Family & Relationships - 3 December 2006

Does a man really stay in unhappy marriage for his kids? I know this guy who dropped divorce petition because he couldn't stand the fact his kids started hating him for leaving their mother. He and his wife are like roommates. His wife doesn't trust him, but wants to be with him. They've been having problems for a long time, and they've separated many times. He is from a broken family. Does it affect his view of family even he is not happy?

2006-12-03 11:36:18 · 10 answers · asked by behappy 1 in Marriage & Divorce

ok so this guy and me..we r like sexualy involved..we had sex and everything..but he is like 28 yrs and at a stage of marriage..and being indian..his parents r looking for a girl for him...but he is constantly keeping contact with me and i know if we keep meeting we will continue to have sex...(he lives in NY and i am in texas)..anyways i think he lieks me also..bcos he said hes thinkin to have a "long term" relationship with me..does this mean he is thinkin to marry me? and also my MAIN QUESTION is this: say that his parents do find him a girl to marry.from their same caste and stuff.and say that he marries her..after the marriage do u think he will continue to have a relationship with me and contact me and stuff...because he is like a flirty type..even when he used to hang around w/ me he wud still contact other girls..im not expectin him to cheat on his wife w. me after hes married.jus wonderin wud he do dat?

2006-12-03 11:35:50 · 1 answers · asked by Har S 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-03 11:35:12 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

iv just turned 12 years old i **** ppl everyday, i cnt hardly walk!! i shag bout 3 diffrent ppl a day. i think im a prostitute i get paid by old men every sunday after church please help my mother called me a slag!

2006-12-03 11:35:03 · 6 answers · asked by x.xsxcx.x 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

The problem i'm having is I'm totally in love with a girl at work but while we are at work we rarely speak to each other. She seems to talk to everyone but me and when she does talk to me she doesn't really carry on a conversation for very long. Also if she is speaking to a group of us she looks everyone in the eye but me. When we are both alone together at work we get very quiet and don't look at each other. However when we go out drinking together with others from our workplace , we end up talking to each other alot and always hug and cuddle with each other. Then on the ride home from the bar we are cuddling in the backseat of the car together. She doesn't do this with the other guys that go out drinking with us. Problem is when we go back to work the next day we are usually very distant. What's our problem?

2006-12-03 11:34:54 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'll try to summarize as much as possible. I've been with the same boy for 3 years, since we were 17. Last year, he became a paraplegic in a car accident (paralyzed from the abdomen down), and since them, I do not want to be with him. I can't stop hurting him emotionally and say things that just shred him to pieces. He is still so in love with me, so I don't know why i can't stop being such a ***** to him. Today he asked for a glass of water and I dumped it on his head and shouted that I'm not his damn slave and he started to cry. I'm freaked out because I used to love him before his accident. Why can't I stop hurting him???

2006-12-03 11:34:37 · 12 answers · asked by Natalie s 1 in Singles & Dating

He and she are friends, he goes over to her house until 2 in the morning and tells you about it the next day- how do you feel?

2006-12-03 11:33:47 · 17 answers · asked by fslcaptain737 4 in Singles & Dating

Im pretty sure this girl is lying to me but, i starte to think about it and now i dont know. First, when she originally told me the story she wouldnt make eye contact with me, she went out of her way to not look at me. But, then she changed the story 4 different times. I think she's just jealous that this guy makes sit so obvious he likes me because the ;ies were about him! Things like "oh he's getting homeschooled cause his grades are bad (even though his parents just bought him a new phone and new shoes!) and (he like some girl named Andrea (even though im pretty sure he likes me) Do you think she's lying?

2006-12-03 11:33:18 · 24 answers · asked by viva!theadicts 2 in Friends

my boyfriend told me i can get a gift for nothing over 300 but i dont know what to ask for any suggestions i already have jewelery and i wont let him buy my clothes

2006-12-03 11:32:53 · 8 answers · asked by bambil2000 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-03 11:32:38 · 16 answers · asked by Voodoo 1 in Friends

I lost my boyfriend. I m 18...he was 22...I can't live...I don't talk with my friends about 2 weeks, because I don't want to...I think I will never find the pefect man...i don't know how to live...i'm so tired from everything

2006-12-03 11:32:29 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-03 11:32:16 · 4 answers · asked by sabrina 3 in Friends

I like this guy and we both liked each other at the beginning of the year, but we never dated or anything like that. but now he (lets call him John) likes one of my fiends (lets call her Angie). likes him and it really is a love triangle and she promised that she wouldnt make a move that was until she found out that John liked her and i dont kow if John knows i like him or! HELP ME!!

thanks to anyone that helps me answer this question!

2006-12-03 11:32:02 · 1 answers · asked by kc_fishes 1 in Singles & Dating

my aunty was stayin in my house and she brought sum friends home with her, everythin was fine until i walked out of my livingroom and saw her fckin a paci on the stairs, she has a hubby ppl and im traumatised by all of this drama in my life plz help!

2006-12-03 11:31:53 · 9 answers · asked by x.xsxcx.x 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

If so, how long?

2006-12-03 11:31:48 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I don't go down on girls i'm not in a LTR with any way.

2006-12-03 11:30:57 · 13 answers · asked by Marcus 2 in Singles & Dating

I got her a heart locket with in name engraved in it. But i dont no what i should get to go with it

2006-12-03 11:30:56 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-03 11:30:43 · 17 answers · asked by Voodoo 1 in Marriage & Divorce

one year ago today she died,not only was she a friend but she was my computer buddy tought me a lot (here is a drink for her) she will all ways be (waiting for you @something .com) i miss her and don't know how to deal with it.

2006-12-03 11:29:50 · 16 answers · asked by sweepingstars 3 in Friends

I like this girl at my school the problem is shes way out of my league. I have tryed to stop liking her bt i cannot do it i keep on like her no matter what i do. Can you please give me some ideas to deal with this?

2006-12-03 11:29:29 · 11 answers · asked by Help me please 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-03 11:28:43 · 15 answers · asked by K.C. 2 in Singles & Dating

I'm 30, he's only 20 but when we met we just clicked. On Friday, he came out with me and my old school mate and a few of her friends, we're obviously a lot older than him but he seemed to enjoy the music and even relaxed enough to dance. We had a great night but he doesn't seem as keen as he did. This is the third time I have seen him. Please dont give me any abuse!

2006-12-03 11:28:40 · 4 answers · asked by hornyheluk 2 in Singles & Dating

How far do you think i should go and what boundaries do you think i should stop at? and do you think it is wrong that i am going out with an older guy?

2006-12-03 11:28:25 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Just wondering!

2006-12-03 11:27:55 · 4 answers · asked by Mark C 3 in Singles & Dating

How to know if a guy u dont really know...likes you. This guy is in my class. we dont know each other.we havent even talked before except when i asked him his name to give him his burger @ lunch onetime. He is only in 1 class with me but sometimes i catch him glancing at me. And girls u know what i mean. So yeah what do you all think.
And please dont give me crappy answers b/c i will erport u so yeah. plz help. im just curious...

2006-12-03 11:27:53 · 2 answers · asked by Laryn 2 in Singles & Dating

AFTER A SEPERATION FROM MARRIAGE FOR ABOUT 3 MONTHS AND MUCH PAIN TO ME TAKING EVERYDAY WALKS TO HELP EASE THE PAIN AND SITTING IN THE CHURCH TO ASK THE MAN UPSTAIRS TO SOFTEN HER HEART AND BRING HER BACK TO ME BY LETTING HER SEE WHAT SHE HAD DONE. WELL MY PRAYERS CAME THROUGH 1 DAY MY WIFE CAME BY WITH A HUGE CARD TELLING ME HOW SORRY SHE WAS FOR WHAT SHE DID AND THE WAY SHE WENT ABOUT IT, I COULDNT BELIEVE IT THAT WOULD BE THE ONLY WAY THAT I WOULD HAVE TRUSTED WHAT SHE WAS SAYING BECAUSE SHE NEVER EVER ADDMITTED TILL THIS DAY WHEN SHE IS WRONG. SHE WANTED TO START ALL NEW WITH A FRESH START TO OUR MARRIAGE, AND BEING THAT SHE WAS RENTING A TRAILOR FROM HER SISTER IN ANOTHER TOWN I KNOW IT WOULD TAKE A LITTLE TIME BEFORE WE WOULD GET A HOUSE AGAIN TOGETHER BUT WE WERE TOGETHER IS ALL I CARED ABOUT. BUT SHE CALLS ME UP 1 DAY AND TELLS ME THAT HER SISTER TOLD HER THAT I WAS NOT ALLOWED ON THE PROPERTY 2 SEE MY WIFE, MY WIFE NEVER STUCK UP FOR ME SHE SIDED WITH HER, THE TRUST WAS BROKE

2006-12-03 11:27:47 · 12 answers · asked by brian k 1 in Marriage & Divorce

ok im in a relationship and last night i went over to my friends who is a guys house and i went at about 12 am n i came home at about 2 am i told my boyfriend about it today and he got mad at me for it i told him i wouldnt go next if it upsets him this much ... so is this a reason he should be mad ?and how long is he going to be mad? and what can i do to make it up to him?

2006-12-03 11:27:32 · 25 answers · asked by lavendernlily 1 in Singles & Dating

What does it mean when a guy U barely know, but flirts and talks 2 U, talks about his former crush. Does it me he likes U and wants 2 make U jelous?

2006-12-03 11:27:29 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Is it worth it to even try to work on it--or should it chemistry just naturally be present? Can chemistry be created?

If you want to know the background, read on:

My boyfriend and I have been dating a year, and the more time goes on the more frustrated I become with our one complete disconnect. It's like we speak two completely different languages--I'm tactile, he's verbal. He'll compliment me profusely on my beauty and other aspects, but I don't believe them if actions do not follow--it is not uncommon for us to go weeks without even kissing each other. Conversely, he's confused why I am so physical--and often teases me because of it. I do feel shallow for being so frustrated, but it's becoming undeniable that chemistry is very important to me. There's been great days, little glimses of potential, that make me hope there's a chance--but those days seem so insignificant compared to a year. We've never even had a fight, which I would love just as a revelation of passion!

2006-12-03 11:27:20 · 3 answers · asked by Issy 1 in Singles & Dating

He wont tell his family cos they may think its to quick,we met in march,engaged in may,This is now dec and they still dont know !!!everytime i go to his parents house,i ave to take my ring off cos i dont want them asking me things,he keeps saying in time we will tell them , one of my mates says he is not proud of me? not sure wat to think now?
please help

2006-12-03 11:26:24 · 41 answers · asked by goodlassie666 2 in Weddings