so confused?

Question

The problem i'm having is I'm totally in love with a girl at work but while we are at work we rarely speak to each other. She seems to talk to everyone but me and when she does talk to me she doesn't really carry on a conversation for very long. Also if she is speaking to a group of us she looks everyone in the eye but me. When we are both alone together at work we get very quiet and don't look at each other. However when we go out drinking together with others from our workplace , we end up talking to each other alot and always hug and cuddle with each other. Then on the ride home from the bar we are cuddling in the backseat of the car together. She doesn't do this with the other guys that go out drinking with us. Problem is when we go back to work the next day we are usually very distant. What's our problem?

Answer 1

why cuddle if she doesnt like you? and if she could cuddle with you, then she could cuddle with the other guys.....but why with you and not with them? she talks to everybody, and looks everybody in the eyes except for you....there is a reason and a big reason...or else it wouldnt be soo obvious...and of course, nobody knows it but you..because you are the only one left out...its very very likely that she likes you but doesnt know how to say it....i bet you..if you invite her over..or invite alot of people over...and there are drinks....even if she had half a sip....and she is more into you then at work...then you know she likes you....but....if she isnt into you until she is a bit tipsy....then...she still likes you....but she is honest....and if this is the case....then her actions will all have reason and good intentions.....so...you must open your eyes and look closer.....pay attention to the times when she has a choice of eithe this or that....and if you notice carefully....most of those choices are so that she can come closer to you.......if in fact she likes you...

Answer 2

i think it could be a couple of different things. it could be that she doesn't want anyone to know about how she feels.she could be ashamed to let anyone know or she could be just using you on the nights y'all go out. to be honest about what i think is that y'all are both very shy when y'all are sober. but y'all really need to talk when y'all are sober and maybe y'all could start a relationship that could be great.good luck and GOD BLESS YOU!!!!!!!!!