with him I could do anything I'm not myself i fell so good wih him and sometimes i just want to do it he is 15 too I mean I know all that could happen and all but I really want to do it I made my decition and I will see him on tuesday in hes house plus we will be alone and he makes me so horny sometimes ( pleople don't think i'm bad this is normal) I just need help on what to do or if is ok if I say yes to him I mean he doesn't know I want to how can I let him know if i am shy to tell him ?

Answer 1

Want? Yes. Have? No!!

Answer 2

It's o.k. to want sex @ 15 and at any age but that doesn't make it right to do. Keep your virginity.....you will be glad that you did. You will meet so many guys that you "love"....ask yourself a question, when things don't work out with this guy and you meet someone else and fall in "love" with him, will you have sex with him and then when you meet and fall in "love" with someone else will you have sex with him and so on. Just think about it. You are only 15 and you have a lot of life to live! You shouldn't be left alone with him. Where are the parents going to be while the two of you are going to be home alone?

To answer your question, it's ok to want it but it's not o.k. to do it. You say that he is not pressuring you but what ever he is doing to make you horny is pressuring you indirectly. If you start having sex @ the age of 15 and switch partners ever so often, how many partners will you have had by the age of 30? I know it's(having sex) is the "thing" to do now, and you may not see it now, but you will be respected more for standing up and saying no than if you lay down and say yes.

Answer 3

At your age I think that you shouldn't go there because you never know if your b/f has an STD, like HIV or AIDS. You don't know and if he does and you do it with him your life will be most likely like a living hell. I'm in health class right now and I'm just leaning about this. There are some gross things that I didn't even know about until someone told me. There were even some people that came and talked to us and one of them had AIDS and he was actually crying at the fact that he had the worst disease in the world. You should stay abstinence, meaning that you stay a virgin until you are married.

Remember that STD's are curable and some aren't and don't think that a condom might help because it won't. Half the time a condom would break and the STD can break loose.

You should talk to your counselor or someone close to you and tell them about this. Always make the right decision that will save your life.

Answer 4

At your age the answer is no cause you ar too young to experiment with the sex life right now. So not be pressured but depart from that which is not good or tell him to wait until the two of you understand a little bit more about life. Futhermore talk with you parents and they will give you some good advice.

Answer 5

The law is there to protect you. I'm not being patronising.... my first boyfriend and I met when I was 15, he wasn't a virgin and I was. We waited a while (about a year and a half) before having sex, and it was planned, loving and I don't regret anything about it at all. He lost his virginity at 14!!!!!!! And regretted it ever since, he said he wished he'd waited until we did it, as it was a much better experience.
If you are too shy to talk to your boyfriend about this, wait until you feel you can talk/tell him about anything. You are a virgin only once. If you ARE going to do it, be sure and be safe.

Answer 6

if he don't make the move u go for it. and if he is like most 15 yr old guys, he will accept it. but just make sure thats the guy u want to do it wit, bacuse ur only a virgin ONCE !!!

trust me, i feel the same way as u but, the only bad thing is, is that i don't think my boyfriend loves me and i don't think i love him the way u too love each other, so just remeber that ur only a virgin once and don't forget the bad htings that u get out of having sex. and make sure u make him wear protection!!!!! and make sure he gets all of the air out of the top of the condom.


I'm 13, but i surely don't act it

Answer 7

Its normal to want to, but I dont think you should. I know I cant come here and tell you what to do, but it sounds like you got a great guy, who will respect if you want to or not.

But if you wait it will be better, and also in case things go wrong (pregnancy etc) it will be easier to deal with.

Under age is never a good idea.

Answer 8

You spell pressure with 2 "s" and feel with 2 "e", and no it is not ok to have sex at age 15 because you are still a minor, under your parents' care and they are responsible for you until you are 18.

Answer 9

Wanting it yes but your to young for it your better off wating till you are older. Its a big risk to take at that age im 22 watied till i was 18 been with my bf 4 years

trust me its better to wait til you really know you love them

Answer 10

You're being responsible by asking for other people's opinions. I can't judge that you're right or wrong, at least you want to be in control of your body and that says a lot. And what you're saying is totally normal.

Answer 11

you are both under the legal age.

with or without consent it is considered statutory rape.

you can get the other person thrown in jail for a very long time.

plus he would have to register as a sex offender for the rest of his life.