2006-12-03 11:30:43 · 17 answers · asked by Voodoo 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Well you see sweety, every girl is a flirt when she's not seem by the loved one! So that's when you need to worry! But it seems to me that you know because she prob. does it in front of you right? Then you have nothing to worry about you should even feel happy that she is confident with herself she loves you!!
2006-12-05 09:55:52 · answer #1 · answered by DGabbys 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Depends on how mature she is. My guess is she isn't. So yes, you should. She flirts because she needs constant validation and it's not enough to get it from JUST you obviously. That should have any man worried. Her needs are beyond even herself...i.e. she doesn't even know what she wants. So how can you move forward with that?
I feel sorry for you because she will start to find reasons why someone else is better or treats her better, etc. etc. once all the novelty and romance of early marriage subsides.
I hope I'm wrong for your sake but there are so many women out there who are never satisfied with anything they have, as there are men too I'm sure.
On the other hand, if she isn't really flirting but just talking with and acknowledging other people and being polite etc. then perhaps it's you who are insecure and want her totally undivided attention and are being unrealistic.
I dont know you or your situation but you have to be the judge and what really counts is how you feel about it but you should be discussing your feelings with her.
Amongst a circle of good friends there is usually a good trust factor built and frankly there is nothing wrong with admiring someone's spouse if you do it in a forthright manner with no ill intentions and in front of one's spouse. That is how I feel about that anyhow. After 17 years if people can't trust each other, when the hell will you? So it just depends on how good your relationship is too I guess. Many things to factor in. Communication is the key however to knowing where things stand.
2006-12-03 19:37:09 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
It depends on everything else that goes on and whether she has shown herself to be trustworthy or not. Many people view flirting as just fun and it really means nothing. If she isn't hiding the fact that she does it it doesn't sound like she is interested in sneaking off with some guy.
But, if you feel like she is crossing a line you should say so and if she respects you she should tone it down.
2006-12-03 19:38:47 · answer #3 · answered by Aloe-ish-us 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No.
I am sure that this is not the first time that you are aware that your wife is a flirt. The real question is "Why is it bothering you now about her flirting?" Has something changed to make you now worried?
2006-12-03 19:42:57 · answer #4 · answered by Sunflower 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
na, you should rather encourage her to sleep with them too, dude !!! what kinda question is that - you don have a little control over her ? or you don have the balls to tell her that u don like it.
don mind - but man, you gotta control where it is going - the more liberal you would be - the more she would ask for. and does not matter if you let her flirt or not - she might end up sleeping with somebody --------- if you let it happen - it will happen.
either tell her that you don like that and keep control -- or leave her.
most of the gals nowadays - they like going off the limits and when we men do something - they say --- all men are pigs.
2006-12-03 20:02:30 · answer #5 · answered by i don know y 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She flirts in front of you then don't worry, I bet over half the women in answers are flirts, I'll admit I am.
2006-12-03 19:34:26 · answer #6 · answered by Nicki 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, because she is being disrepectful to you. no decent wife would be flirting with other men in front of her husband, she would have more repect for him and her self. talk to her, tell her you don't like it and she need to cut it out. her flirting is a step to another level.
2006-12-03 19:51:15 · answer #7 · answered by Ellen J 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this is really strange that you know that your wife is a big flirt and you are still with her. thats her good luck dear. she is lucky to have you .she has everything what a good husband r u and you also allow her to to flirt around. i wish u r my husband.
2006-12-03 19:35:59 · answer #8 · answered by reva 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That depends on how much you trust her. She is obviously craving attention or she wouldn't be flirting-would she? Make sure you are giving her everything she needs and if you are--then maybe she's just the cheating type!
2006-12-03 19:33:11 · answer #9 · answered by blonde_bitch_norris 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Absolutely because she could/may have said
something that she shouldn't/shouldn't have said. It's dangerous at some costs too, so you be very cautious!
2006-12-03 19:36:43 · answer #10 · answered by PrettyEyes 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋