AFTER A SEPERATION FROM MARRIAGE FOR ABOUT 3 MONTHS AND MUCH PAIN TO ME TAKING EVERYDAY WALKS TO HELP EASE THE PAIN AND SITTING IN THE CHURCH TO ASK THE MAN UPSTAIRS TO SOFTEN HER HEART AND BRING HER BACK TO ME BY LETTING HER SEE WHAT SHE HAD DONE. WELL MY PRAYERS CAME THROUGH 1 DAY MY WIFE CAME BY WITH A HUGE CARD TELLING ME HOW SORRY SHE WAS FOR WHAT SHE DID AND THE WAY SHE WENT ABOUT IT, I COULDNT BELIEVE IT THAT WOULD BE THE ONLY WAY THAT I WOULD HAVE TRUSTED WHAT SHE WAS SAYING BECAUSE SHE NEVER EVER ADDMITTED TILL THIS DAY WHEN SHE IS WRONG. SHE WANTED TO START ALL NEW WITH A FRESH START TO OUR MARRIAGE, AND BEING THAT SHE WAS RENTING A TRAILOR FROM HER SISTER IN ANOTHER TOWN I KNOW IT WOULD TAKE A LITTLE TIME BEFORE WE WOULD GET A HOUSE AGAIN TOGETHER BUT WE WERE TOGETHER IS ALL I CARED ABOUT. BUT SHE CALLS ME UP 1 DAY AND TELLS ME THAT HER SISTER TOLD HER THAT I WAS NOT ALLOWED ON THE PROPERTY 2 SEE MY WIFE, MY WIFE NEVER STUCK UP FOR ME SHE SIDED WITH HER, THE TRUST WAS BROKE
2006-12-03 11:27:47 · 12 answers · asked by brian k 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
There r so many holes in ur story it's like a leaking dam. U left out all the points that ACTUALLY matter. It's hard 2 give advise when u went on & on about how ur coping & what the sister did 2 u.We don't know the whole story. U & ur wife r in this situation...& some how, u 2 drug her sister into this. I can understand why she would b upset with this whole thing. Some of the other answers talk about u & ur whining. It's hard 2 feel sympathy 4 u when u left out ALL the info that would help us feel 4 u.
If I were u...I would stay OFF the property. Before ur relationship isn't the only problem...THE LAW!
2006-12-03 11:48:00 · answer #1 · answered by Tumbleweed 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
First of all stop typing in caps, that's childish. Second of all it is her sister's property and her sister has the right to decide who is to come on her property and not. It doesn't matter whether your wife stuck up for you or not. You sound like a very self centered childish person, rather than an adult. I suggest you grow up and learn how to deal with reality rather than pouting and whinning like a child. I can understand why your wife left you.
2006-12-03 19:32:53 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
There has to be more to this story than is being told for her sister not want you on her property . Get yourself a home together and start over than you can say you do not want your wife's sister over.Fair is fair I hope it works out good luck.
2006-12-03 19:38:13 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
To begin with, if my spouse walked out on me, it would take a lot more than "a huge card" for me to even consider taking him/her back. Second, why couldn't your wife move in with you, instead of having to stay at her sister's trailer? And third, how do you know that she's telling you the truth about her sister? This may be your wife's way of telling you she's changed her mind again, and doesn't want to be with you and she's using her sister as a scapegoat.
Instead of taking walks and sitting in church, you need to talk to a counselor to help you figure out why you'd want to be with someone who apparently doesn't want to be with you and who lies to you. Check with your local mental health center, you might be able to talk to a counselor for free and nobody needs to know.
2006-12-03 19:54:57 · answer #4 · answered by letsgetagripalready 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Well you guys should date and see how things go and then if you seriously wanted to get back together, get a place together--not some crappy trailor! Where did you guys live before you seperated?
2006-12-03 19:48:13 · answer #5 · answered by blonde_bitch_norris 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Hey, listen pal. I didn't have time for this childish stuff with my own now ex. Why would I have time for your high school games? If I wanted all these narcissistic head games I would call my ex.
2006-12-03 20:26:22 · answer #6 · answered by TotallylovesTodd! 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i finally found the question that started it all. you have a serious problem. you can't face the facts that it maybe was you that chased your wife away instead of her sister. you need therapy soon. good luck.
2006-12-03 20:46:44 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
y didnt she stand up for your marriage. why does her sis have a problem with you and you should think about whether or not it is worth the work of getting back with her.
2006-12-03 19:32:50 · answer #8 · answered by Quociana L 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep praying for her, you both need healing, the devil will try everything to keep u 2 apart.....God bless ya
2006-12-03 19:55:26 · answer #9 · answered by Bert 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Sounds like B.S. to me.
2006-12-03 20:42:11 · answer #10 · answered by WestCoastin4Life 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋