i dont no what am i.what if a boy on yahoo answer said to go for it and u went for it and i was shy to talk to him ,and then u voted him as ur best answer and it didnt go as planned.and i kissed a girl when i was drunk and she was a lesbain.and now she wants to go out with me.i dont want to break her heart.or nothing.should i say yes and be a lesbain or no and let some one hate me....(reminder)i dont want to heart her feelings....
2006-12-03 10:56:58 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You should go and when they say OK she can start it all with one or not...anyway that's it where it is. So the kind of time won't harm anything. that's how they do it for evenings but not for weeks. Even if it's sectioned for it, you can't remember. Don't think so whatever she paints.
OK?
2006-12-03 11:05:29 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just because you kissed a girl once does not make you a lesbian..First you were drunk, you probably could have kissed a dog drunk that would not make you a dog. You don't say if you liked the "girl kiss", just tell her you don't know if you like her that way, you are my friend but I don't know if I like you that way and I don't want to lose you as a friend. In the mean time go out with lots of friends as groups and you will find your way either straight or gay. Also if would be a good idea if you don't get drunk again, that gets you into trouble. If you are old enough have a drink or two but you don't have to get drunk, it leads to all sorts of confusion.
2006-12-03 11:06:15 · answer #2 · answered by joan 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you ask me....I would pay more attention to my own feelings about my sexual preference before worrying about someone elses. There are a lot of fish in the sea. Believe me if you dont go out with this girl she will find someone else....do some soul searching and figure out what YOU want before you worry about "breaking someones heart" this decision should be based on how YOU feel first... Just because you kissed a girl doesnt mean you are a lesbian....It means you have some stuff to figure out about yourself before bringing a partner into the mix....
Good luck
2006-12-03 11:01:13 · answer #3 · answered by Aero-Smith 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Tell her the truth, if you dont like being a lesbain then dont, this is your life. She chose to be a lesbian. You can go out with the boy!!! This is your life. You have to make your own disitions I am sure if you tell her the truth she will get over you !!! !
2006-12-03 10:59:53 · answer #4 · answered by Adam D. 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
How do you truly feel? Are you attracted to this girl? Do you see yourself possibly being in a successful relationship with her? The last thing you should be thinking about is how someone else feels. What do you feel? What do you want? Are you comfortable with your sexuality? You have a lot of thinking and planning to do. As a conservative, I would advise you NOT to be a lesbian, but It truly depends on what you feel in your heart is the best thing to do. If you truly love this girl, go for it. But please think about it. Don't act to quickly. Goog luck and God Bless!
2006-12-03 11:02:37 · answer #5 · answered by 09 _ 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I don't understand the first part of your question.
As for the second part, you can't just "say yes and be a lesbian" - if you're attracted to the girl, go out with her. If you're not, tell her you were drunk and acted inappropriately, and you just want to stay friends.
2006-12-03 10:59:37 · answer #6 · answered by Bwilkerson 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Just be real and tell her the truth of how you feel, remember if someone hates you for the truth than there not worth your time any way. Ohh yah and you are more than likely not
2006-12-03 11:01:33 · answer #7 · answered by SOLO KING 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you need MORE than an answer from this ole' man. Sounds like you are suspended in the middle. You better give this item some real serious thinkin' youngun.
2006-12-03 11:00:32 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
if you don't want to go out with her. Then you should tell her that. If you just go out with her to keep her for getting hurt, she will find out and it will hurt more. Maybe you shouldn't drink so much.
2006-12-03 11:01:17 · answer #9 · answered by masterzuaba 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Wow. Uh, just stay far away from the lesbian! Your a girl, should be no problem to get laid... thats all you need is some sex...
2006-12-03 11:00:22 · answer #10 · answered by Steve-o 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋