ive(17) been dating a guy (18) for a while now and i can say i think i am falling for him. the only problem is he lives with his gf (15) he claims he wants to leave her for me but he shows no signs of doing it claiming he cant as he will be homeless if he does. he can move in with me as i live with my parents he is telling me the truth or not
2006-12-03 11:06:16 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
here sum details on our relatioship
we connect very well with each other
we not had one arguement yet
he told me he fallen for me
he doesnt want just sex he likes to sit and cuddle and talk
when we do have sex he seems to only like posistion where i face him and he stops sumtimes to ask me wat im thinking
2006-12-03 11:16:30 · update #1
also if i ask him to move in with me how can i ask my parents if it ok as they are kinda funny about having people stay they know he is homeless and that he willing to pay £40 a week rent
2006-12-03 11:24:11 · update #2
Unitl reading this question, I had no idea that women got involved in relationships with the expectation that a man would leave their current girlfriend/fiance/wife for them. I mean, if you're having fun, I'm not your judge. But, please don't expect him to leave his current girlfriend for you - you'll probably end up getting hurt. Besides, although I can't have a complete understanding, the way you describe the situation seems like you'd be much better off not being his meal ticket.
2006-12-03 11:13:38 · answer #1 · answered by dirtyhungrythirsty 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
In a R/S we have to be very objective. U ask urself, how much trust can u give him? Just base on this matter "leave his gf for u" im sure initially u would be very excited and happy.. so as there is no signs of actions.. u soon lost the trust. If this continue, i suggest u shld talk to him. N' pls gal, dont ever think that he will be with u unless something has done. U shldnt waste ur time waiting n waiting. All the best!
2006-12-03 20:29:24 · answer #2 · answered by Its me! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He and you are still too young to live together. Both of you may be still unsure of what you actually want. Further more, if he can leave the current gf to stay with you, you won't know he may leave you one day for other gals.
2006-12-03 20:41:44 · answer #3 · answered by Tan D 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would ask him straight up and ask him if he's gonna leave her for you and if he says he'll be homeless, tell him to move in w/ you and if he still refuses then you're better off w/o him cause he's probably playing you both!
2006-12-03 19:11:21 · answer #4 · answered by peace, love, happiness =] 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
even tho u like him boys are boys and u no anyboy whould love 2 have 2 woman so he might not leave her but when he starts showing signs of it then u make ur move =) anymore questions email me @ sexyhelper12@yahoo.com
2006-12-03 19:10:31 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
she is 15(the one he is living with) and he`s 18,uh no I can not see a 15 yr.old living with someone when she is so young.
I`m sorry to say,but I think he`s not being real honest with you.
Sorry dear,but thats how I see it *hugs*
2006-12-03 19:10:26 · answer #6 · answered by sunflower2052002 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, he'll never leave her for you. You'll always be the side dish unless you leave him.
2006-12-03 19:19:41 · answer #7 · answered by citrusy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
whoa people are living together at crazy speed nowadays eh??// 15??? whoa..
2006-12-03 19:11:03 · answer #8 · answered by aishah 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you should ask him yourself, if he answers with his eyes pointing to "his" left, he's probably telling the truth, if it's "his" right, probably lying.
2006-12-03 19:09:07 · answer #9 · answered by PublicSUD 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no
2006-12-03 19:12:44 · answer #10 · answered by tallbluewoman 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋