Family & Relationships - 3 December 2006

there is this guy and i like him and he likes me back. i am gunna see him next weekend and now whenever i see him i get like really nervous and it is hard to talk and i shake!! i know ir sounds retarded but i try so hard not to and i cant quit. and he told his friend the next time that he sees me that he is gunna ask me out !! i am really excited but when i say yes i dont wanna be to desprate and i dont wanna be like ooo i got to think about it cause than he might think i dont like him . so i have 2 questions how can i get rid of my nerves and wat do i say when he asks me out ?? PLEASE HELP !!!

2006-12-03 10:36:34 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I've been out a few times with this guy, and he hasn't made the first move. I think it's because he's gentlemanly (if thats a word) Have you ever been afraid to make the first move because you didn't find an appropriate time.... what are reasons for waiting?

2006-12-03 10:35:58 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I find myself wanting to be alone more often. For some reason I just don't want to be around people. Does anybody else feel this way?

2006-12-03 10:35:50 · 6 answers · asked by Richard H 2 in Singles & Dating

its kyrah

2006-12-03 10:35:32 · 10 answers · asked by kyrah K 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

My boyfriend and I have been dating a year, and the more time goes on the more frustrated I become with our one complete disconnect. It's like we speak two completely different languages--I'm tactile, he's verbal. He'll compliment me profusely on my beauty and other aspects, but I don't believe them if actions do not follow--it is not uncommon for us to go a month without even kissing each other. Conversely, he's confused why I am so physical--and often makes teases me because of it. I do feel shallow for being so frustrated, but it's becoming undeniable that chemistry is very important to me. We've never even had a fight, which I would love just as a revelation of passion!

Is it worth it to even try to work on it--or should it chemistry just naturally be present? Can chemistry be created?

2006-12-03 10:34:24 · 1 answers · asked by Issy 1 in Singles & Dating

Im 15 years old and my boyfriend is 16...what should i get him for christmas?

2006-12-03 10:34:12 · 11 answers · asked by Ashley010 5 in Singles & Dating

I cant stop thinking of this guy when he isnt near me but when he is near me i really dont care if he is there

2006-12-03 10:33:36 · 7 answers · asked by Ria V 1 in Singles & Dating

so ok i have this friend and we are really go friends i called her at her dads house and her cousin was like you should stop calling emily, emily dont like you anymore and i drove me nuts what should i do

2006-12-03 10:33:36 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I have been chatting with this guy for almost a year online. He has been in Iraq. He has called me from time to time during this year. Some of the conversations have been racey. He told me last week he was coming back soon and would like to meet. He called me this past friday when he was enroute to home and told me he wanted me to be one of the first phone calls he makes on American soil. I am wondering if he is just horny or looking for more?

2006-12-03 10:33:06 · 5 answers · asked by txnative1106 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-03 10:32:34 · 19 answers · asked by carol s 1 in Singles & Dating

I'm looking for serious answers here. Nothing along the lines of "duh" or "of course".

I'm just wondering, because I haven't been able to find a woman who thinks that it's important for a man to live his life with integrity. Most women that I know think that it's great when a man is unfaithful, lazy, bullying, and dishonest in general. They view him as being a "bad boy" who has "edge" and is a "challenge".

On the other hand, a man who is confident, mentally and physically healthy, a community leader, intelligent, romantic, honest, and would be a devoted husband and father, is seen as "boring" and "too nice".

Why is this? Do these women have low self-esteem and think that they don't deserve better . . . or, do men of integrity have to start being losers in order for women to appreciate them?

I look forward to your intelligent and well-thought-out answers.

2006-12-03 10:31:16 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-12-03 10:29:41 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I know this girl who is younger than me. im 17 turning 18 in may, and she is turning 14 in one week. all my friends say that i shouldnt be interested in her, but i am. nothing sexual, i just love to be around this girl. any feedback is appreciated.

2006-12-03 10:29:22 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

We dated 2 years. He broke up with me 5 days after my birthday and 6 days before our 2 year anniversary. 1 year and 3 months into our relationship he broke up with me cause he liked another girl, Darlene. Break up lasted half a day cause I cried and convinced him why we belong together. 6 months later he breaks up with me, cause he liked Darlene again, break-up lasted 1 week, and he wanted me back. I took him back, stupid me.

2 months after that, he leaves me for a new girl, Farah. And now its been 2 months, and I havent seen him or talked to him.

I feel like a complete idiot, who is so insecure. I still love him and want me back, and he was just using me.

I know I'll find someone else who will love me, but, I dont get why I am so upset and sad over him? I truly feel like he is making a big mistake and he is the love of my life. Or am I just delerious?

2006-12-03 10:29:20 · 5 answers · asked by confusedbrowngirl 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-03 10:29:19 · 27 answers · asked by Casper 1 in Family

I normaly only go out with 9th graders-10th graders, but I changed that bcuz I realy liked this 8th grade boy and he realy likes me butwhen we talk on the phone he never talks to me I always have to do all the talkin.It's like Im talking to myself sometimes.If that is the case I could call my friends and talk, I mean Im in 8th grade and is extremely mature I need some one on my level?What should I do should I try the change or break it off and stick to 9th and 10th graders?

2006-12-03 10:27:39 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am specifically looking for a very large man below the waist.... for immediate use - tonight or this week. Don't say you !

2006-12-03 10:27:22 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Its True

2006-12-03 10:27:07 · 19 answers · asked by straight_a_popstar 1 in Friends

2006-12-03 10:26:44 · 5 answers · asked by ponyexpress304 1 in Singles & Dating

Anyone have any ideas of fun, exotic sex games to play with my boyfriend. thanks

2006-12-03 10:26:05 · 3 answers · asked by Babydoll 2 in Marriage & Divorce

My wife beats me often by developing some argument, even if I keep my mouth shut. Couple of months back she bet me on my birth day with a clock so hardly in my left arm. It hurted at that time and I felt ok after that. But it started paining after a month and after consulting a doctor he prescribed with medication and referred me to physical therapy. Now I am attanding physical therapy classes and taking medication as still there is pain in my left arm.
The funny or tragic thing is, a few minutes after beating me she'll start crying, saying like, 'oh I am really sorry, I have been so arrogent and I should not have behaved like this with you'.
I threatened her few times, if she ever hit me again, I'll divorce her. She threatens me back, If I divorce her, she'll commit suicide.
I am really in a pathetic situation. I neither can live with her nor leave her. Please please someone give me advise to come out of this problem.

2006-12-03 10:25:35 · 28 answers · asked by gamalraj 1 in Marriage & Divorce

my boyfriend, who i love deeply and live a very involved life has recently been very hard to deal with.

To explain. I found out I was pregnant and we deciding an abortion was the right thing to do because of are careers. This was even after he was very against ever ending a life like that, because he recently lost his sister. I felt loved to know he would change his views because he cared about me. Well instead of being their through the process he was out every night at bars, lying advoiding hanging out with me, hanging out with girls behind my back, and than i became a *****, i was hormonal and felt cheated and alone, had no family or friends only he knew i was pregnant. Now that I had the abortion and have forgiven him, he has now continued to yell and pick fights with me ever day. he says i became such a ***** than, yells at me for getting the wrong thing at the store and accuses me cheating, most of all tells me i need to learn to just shut up every time i try to talk to him.

2006-12-03 10:24:59 · 12 answers · asked by bqbalchick 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-03 10:24:37 · 9 answers · asked by Craven L 6 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-12-03 10:24:05 · 9 answers · asked by that kid 2 in Singles & Dating

I am trying to decide what to get my dad for christmas, i usually get him something involving work and i don't want to do that this time can someone tell me a good presents for dad's? Thanx=)

2006-12-03 10:23:49 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2006-12-03 10:22:53 · 17 answers · asked by speechlessneanderthal 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-12-03 10:22:48 · 4 answers · asked by hi 1 in Family

I really like this girl....
we are seniors in high school... i see her in school and we know each other... she wave at me when she see me...
I have been liking her for over a year now...just never had the courage to act until now
Well she does seem to pay more attention to me now than before....

If she is sad.. i always try to comfort her.. trying to made her laugh.. Especially when she wanted to cry... if she seems bored i try to talk to her
I want to protect her.
I give her gifts
I just asked her out for movie next weekend with friends... how can i use this chance??

Does she not see i like her?
or does she see it but just ignoring me since she doesnt like me?
Or am i missing her hints?
Right now... the only thing i can think of left to do is say that "i love you"
I want her... each day is getting more and more painful. Now whenever i think of her, my whole body feels sore and suffocating

I really want her to be my prom partner in June.

2006-12-03 10:22:38 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Who is your favourite person or least favourite person in your life right now, or you've had in your life..... and why!?

2006-12-03 10:21:59 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

i just saw my ex b/f and the sight of him makes me sick to my stomach.How do i get over it?

2006-12-03 10:21:29 · 26 answers · asked by IT'S JUST ME ! 7 in Marriage & Divorce